What happened to the man who married a mistress (the one who married a third party)

According to a set of data on the Internet, 50. 16% of divorces are due to the intervention of a third party.

What happened to the man who married a mistress (the one who married a third party)

According to a set of data on the Internet, 50. 16% of divorces are due to the intervention of a third party. After the divorce, only 10% married a third party; Among them, 80% of men will regret after marrying a third party.

There is a saying in the movie "The Disappearing Girl" that love should have many conditions and restrictions. Love needs both sides to be perfect all the time. Unconditional love is a kind of undisciplined love. Everyone has seen that loose love is a disaster.

Does a man who marries a third party really think that marriage is a disaster after his passion fades? Listen to what they say.

Combining with a third party is really a reckless impulse.

Mr. Zhang, aged 35, is an employee of our company.

I like socializing, and I will definitely invite a few friends to sing, fish or drink and eat every weekend. I met my gift at a dinner party.

At that time, I had been married for almost ten years, and my children were in the fourth grade. My ex-wife has always disliked eating and drinking outside. She always thinks I'm wasting my time. Moreover, after her daughter was born, she devoted herself to her children, and our communication became less and less.

Meet the incumbent at the dinner party.

At that time, I was brave enough to bet on drinking with my friends. Seeing that I lost, I had to give up and finish a case of beer. The incumbent watched me blush and stubbornly tried to finish the whole case of beer. Her mind moved, she stood up and helped me finish the remaining half a box of wine bottle by bottle.

After that, we went out to play every weekend, and I felt that someone could finally talk to me. Finally, my ex-wife found out that I was cheating. She didn't cry or hang herself, but she resolutely divorced, but left my daughter to me, and she left one of the two houses.

The divorce went well and I was happy. The next day, I got the marriage certificate for my present job. I finally don't have to sneak out on a date at the weekend. I'm so happy to think about it.

Soon, trouble came. My daughter failed in the exam, and the class teacher talked to me again and again, so I enrolled my child in a cram school and asked the on-the-job staff to accompany the child to class on weekends.

At present, he is very playful and doesn't want to take care of the children at all. He often keeps them in cram schools. After class, the child saw that no one picked him up, so he went back to her mother in anger.

I have accused the incumbent of being too irresponsible many times, and she gave me a cold smile. If she had a sense of responsibility, she wouldn't marry a third party. Now my daily life is like a chicken flying a dog jumping.

My daughter is my own. I can't leave her alone, but the one now won't help me. At this time, I really think divorce is too hasty.

I have achieved mutual success with a third party.

Mr. Tong, 52, publisher.

The ex-wife is beautiful, capable and has a good family. Although I am a poor boy, she appreciates my talent and my writing, and supports me without regrets. At that time, I was the editor-in-chief of a magazine supplement for ten years, and there was no big development.

Later he resigned and started a publishing house. When I couldn't afford to hire people at first, my ex-wife acted as my employee. She has to answer the phone, answer customers' questions, do accounts as an accountant, and help me read the manuscript so that the children at home can't fall behind in study and life. Now that I think about it, she is really capable.

That afternoon, I sat in front of the window of the cafe and saw a delicate and beautiful woman coming gracefully, with long black hair and big round eyes, which attracted me at once.

Because books are very popular now, my publishing house has made a profit at once. I was so grateful to her that I quickly signed some more books with her. In order to facilitate communication, she moved her home to the opposite side of mine, so that we can associate like neighbors.

There is more communication, and we talk about everything. She will come to my house wearing new clothes and ask me how I am. I will also buy her favorite coffee and send it to her home.

This is how feelings grow. Finally, I think I can't live without my current position, and my publishing house can't live without my current position. I feel sorry for my ex-wife, but my ex-wife gave me everything and didn't want to let go easily. We struggled for more than ten years, and finally, the incumbent found his ex-wife. I don't know what to say, but her ex-wife dropped everything.

My present position and I have made great contributions to each other. I am a successful publisher. She is a famous best-selling author and has influenced many people.

We live to be the love in her book.

I am a springboard for a third party to cross classes.

Mr. Zhao, 43, is the owner of a real estate agency.

I am from the countryside. In order to earn more money, I have done all kinds of dirty jobs. Plus, I got married early and have to support my ex-wife and children. Therefore, I often work hard. Unexpectedly, this desperate saburo drive actually made me meet a noble person and gave me a job in real estate sales.

I finally seized the opportunity, and I gave my life to sell the house. The golden period of ten years of real estate development, coupled with my efforts, made it a gold medal property, saving a lot of money.

Then, several colleagues and I resigned and started a real estate agency in partnership. When the business is on track, I will take my ex-wife to live with me. However, apart from cooking and washing clothes, the ex-wife can do nothing.

I am an accountant in our company. I don't talk much, but I'm smart. I always have unwilling eyes in my eyes. I appreciate this look, as if I were of the same kind. One to two, we will get along well.

Every day after work, I always wait for her to finish the last account and go with her. Driving to the restaurant, eating delicious food and listening to her tell me about the books in the store made me feel at ease and warm.

Later, the incumbent was pregnant with my child, and she didn't ask for anything. I felt I had to give her an explanation, so my ex-wife and I filed for divorce. My ex-wife hanged herself when she cried, but the more noisy she was, the less I liked her. Finally, he compensated his ex-wife for a large sum of money and his son was raised by his ex-wife. I pay alimony every month until I am 20 years old.

I won't know until I get married with a gift. It turns out that my present she didn't divorce her predecessor when she was pregnant with me. Although she is only a small accountant who graduated from a technical secondary school, her predecessor was a famous school, high flyers.

