Why are men always a little macho?

Why are men always a little macho? Without male chauvinism, you can choose to hug a man and give him a sense of security.

Why are men so macho? Because men are proud of themselves and can't understand the people around them. They don't know that they have hurt others. They don't even know their own definition of male chauvinism (I am a boy, selling cute).

Why do I think most excellent boys are a little male chauvinistic? Because you like which one, you don't like the weak one.

Why male chauvinism. Male chauvinism means that men should take good care of their families and things around them. And hides the thoughtfulness and gentleness of women. Because it makes them feel weak. They chose to be strong, chose to bear the responsibility of men with strength, and pushed the little things around them to their lovers.

Why is male chauvinism so serious in Shandong? Should not be considered as male chauvinism. They believe in the principle that men are the masters outside and women are the masters inside. Basically, outsiders will mistake it for male chauvinism If, as in some places, the woman is in charge and the man is in charge, it will be laughed at.

What is male chauvinism? Male chauvinism in the new era should be a big event. If you don't want women to be too wordy, small things will follow.

Directory of male chauvinism

The origin of male chauvinism

The meaning of male chauvinism

A manifestation of male chauvinism

The reason of male chauvinism

The harm of male chauvinism

True male chauvinism

A manifestation of true male chauvinism.

Evaluation of two kinds of male chauvinism

What should men do?

What should men do?

[Edit this paragraph] The origin of male chauvinism

Male chauvinism is inseparable from China's feudal ideology of "men are superior to women" for thousands of years. The universal life style of farming by men and weaving by women created the first group of male chauvinists: men are the main body of family and society, and at that time, the strength given to men by God was a necessary and sufficient condition for social progress. Therefore, a wife has no choice but to obey her husband, which is the so-called "three obedience and four virtues". In feudal society, women had no social status. They marry chickens and follow dogs, and all the power of life and death is in the hands of men. "I can ride the horse that my wife bought, and I can beat it." The husband can act recklessly, but the wife can't be angry at all. Today, although this phenomenon has changed to a great extent, traces of this brand can still be seen in most men.

[Edit this paragraph] The meaning of male chauvinism

What exactly is male chauvinism? Neither Modern Chinese Dictionary nor Cihai has given a clear definition. From the perspective of folk language, male chauvinists are first of all a group that is not good at communicating with women. Men in China are relatively weak in communication, and male chauvinists are even weaker because they don't work hard subjectively. Secondly, these men are self-centered and don't care about other people's feelings no matter what they do.

Generally speaking, the so-called male chauvinism is a theory and behavior that men should be above women and control them. Unlike "wife haters", "male chauvinists" believe that men should play an important role in life, and wives should be satisfied with her position below men.

[Edit this paragraph] The performance of male chauvinism

Male chauvinists, both at home and in society, discriminate against their wives' abilities and status, believing that all power is in men's hands, everything is their own decision, and wives are not allowed to know and interfere in major and minor matters. Right or wrong, what he said is right. At any time, he can't hold his head in front of his wife. In treating his wife, there is basically no emotional and spiritual communication. Everything is as he wishes. Condemn the slightest dissatisfaction. If he moves, he will meet his fists and never care about each other's feelings. The same is true in husband and wife life. You can have sex whenever you want, regardless of the other person's physical condition and whether they are interested or not. After the storm, you fell asleep. For your wife, it is a great sense of * * *.

The concrete manifestation of this theory in the family is:

He has the final say in everything, and his wife has no right to decide, speak or even know;

He is always right and his wife is always wrong;

He doesn't do housework, look after children, and doesn't want to go shopping with his wife.

He became angry from embarrassment outside, and all the grievances were made up to his wife, who was his punching bag;

He is the master and his wife is the servant. His wife should do all the housework. He is used to enjoying success.

Outside, he shouted to his wife to safeguard his man's "dignity", and her wife could only swallow it;

He arrogantly asked his wife to be nice to him, but he didn't pay;

He has an affair himself, but he doesn't allow his wife to have proper contact with any man. Even my wife's halter tops and miniskirts can only be worn by herself at home.

