All the gods refuse to fall in love together.

All the gods refuse to fall in love together.

What is love brain?

1. Afraid of falling in love, I feel that I often meet "love rat/love rat".

When talking to others, you can't leave your boyfriend in three sentences.

The more you love, the more you feel inferior. I always feel that people outside are eyeing your other half.

4. The brain circuit is clear, and the thinking of the love brain does not mean that you don't like me = like me, say that you don't like me = have someone you like, and refuse me = have difficulties.

When you are in love, there is no self, and the whole world revolves around one person. I hope there is no private space for each other, otherwise I will not love.

6. I am very afraid of the loss of novelty. If it is a little dull, I feel that my feelings are in jeopardy.

7. Become extremely emotional, unable to think rationally, and like to play "emotional cards" when something happens.

8. Excessive dependence on each other, poor independence and lack of security.

9. Concessions without a bottom line often make the other side lose its principles.

10. Very concerned about each other's every move.

1 1. This relationship has not made you better and better.

12. It's easy to be moved. No matter how big the mistake the other party made, as long as it is a little coaxed, it will be forgiven without a bottom line.

13. fantasize about what you are doing with each other every day and think about each other all the time.

14. Sensitive and possessive

15. You can give up your bright future in order to get closer to each other.

It's not terrible to love the brain. Many people have a little "love brain" in the early days of love.

The key is to recognize your love brain and change it.

How to reject the love brain

1. The key to getting rid of the love brain is to learn to love yourself.

Love yourself is the first. In order to optimize the relationship between marriage and love, consider yourself first, whether you want it or not, whether you like it or not, and whether you are happy or not. Don't wronged yourself again and again in order to accommodate the other party, and don't be anxious because the other party didn't reply to the message in time. We should have our own life and learn to give ourselves a sense of security. Look at yourself and each other with a holistic view, don't add filters to him, no one is perfect, and so is love.

2. Feelings should stop loss in time

If you are anxious, suffering and uncomfortable in your marriage relationship, stop the loss in time. Love is just a part of life, even if it is lost, we can still survive. Friendship, career, study, there are many things worth investing in this world.

Get out of your comfort zone

Don't let life revolve around a man. When a person has no other sustenance and no other outlet in life, it is easy to become paranoid in love. Don't make your life too small, try to get out of your comfort zone, meet different people, learn different things and enjoy different scenery. The world is so big, but love only accounts for one third of the land.

Never be easily moved by cheap details.

Don't be moved too easily because of ten sausages, a few small details and a few sweet words. If a boy knows a girl's heart too well, it is likely that practice makes perfect, and the predecessors planted trees and the descendants enjoyed the cool. The details of the moment are very simple, and the unity of knowing and doing for a lifetime is commendable. Emotionally, girls get more, boys get less, and when you don't get married because of those details, his mind for you will have faded.

5. Keep your bottom line

Don't compromise again and again for the so-called "no separation". Many girls may have had such anxiety, "I am afraid that he will leave me if he refuses." In fact, courting and keeping a low profile not only won't get more love, but will make the other person despise you again and again, just like the female companion in some TV dramas has given everything. In love, we should stick to our own bottom line and put forward our own requirements appropriately. People who love you will naturally respect your choice.

6. Be less emotional and more rational

In feelings, we should talk about the facts and don't make too many emotional associations. It is easy for the love brain to involve a lot of "past events" because of one thing to deepen the pain of two people. For example, it may be a trivial matter that her boyfriend doesn't reply to the news all afternoon, but it is easy for a girl who is out of her mind to think of the hurtful things her boyfriend has done before, and deepen her pain and condemn her boyfriend by turning over old scores.

7. only look at each other's behavior and guess less about the ideas behind them.

Don't have too many illusions, and think less about each other's behavior and emotions. Don't think about whether he doesn't like me just because he doesn't look for you. Don't think about whether he gave me a cold shoulder and perfunctory me because of a simple "well". Don't think about whether he is stingy and haggle over every ounce. Let him just look at his behavior and not guess his thoughts, and he will get better and better.

8. Be a soft-spoken girl.

The antonym of hard mouth and soft heart is hard mouth and sweet mouth, but don't take some things too seriously. There are many men in the world. This is not suitable. Just change it. Don't just talk hard, but you can't bear it in your heart. A really powerful person, calm in mouth and firm in behavior.

9. Don't go around others.

Look less at other people's circle of friends, gossip less, and fight less online. It is consumption for the heart to revolve around others; It is nourishing that the heart revolves around itself. Take care of your own land, and be less diligent and thankless about other people's affairs.

10. directly choose the person with 90 points.

Don't choose a person with 60 points, try to transform him into a person with 90 points. Don't make do with it. What made you uncomfortable is over. Don't think that your nagging education can change a person. Why do you want to get rid of other people's habits for decades because of your three or two sentences? Men's so-called game of quitting smoking and drinking is largely a joke. Think, "What do you want and what can he bring you?"