The daughter married her son, and the mother asked the man to give her a bride price of 200 thousand. Is mother's request too much?

I think it's not too much for the mother to ask the man to give her daughter a bride price of 200 thousand. I don't think it's too much, because no matter whose daughter gets married, we must give the corresponding bride price. Later, the mother dropped from 200,000 to 65,438+million, but the man still felt that 65,438+million was too much. Today, I will tell you what happened.

It is not unusual in today's society that a girl marries her son and her mother wants a bride price of 200,000 yuan. On the whole, the girl is still injured. If the marriage doesn't work out, the girl will definitely get hurt in the end. The girl works in Taiyuan and meets her current boyfriend Xiaowen. The two young people are congenial and love each other very much. Xiaowen also wants to be with his girlfriend, but Xiaowen's mother doesn't agree, because the girl is a foreigner and may run away with a bride price without a marriage certificate, so she wants two people to get a marriage certificate, which is exactly what the two boys mean, and then the boys hope to be together aboveboard.

Xiaowen chose to go to his girlfriend's house to propose marriage. I didn't expect his girlfriend's mother to ask for 200 thousand, otherwise she wouldn't agree to this marriage. Xiao Wen was really surprised, because in local customs, the bride price is only 654.38+ 10,000 yuan. His girlfriend, the lion, asked for a bride price of 200 thousand. Xiaowen told her mother-in-law that there was too much money to take out. Can she go down? And the girl's mother said that the bride price is the guarantee of your life. How can I give my daughter happiness if I can't get 200 thousand bride price?

The girl persuaded her mother that the bride price was only 6.5438+10,000 yuan. Seeing that her mother and her boyfriend were in a fight, the girl chose to give in and said to her mother, can you lower the bride price? I am pregnant. He won't marry me at this time. I can only have an abortion, which has side effects on my health. The girl's mother was also surprised. Obviously, her mother didn't guess that her daughter was pregnant, so the girl's mother chose to lower it. In this way, the two families agreed that the bride price was 654.38+ 10,000. As the days passed, the young man's wedding schedule was also put on the agenda.

But the man only gave the woman a bride price of 60 thousand, which made her mother very angry. Just ask, what does your family mean? Only 60 thousand was given. At that time, we agreed that the bride price was 6,543,800 yuan. It is impossible to marry my daughter for 60 thousand yuan. I really can't trust you with your attitude.

The girl's mother said that they were pregnant before they got married, which obviously didn't allow her to discuss cooking raw rice into mature rice. It has been like this before marriage. After marriage, the daughter has no happiness guarantee, which is simply disrespectful to the woman. Moreover, at that time, the bride price dropped from 200,000 to 65,438+10,000, which was the biggest concession. If this kind of thing gets out, everyone is afraid of neighbors' jokes.

Xiaowen was driven out of the house, and Xiaowen felt very uncomfortable. He went back and told his mother. Her mother said that if she waited a little longer, she would certainly be able to make up the rest of the money in two years, and she would be able to add 20 thousand in two years. Xiaowen told the news to the girl's mother, and the girl's mother thought it was ok. After all, my daughter is pregnant, so it's hard to end it. However, at this time, Xiaowen's mother called and said to give him 1 10,000 yuan. She changed her mind too quickly. The girl's mother only spent 1 ten thousand yuan to marry her daughter in the past two years, and there will be no good life in the future.

Xiaowen told her mother-in-law that her family had just built a new house and there was no extra money. In addition, her grandfather died, and there is no extra money in the family to pay the bride price. She begged for forgiveness. The girl's mother is also in a dilemma because her daughter's mother thinks she is not selling her daughter. There are two brothers in the girl's house. When the two sons got married, the conditions were not bad. There is only one daughter in the family, and they want her to live a happy life. Unexpectedly, at this time, my daughter became impatient, took Xiaowen's hand and ran directly, saying that she must marry Xiaowen, regardless of whether her mother agreed or not. The mother didn't let go when she saw it, thinking that her daughter was just stubborn for a while.

My personal opinion is also very simple. I don't think the girl's mother used her daughter to do business. At first, she wanted 200 thousand because she felt that the man didn't respect the girl and got her pregnant before marriage. This clearly shows that she wants her daughter to marry him without paying any bride price. The man's parents are so unreasonable that they won't pay 20 thousand for two years I'm afraid this family will have to eat some salt if they get married. The man seems to be showing off that his bride price is a bargaining price, and a low-priced bride price can get a wife. Marriage is not a sale, but the first thing to understand is that marriage must have an extension of material foundation. Without any material foundation, how to get married and why to give the beloved girl the environment she wants. The girl is stubborn now, and she will regret it one day.