[Edit this paragraph] The causes of male chauvinism

Generally speaking, because of poor skills and limited ability, men are unable to gain a foothold in society and lack self-confidence. It is also difficult for them to command others with their charm and win their respect, so they have to go home and give orders to their wives to find a psychological balance. The reason why my wife can stand this so-called male chauvinism is because of love! Otherwise, I would have left! They regard their wives' love as a tool to find psychological balance, so as to gain a sense of satisfaction and superiority, so as to satisfy their desire for control and possession, and thus male chauvinism appears.

However, the 200 1 human gene sequence published in the journal Science shows that human genes are more than 99% similar, and the remaining differences are mainly on the male Y chromosome. Is there any existence created by the hand of God? Readers distinguish clearly.

[Edit this paragraph] The harm of male chauvinism

The harm of male chauvinism is various, which will cause family disharmony and children's resistance. If this phenomenon expands viciously and goes to extremes, it is often the main reason for the breakdown of marriage. In some cases, it even leads to crime.

[Edit this paragraph] Real male chauvinism

True male chauvinism means that a man always plays an important role in society, unit and family. He lives in harmony, respects his wife and brings happiness and security to his wife and children. His words and deeds are convincing and admirable. He understands his wife's shortcomings and tries to correct them.

[Edit this paragraph] Real male chauvinism.

People always play an important role in society, units and families. Although this man often shows his hegemony, he can provoke the burden of life and bring happiness and security to people around him. His words are convincing and admirable and can be appreciated by his wife; He has a man's generous heart, does not haggle over every ounce, and takes protecting his wife and children as his own responsibility, so he can get the respect of his wife.

The concrete manifestation of this theory in the family is:

He thinks it his duty to take care of his wife and children. It is his fault that his wife and children are cold and hungry, and he will be sad.

He didn't let his wife worry about him, and he was wronged and resisted alone;

He didn't take the initiative to provoke a war against his wife to convince people. He knows that quarreling can't solve the problem, and even if he is angry, he won't hit his wife.

The wife wants to give him face outside, but she can lose face at home;

All the mistakes are said at home. Although verbally dissatisfied, I will accept my wife's advice in my heart.

Although he doesn't talk about his love for his family, he will keep his wife and children in his heart;

He will make constructive comments on his wife's life, but he will not force her;

He is very generous and has a large number of books. He trusts and trusts his wife.

[Edit this paragraph] Evaluation of two kinds of male chauvinism

Women have the most say in whether male chauvinism is right or wrong! It is also "male chauvinism", but the two realms are far apart. The "male chauvinism" advocated by women is a gentle love management mode, not a condescending oppression and rule. A woman's face is full of enviable sweetness when she recalls the romantic story of her overbearing husband. Many years ago, this woman and her husband were poor students. On the way home from an outing, they were tired and hungry, so he took her to a snack bar to have a rest. They each ordered what they liked to eat, but felt their wallets, only to find that there was not much money left. The money could have bought two cheap steamed buns, but he did not hesitate to buy her favorite beef rice noodles. He knows that southerners prefer rice noodles to spaghetti. She suggested that he buy more steamed buns to satisfy his hunger, but he said firmly, "I've decided!" " "My mother recalled that moment and said sweetly," At that moment, I was shocked! I like his bullying at that time. "Next, she wants to share with her. He said, "I won't eat. I bought it for you. I like watching you eat. " He put beef rice noodles in front of her, took apart chopsticks, picked up some silk and gave it to her with a gentle blow: "Come, I'll feed you ... Be careful!" " "At that moment, it seemed as if there were only two of them in the world. Completely surrendered by her, such a domineering man reveals a sense of security in his bones. It turns out that women don't reject all bullying by men.

The kind of man who shows off how he is at home is actually very sad male chauvinism. They regard their wives' love as a tool to find psychological balance. This is a blasphemy against love! How can such a man be "big"? This is a beggar who takes advantage of his psychological advantage of begging! Damn it! Shame! Mean! Pathetic!

[Edit this paragraph] What should men do?

A man is a man because he is born with an obligation to make the person he loves happy. This obligation needs love to be fulfilled. Without love, it is impossible to give and fulfill a man's natural obligations, so not all men are born men. Men also need to constantly cultivate themselves and develop a broad mind and dedication to become a good man.

Love needs mind and tolerance. You can give your loved ones a free space to be spoiled and willful, even some shortcomings and mistakes that have nothing to do with principles. The deeper you love, the more this tolerance can come from the heart and become an internal quality and a natural expression of love. Without this tolerance, there is no love, and you are not worthy to be an excellent man!

