The example of "self-mockery" is urgent! !

1,1February 9, 930, which happened to be Cai Yuanpei's 70th birthday. People from all walks of life in Shanghai hosted a banquet to welcome him. At the banquet, he thanked me humorously and said, "You came to celebrate my birthday, but you always asked me to do something for a few more years. Living to 70 years old, I feel that I have done something wrong in these 69 years. If I want to live a few more years, I just want to do something wrong for a few more years. "

Hearing this, the guests burst into laughter, and the whole banquet was full of laughter. Imagine that if he put on a serious face and made a formal thank-you speech, there would definitely be no such relaxed and happy atmosphere. However, when using the "lubricant" of self-mockery, we should pay attention to the scene and situation, which is not suitable for serious occasions or sad atmosphere.

After the victory of Anti-Japanese War, Zhang Daqian returned to his hometown in Sichuan from Shanghai. Before he left, his friends gave him a farewell dinner and invited Mei Lanfang and others to accompany him. The banquet began, and everyone asked Zhang Daqian to sit first. Zhang said: "Mr. Mei is a gentleman and should sit at the top. I am a villain and should accompany the last seat. " Mei Lanfang and others don't understand its meaning.

Zhang Daqian explained: "Isn't there a saying that' a gentleman speaks, a villain does it'?" Teacher Mei's singing is lip service, while my painting is hands-on. I should let Mr Mei Qing sit down first. "All the guests smiled and asked them to sit side by side in the first seat. Zhang Daqian laughed at himself as a villain, as if he were laughing at himself. But "the meaning of drunkenness is not wine" not only shows Zhang Daqian's open mind, but also creates a relaxed and harmonious conversation atmosphere.

3. British writer Jestadon is a big fat man. Because of his "size", he is often inconvenient to move. But he is not ashamed of being fat, just as romulo is not ashamed of being short, "willing to be a dwarf forever". Once he said to his friend, "I am a person who is three times kinder than others." Every time you give up your seat on the bus, it is enough for three ladies to sit down. "

On one occasion, Chen Yi went to a relative's house for the Mid-Autumn Festival. When you find a good book when you enter the door, you concentrate on reading it and mark it with a brush while reading it. The host urged him to eat several times, but when he didn't go, the host brought bazin and sugar. While reading and eating, he actually dipped his bazin into the inkstone and sent it directly to his mouth. Relatives burst into laughter as soon as they met.

He said, "It doesn't matter if you eat some ink. I just feel that there is too little ink in my stomach! " "People love Chen Yi, isn't it related to his open-minded and humorous nature?

When someone wants to go abroad for further study, his wife said half jokingly, "You may see other women when you go to that world of flowers!" He smiled and said, "Look at my face: I have a flat face and round legs. I'm afraid I can't lift my head standing on the road! " A word amused his wife.

Everyone is afraid to mention his appearance defects, but this husband can accept his birth defects and doesn't care about exposing ugliness. This self-mockery reflects the modality of sugar and wine and the wisdom of life. Isn't it better than solemnly swearing to your wife that you will never have sex? At this time, he must become beautiful and lovely in the eyes of his wife.