Review Good Will Hunting.

I saw the old movie Good Will Hunting many years ago. The English name is Good Will Hunting, and the protagonist is called Will Hunting, so we can know from the title that this is a story in which the protagonist becomes better. The first time I saw this drama, I saw it completely as an inspirational film. Many years later, I only remember that man was a genius who solved the problem of mathematics professor at MIT. He had super talent, but gold always shone, and he finally got out of the haze.

But after learning the knowledge of psychological counseling, I went from a complete layman to an expert's cognitive process. The man has had many experiences of fighting with others and was re-educated through labor. He doesn't have a reliable job and often idles around with three friends. However, he always escaped by virtue of his learning talent, but in the end he was sentenced to prison for assaulting a police officer during a fight. The math professor at MIT made bail for the man because he cherished his math talent, but asked him to have psychotherapy once a week, which triggered a follow-up story, involving 8 people.

This man has seen five psychologists before, and Sean is the sixth. He is extremely resistant to psychological counseling. So in the first interview, he satirized his inner loneliness and loss through a painting by Sean. He didn't know that Sean's beloved wife died of illness, and he "defeated" the psychological counselor by transferring defensive means, so that he gained the upper hand.

The first interview angered Sean and made Sean reflect on himself. He realized that his beloved wife had cancer and eventually died, which led to his inner anger, but at the same time, he was very lonely. So in the second interview, he chose the outdoor park. He told the man his analysis of insomnia and why the man always expressed his feelings with anger.

The man exposed by Sean decided to fight with silence. He didn't want Sean to continue to touch his heart, so he didn't say a word in the third interview until the end of the consultation.

The man always wanted to fight with silence, but in the fourth interview, he found that Sean was unmoved by this move and dozed off. Finally, he couldn't keep silent. He started with a joke and told a rough story about his meeting with a girl who made him move, but he didn't have sex because he was afraid of losing his inner yearning for perfection. Sean used his personal experience to tell the man about the "imperfection" of his late beloved wife, and used a relaxed and humorous conversation to give the man the motivation to take the initiative to woo.

Since the last consultation, the man took the initiative to date Harvard's sister, and their feelings were very sweet. So in the fifth interview, he and Sean had a very pleasant chat, and their relationship changed qualitatively. Sean told the story of how he met his beloved wife. The story originated from a baseball game, and baseball is also the man's favorite competitive sport. They recalled the game with great passion, but more importantly, the man experienced the feeling of being loved in the process of interacting with Harvard girls, which is exactly what Sean hoped he could feel.

However, the real breakthrough point of male psychological counseling has not yet appeared. The previous five interviews were all aimed at building a relationship of mutual trust. Until the man's girlfriend wanted him to go to California to develop with him, and the man just wanted to stay in the local circle he was familiar with, so they had a big fight. He thought his girlfriend wanted to abandon him on the grounds of saving him, so he broke up in a fit of pique.

Breaking up became the turning point of the sixth consultation. After losing his lover, the man turned all his anger to Sean. He doesn't know what he should do and want in the future. When Shawn faced these problems, he almost lost control, but Shawn accepted the man's anger and let the man fall into meditation with a calm attitude. A person's behavior is always based on motivation. If he has no need and no motivation in his heart, then his behavior will be like a walking corpse.

The sixth consultation brought Sean into contact with the real needs of this man. He knows that this man needs to be loved and respected. The math professor hopes to make a breakthrough in his career by using the talent of the male master, so Sean and the math professor also have a fierce conflict. The math professor wants to decide the life of the man, while Sean wants the man to choose his own life with his own strength. In the seventh interview, Sean looked at the man's file, and both of them told the story that they were abused by their father when they were children. The man was an orphan since he was a child. He was afraid of being abandoned again, so he would rather endure the abuse of his adoptive father. Although the man spoke the hidden pain in his heart in a relaxed tone, when Sean told him "it's not your fault", the man didn't really feel the power of this sentence until the seventh time, and his grievances, fears, anger and loneliness welled up in Hua Song's tears. After the consultation, he sat in the light rail and looked at the scenery outside the window calmly. His heart is very calm. I think he really forgave himself and reconciled with his old self.

The eighth consultation is over. The man finally got the freedom of mind. He doesn't have to carry those psychological defenses to live, but he also decided to chase his lost girlfriend first and find the ability to love and be loved.

Psychoanalytic theory emphasizes the influence of family background on life, which is the root of a series of psychological and behavioral problems. "A bad childhood needs a lifetime to heal"; Existentialism-humanism theory emphasizes people's own strength and potential, and our needs and motives bring our behavior; Cognitive behavior theory emphasizes that the change of cognitive level can bring behavior correction; These are a whole and cannot be dealt with separately. Will, the male owner, has serious psychological barriers because of his tragic childhood. He can't take the initiative to establish social relations. Mania, violence, provocation and contempt for others are the means he often uses, because it can defend himself and prevent others from hurting himself. However, in his youth, he lacked self-orientation, interests, life goals and the ability to love and be loved, which made him lose his balance. Psychological counseling enabled him to find his soul again and regain his life.

Psychological counseling is a two-way healing process. The mental collision between psychological counselors and visitors will bring positive or negative feelings to each other. Counselors' acceptance and self-healing ability will make both sides enter the qualitative stage, which I think is also a test of counselors' own endurance. When I decided to take this role, I told myself that although the road ahead was bumpy, I still had to forge ahead.