I started dating my boyfriend in college and have been working in this city since graduation. We are all from the countryside. I'm from Shaoxing, and he's from Tongxiang, a villager.

Honey, let me give you my opinion. First of all, I think you and your boyfriend have an emotional foundation, but this society is realistic after all. We don't necessarily need a rich partner, but you grew up in a better environment. Do you think you can get used to worrying about the mortgage every day? I don't think women can be desperate because of love. Women should learn to love themselves, not to make you worship money, but to make you understand that marriage is a big deal. I have seen many examples of you. Men and women are different. Women want security. Men should be confident. Your condition is much better than that of your boyfriend. If he feels inferior in the future, he will definitely hurt you. Getting married is your own business. You should think it over, or don't worry.