Is to ignore other people's opinions

Treat women as accessories.

And no respect for people.

This is called male chauvinism.

Can hurt and love.

But no respect.

What is male chauvinism? Male chauvinism is inseparable from China's feudal ideology of "men are superior to women" for thousands of years. The universal life style of farming by men and weaving by women created the first group of male chauvinists: men are the main body of family and society, and at that time, the strength given to men by God was a necessary and sufficient condition for social progress. Therefore, a wife has no choice but to obey her husband, which is the so-called "three obedience and four virtues". However, male chauvinism is also a word with advantages and disadvantages. Male chauvinism in the new era keeps the inherent fortitude and responsibility of men while removing the old drawbacks, which is also commendable for male chauvinists.

The origin of male chauvinism

In feudal society, women had no social status. They marry chickens and follow dogs, and all the power of life and death is in the hands of men. "I can ride the horse that my wife bought, and I can beat it." The husband can act recklessly, but the wife can't be angry at all. Today, although this phenomenon has changed to a great extent, traces of this brand can still be seen in individual men.

The meaning of male chauvinism

What exactly is male chauvinism? Neither Modern Chinese Dictionary nor Cihai has given a clear definition. From the perspective of folk language, male chauvinists should be a group that is not good at communicating with women, but the specific situation varies from person to person. Generally speaking, the so-called male chauvinism is a theory and behavior that men should be above women and control them. Unlike "wife haters", "male chauvinists" believe that men should play an important role in life, and wives should be satisfied with her position below men. However, it is unfair to think that male chauvinism is a shortcoming of men. Male chauvinism is also a very complicated word, which makes women love and hate. However, when a person is given this title, he is still very useful. Male chauvinism is an excusable man's "shortcoming", which, like a typhoon, is defined as "disastrous climate". However, it can alleviate drought, cool down and even have some wild beauty.

The performance of old-fashioned male chauvinism

The performance of the old-style male chauvinism is that it discriminates against the wife's ability and status at home and in society, and thinks that all power is in the hands of men, and everything is decided by themselves, and the wife is not allowed to know and interfere in major and minor matters. Right or wrong, what he said is right. At any time, he can't hold his head in front of his wife. In treating his wife, there is basically no emotional and spiritual communication. Everything is as he wishes. Condemn the slightest dissatisfaction. If he moves, he will meet his fists and never care about each other's feelings. The same is true in husband and wife life. You can have sex whenever you want, regardless of the other person's physical condition and whether they are interested or not. After the storm, you fell asleep. For your wife, it is a great sense of * * *. The concrete manifestation of this theory in the family is that he has the final say in everything, and his wife has no right to decide, speak or even know; He is always right and his wife is always wrong; He doesn't do housework, look after children, and doesn't want to go shopping with his wife. He became angry from embarrassment outside, and all the grievances were made up to his wife, who was his punching bag; He is the master and his wife is the servant. His wife should do all the housework. He is used to enjoying success. Outside, he shouted to his wife to safeguard his man's "dignity", and her wife could only swallow it; He arrogantly asked his wife to be nice to him, but he didn't pay; He has an affair himself, but he doesn't allow his wife to have proper contact with any man. Even my wife's halter tops and miniskirts can only be worn by herself at home.

The reason of male chauvinism

Generally speaking, because of poor skills and limited ability, men are unable to gain a foothold in society and lack self-confidence. It is also difficult for them to command others with their charm and win their respect, so they have to go home and give orders to their wives to find a psychological balance. The reason why my wife can stand this so-called male chauvinism is because of love! Otherwise, I would have left! They regard their wives' love as a tool to find psychological balance, so as to gain a sense of satisfaction and superiority, so as to satisfy their desire for control and possession, and thus male chauvinism appears. However, the 200 1 human gene sequence published in the journal Science shows that human genes are more than 99% similar, and the remaining differences are mainly on the male Y chromosome. Is there any existence created by the hand of God? People of different classes behave differently.

Advantages and disadvantages of male chauvinism

The main advantage of male chauvinism is that such men usually have strong self-esteem and self-confidence, typical men's courage and creativity, strong planning, determination and courage. They often play an important role in society, units and families, and bring a sense of security to people around them. They can establish a tall and stern father image in front of their children, which has a positive impact on their acquired education and can cultivate their independent character. The harm of male chauvinism is also multifaceted, which will cause family disharmony and children's resistance. If this phenomenon expands viciously and goes to extremes, it is often the main reason for the breakdown of marriage. In some cases, it even leads to crime.

