How to make the in-laws look at jokes after marriage?

Nowadays, many female friends have been improving their social status, but in marriage, especially in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, they have always been in a position of suffering indignities. Of course, most women in the husband's family are in an uncompromising position. Inevitably, there will be some insults. Perhaps many people don't understand, how can there be a daughter-in-law who suffers indignities in today's society? In fact, in today's society, those daughters-in-law will still suffer indignities, which may be the reason why they suffer indignities in their husband's family under these conditions.

1. Try not to bow your head at work.

After marriage, some mother-in-law will ask their daughter-in-law, such as quitting their jobs as soon as possible and taking care of all kinds of things at home. Usually, the mother-in-law here will say that there is no need for a daughter-in-law to make money, just take care of the family and be a relaxed wife in the future, so much the better. This sounds sweet, and many women may be moved and eventually choose to give up their jobs and become full-time wives. However, many women find that when they become full-time wives, there are many trivial matters at home, and they may be looked down upon by their families in many cases. In the long run, it will be too closed and lead to social disconnection. Slowly, you may lose your value and have no right to speak in the family, which will eventually lead to serious disconnection from your partner and emotional breakdown.

Don't bow your head for the benefit of your family.

Now that she is married, she has the right to speak at family meetings. But in many cases, women basically have no right to express their opinions at family meetings. Even if she has the right to speak, her husband-in-law's family will take this as a reference opinion, and in the end, her husband-in-law's opinion will be the main one. At this time, although women were treated unfairly, considering family harmony, they often submit to humiliation without any rebuttal. In fact, after two people get married, the woman and her husband's family spend a very long time together, so don't bow your head when it comes to their own family interests, otherwise you will gradually lose your right to speak, and with blind tolerance, you will eventually suffer more and more grievances.

Don't bow to economic rights.

Women must plan the dowry before marriage and the financial power at home after marriage in advance. The bride price and dowry are all women's own, and can't be confiscated just because of some good words from her mother-in-law, because they are women's property and can't be handed in at will. After marriage, women should have reasonable control over family economic rights and make good financial planning, otherwise they will be passive and often angry in the future.