What is the saddest thing for married men?

I heard of such a thing that a friend who had just been married for half a year suddenly divorced. I was shocked. This friend and her husband seem to be quite traditional people! Why did you suddenly play the "flash marriage" in fashion? What the hell is going on? Quite curious! But when I really understood the reason for his flash marriage, I was a little blindsided! It turns out that the husband my friend is looking for belongs to the standard "family-oriented good man" He usually doesn't talk much and doesn't like to go out to socialize. He just likes to stay at home and help his wife do some housework or something. Don't get me wrong, this' help' is not another' help'. He accompanied his wife when she was doing housework, but instead of helping her, he gave her some advice, which she had to listen to. If she doesn't listen, she will turn her face! For example, accompany your wife to buy food, and her wife says to buy a la carte! "Good family man" spoke: "What food to buy! Now the vegetables are sprayed with pesticides, and you want to poison me! " At first glance, it may be a joke! Ok, ok, then listen to you, don't buy it! For another example, the wife mopped the floor hard, and the "family-oriented man" sat on the sofa watching TV while watching his wife gesturing: "There, there, there is no mop in that corner, don't you see there is a lot of dust inside?" "So, so, drag less than you kneel down with a cloth! How stupid! " The wife thinks very grievance: "Otherwise, you also come to help!" " The good man's eyes stared: "I can't even do this little thing well. Do you still need my help?" Listen! Is this what my new husband said? Hey! What can you expect if you don't help with such a trivial matter? I understand that my husband is not joking, and my friends are beginning to feel a little cold. Before I got married, well-meaning advice from my family flashed through my mind one by one. It's a pity that I was naive at the beginning, and I didn't know much about it, so I decided that this quiet and inactive' family man' would give me happiness. But now I understand that there are many kinds of' family men'! You can forget complaining, but the marriage is over and life will go on. Friends think so, but' good men' don't think so! He thought: "I got a beautiful girlfriend, got married, and then turned my beautiful girlfriend into a virtuous wife to serve me, waiting for a good life." How comfortable it will be in the future! " Selfish person, I feel sorry for you! So, then, according to their own ideas, one continues to command from above, and the other continues to listen as patiently as possible; One wants to live a comfortable life, and the other wants to keep the marriage and move towards happiness. Can a marriage like ......................................................................................................................................................... really be happy? One day after two months of marriage, the exhausted wife came home and saw the' good man husband' who was resting at home sitting on the sofa watching TV. When she came back, she glanced faintly: "How did you come back?" Go cook, I'm starving! "In recent months, I have actually seen what kind of person my husband is looking for, but how could he really do such a chilling thing? Endure, already very tired, she still went to the kitchen to cook a simple dinner, while the' good man husband' wiped his mouth after dinner as usual and continued to watch TV. Think about these two months of life, think about the happy marriage that my husband has chosen, I am really tired! Are we going to live like this all the time? Finally, my friend decided to have a good talk with her husband. The outcome of the negotiations can be imagined. Selfish men look at their wives coldly and are indifferent! I really don't understand why such a man wants to find a wife. How good is it to find a nanny directly? Finally, I got married for half a year and agreed to divorce without communication. At the time of divorce, this "good family man" didn't feel that he was wrong, and he said angrily that he really looked at the wrong person. He must find a good wife and mother to be his wife in the future ... Marriage requires the same efforts of two people in marriage; Happiness also needs two people who want to have happiness to build together. If you just want to harvest, want to have and enjoy, but don't want to pay a little, how can such a person deserve happiness? In other words, this' good family man' doesn't love his wife at all, so he can be indifferent, so he can do these chilling things. But I am thinking: Can such a man really love someone? Perhaps, in his heart, he loves himself the most! This is also the biggest sorrow of this married man who has become a husband but doesn't know what responsibility and love are!

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