True male chauvinism means that a man always plays an important role in society, unit and family. He lives in harmony, respects his wife and brings happiness and security to his wife and children. His words and deeds are convincing and admirable. He understands his wife's shortcomings and tries to correct them.

A manifestation of true male chauvinism.

People always play an important role in society, units and families. Although this man often shows his hegemony, he can provoke the burden of life and bring happiness and security to people around him. His words are convincing and admirable and can be appreciated by his wife; He has a man's generous heart, does not haggle over every ounce, and takes protecting his wife and children as his own responsibility, so he can get the respect of his wife. The concrete manifestations of this doctrine in the family are: he thinks it is his duty to take care of his wife and children, and it is his fault that his wife and children are hungry and wronged, and he will feel sad; He didn't let his family worry about him, so he fought alone when he was wronged outside. He didn't take the initiative to provoke a war against his family to convince people. He knows that quarreling can't solve the problem, and even if he is angry, he won't beat his wife and children. The wife wants to give him face outside, but she can lose face at home; All the mistakes are said at home. Although verbally dissatisfied, I will accept the advice of my family. Although he does not talk about his love for his family, he will keep his family in his heart; He will put forward constructive opinions in life, but he will not force his wife and children; He is selfless and will never tolerate the bad behavior of his family; He is generous, reassuring his family and trusting his wife and children. Masculinity is an example in the son's mind; Be generous to your friends, cherish every friendship and even do anything for them.

Male chauvinism evaluation

Women have the most say in whether male chauvinism is right or wrong! It is also "male chauvinism", but the two realms are far apart. The "male chauvinism" advocated by women is a gentle love management mode, not a condescending oppression and rule. A woman's face is full of enviable sweetness when she recalls the romantic story of her overbearing husband. Many years ago, this woman and her husband were poor students. On the way home from an outing, they were tired and hungry, so he took her to a snack bar to have a rest. They each ordered what they liked to eat, but felt their wallets, only to find that there was not much money left. The money could have bought two cheap steamed buns, but he did not hesitate to buy her favorite beef rice noodles. He knows that southerners prefer rice noodles to spaghetti. She suggested that he buy more steamed buns to satisfy his hunger, but he said firmly, "I've decided!" " "My mother recalled that moment and said sweetly," At that moment, I was shocked! I like his bullying at that time. "Next, she wants to share with her. He said, "I won't eat. I bought it for you. I like watching you eat. " He put beef rice noodles in front of her, took apart chopsticks, picked up some silk and gave it to her with a gentle blow: "Come, I'll feed you ... Be careful!" " "At that moment, it seemed as if there were only two of them in the world. She was completely surrendered by him, and such a domineering man revealed a sense of security in his bones. It turns out that women do not exclude all bullying by men. Both women and gay men naturally admire the innate masculinity of men. Men in the new era seem to have wisely eliminated the dross of traditional male chauvinism, but maintained their original core advantages such as "strength" and "responsibility" and carried forward the characteristics of calmness, decisiveness, reliability and calmness. Just like Shi Guangrong, who will beat his wife in the TV series "Burning Years", although he is overbearing, he loves his wife in his eyes. Because no matter how the times change, men's personality characteristics cannot be changed and masculinity cannot be lost.

What should men do?

A man is a man because he is born with an obligation to make the person he loves happy. This obligation needs love to be fulfilled. Without love, it is impossible to give and fulfill a man's natural obligations, so not all men are born men. Men also need to constantly cultivate themselves and develop a broad mind and dedication to become a good man. Love needs mind and tolerance. You can give your loved ones a free space to be spoiled and willful, even some shortcomings and mistakes that have nothing to do with principles. The deeper you love, the more this tolerance can come from the heart and become an internal quality and a natural expression of love. Mencius said, "Wealth cannot be lewd, poverty cannot be moved, and power cannot be bent." A real gentleman should be like this. No matter who you associate with, you must adhere to one principle: "Personality is a man's trademark, loyalty is a man's connotation, justice is a man's pursuit, and dignity is a man's bone."