What does blx mean? How to cure your blx?

What does blx mean? How to cure your blx?

I don't know if there is such a person around you. You can just make a joke and even feel wronged. Actually, he is blx.

To put it simply, Liu Lixin can't stand any injustice and denial, and is particularly sensitive to other people's evaluation. As long as there is a little trouble, he feels very hurt, full of tears and looks very fragile.

It is easy for a person to form blx, which has a lot to do with being protected too well when he was a child. This kind of protection is a bit like adults who don't want to hurt themselves, treat their children as their unfinished childhood wishes and overprotect them in various ways. As long as the child encounters a little setback, he will be extremely nervous, or blame the outside world and others, or do a good job for the child, for fear that the child will be hurt a little, instead of trying to let the child learn how to face setbacks and injuries. Growing up in such an environment, children will feel self-centered and believe that everyone is around them and they are the center of the world. Once their needs are not met, they will show poor victims. It can be said that it is the two extremes of blx.

1. Improve self-identity.

The so-called promotion of self-identity means knowing who you are, what you want, what you can do ... correctly understanding your own value, clarifying your own life goals, and understanding that everyone has different meanings in the world and different roles in society. Even ants can create their own value.

2. Find your own advantages

Everyone has his own strengths, and no one has shortcomings. Even disabled people with two legs may have perseverance that ordinary people don't have; A dumb person who can't talk may have a high IQ. So, no matter how you were born in the first place, or what happened before, you can always see your shining side if you think about it carefully.

Generally speaking, if we have blx, what we need to do is to face ourselves squarely and then find our own advantages, so that our mentality will change and we will not be in blx.