I don't know what means she used to make the university bully take a fancy to herself. However, his predecessor was not satisfied with the step-by-step life after marriage and the proper salary. She wants something better. So, she firmly got rid of her ex-husband and re-entered the workplace.

Now, the incumbent and my children are almost ten years old. My company has more than a dozen chain stores, and employees no longer need to keep accounts. All she has to do is go shopping, get a beauty treatment, and then buy it at buy buy.

Marry me, she said, this is what she wants. Now my daughter has grown up, her IQ has inherited her father's genes, and her academic performance is very good.

Now she is going to send her daughter to the best university abroad, and I will pay for the tuition. No matter what I think, I feel like a fool.

Love is beautiful, but it can't resist the coldness of being unwilling to sacrifice.

Mr. Zhang, 48, is a music producer.

My present job is a singer. When she auditioned for the first time, I knew we were made for each other. She is sexy and Leng Yan, and her voice is soft and delicate. Her image conforms to the indifference of urban women, and her voice can also show that urban women can't stop in love.

Her image and voice are especially suitable for my love songs. Not long after, the film I am working with now won the prize, and she also vividly explained the helpless inner feelings of lonely and haggard urban women in this episode.

Instead of her interpretation, I wrote this song completely according to her voice temperament, the habit of voice transition and the way of voice transition between true and false.

Listening to this song sung in the streets and lanes, I will remember the way her deep eyes looked at me through thick glass when she was recording in the studio, and I vaguely felt that she was passionate about me.

Many things are so natural. Feelings, too, we cooperate perfectly every time and draw closer to each other bit by bit. When we finally understood each other's thoughts, I was as excited as a young man who first fell in love, holding her and smirking.

After the ex-wife found out, she didn't say much, except one sentence. This kind of thing, the parties should each hit fifty times, and no one should pass the buck. Then, divorced me.

I married Fengzi now, and she gave me a daughter. I thought it would last a long time. Unexpectedly, after we got married, we chose different cities because of different development goals.

It is said that distance produces beauty. At first, I thought this sentence made sense. We meet every ten and a half months, just like newlyweds, and it feels very sweet. However, I feel very tired after a long time and always want to spend more time together.

However, neither of us is willing to make sacrifices for the other's cause.

So, in a cold winter, I received a divorce agreement from the warm south in a northern city. At the low tide of my career, I tasted the bitter fruit of life for the first time. I silently dried my tears, signed, closed my pen and walked out of the room.

In winter in the north, the cold wind blew through my clothes, and I felt bitterly cold.

There is a "Coolidge effect" in psychology. Scientists put a male mouse and four or five female mice in a closed box. The male mouse will soon be intimate with all the female mice. At this point, although the female rat will continue to bark, the male rat will not respond again. However, if a new female rat is put in, the male rat will be alert and excited again.

This phenomenon is reflected in every mammal tested-males will get tired of a single female and introduce new members of the opposite sex, which will be more sonorous and lasting.

It is not difficult to see that one of the factors causing Coolidge effect is freshness.

In real life, after a man and a woman have been married for two or three years, the intimate relationship is basically stable and the passion gradually fades. In the eyes of cheaters, marriage is like a stagnant pool, and there is nothing novel. The third party is like a stone falling into a pool of water, and the ripples aroused are enough to arouse the excitement of the derailed person.

In order to seek excitement and freshness, men will boldly cheat. Every contact with a third party is an exciting adventure. Worried about being discovered, but also lucky. After I succeed, I will be complacent and unable to extricate myself.

Some men who cheat in marriage and marry a third party think that they are moths to the fire and pay everything for love, but this is often not the case.

He is probably the last person in his last marriage who is unwilling to give and change.

There is a man who thinks that a wife who marries home should have both the functions of a nanny and a lover.

Women are required to go out of the hall and into the kitchen, but also to take care of children and flirt. But if you can't do anything, you will get bored and run out of the house to find the ideal type.

They are selfish and lack a sense of responsibility. They are little emperors from a noble family. These men are giant babies who don't grow up. They think they are the center of the whole world and should be the center in marriage. But any dissatisfaction will be the reason for his cheating.

Some men will regard the third party as their capital to show off, and use women to set off and embellish their success when they are successful. Prove your ability as a man by how many women you can attract.

A man who abducts a marriage with interests, even if he is happy with a third party, is based on interests. Behind every benefit they get, there may be a heartbroken woman hidden.

Interest exists, relationship exists, interest disappears, relationship disappears. Happiness is based on the benefits of both parties in marriage. Once one party no longer brings benefits, happiness will be fleeting.

People who combine with a third party will have the illusion that the third party is true love. Because the third party needs itself, knows itself, understands itself and appreciates itself. Be able to respond to your expectations and make sacrifices for love.

In fact, isn't this feeling the same as when the last marriage started? Happiness in love is passion, freshness, curiosity, possession and satisfaction.

But once you enter marriage, love needs to fight constantly in the secular dust of daily necessities, and use mutual appreciation and understanding to resolve the power in the moves. If it is not solved, you will drown yourself or your partner in resentment and disgust, and you will find no meaning of marriage, even the third party is no exception.

Those who fail to manage their marriages and betray their lovers have to show double or more courage and willpower to resist their impulse to cheat again if they want to prove themselves in a new intimate relationship.

Because, no matter who, the emotional process and the mode of getting along in marriage are similar. The only difference is whether you really put your heart into your marriage.

No one can expect to get married once and for all. Learning to manage marriage is something that everyone who longs for love will learn all his life.

Marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished.