What do you think of dad's marital infidelity?

What can I see? I have a prejudice against my father from now on and I am uncomfortable with him.

My father is good at all kinds of widows. I guess he is afraid that if he finds a husband, he will be beaten by his husband. My mother was furious when she found out, because he gave the extra money to Xiao San instead of my mother. Since then, my mother has been in charge of money in my family, which can't stop his old man from having sex with his aunts who still have charm every chance, but my family is basically harmonious now, because my mother is also cheating.

I'm the only one who hasn't cheated at home. I'm incompetent. It's hard to talk about a boyfriend. Cheating is estimated to kill me. Dogs are powerless. It turns out that the harem is 3 years old, and all the animals nearby live like a big Teddy. Last month, my dad thought he had a bad temper when he was in estrus, so he sent him to have a knife.

My father and mother are the kind of people who didn't have their first love together. My father's first love is now widowed and a university teacher. I have met this aunt, who is very nice and completely innocent with my father. I think the reason why my dad cheated on me can never be blamed on those "wild women" outside. Who can refuse a free labor force who has lost her husband and is helpless? My father's self-righteous enthusiasm is the root of my family's pain.

My mother also had a first love, but because the graduation work of college students was assigned at that time, she didn't get together with her first love and broke up (if it were now, it might be fine). Neither she nor my dad are bad people, but they are just inappropriate. Moreover, although their family of origin has no problem of cheating, they have not done a good demonstration of a healthy relationship between husband and wife (my grandfather looks down on my grandmother, who completely regards my grandfather as a machine for earning money and working), so from this point of view, they are also poor people.

With regard to my husband and me, I must say that my feelings for him at first were not love, but I sincerely regarded him as a friend to play with. I have always been very happy with him, but I have never had any emotional impulse on him. What I really love is my daughter. In front of her, I can do it without reservation. She gives me as much as I give her, even though she is only seven months old.

When you are alive, you can't do everything as you want, cherish the present, and learn to have fun in spite of difficulties. There is also the fact that it is really important to find the character of the object. Even if an object with good character no longer loves you, it will not be bad for you. Don't just figure out that the other person is "good to me", because once he turns his face, how people with bad character will break through the bottom line is really unpredictable.