Books about interpersonal relationships?

Almost everyone knows the importance of dealing with interpersonal relationships, but even so, most people don't know how to deal with interpersonal relationships. The following is my collection, I hope it will help you.

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1 "The FBI teaches you mind reading"

Body language can reveal a lot of real information. If you decipher it, you can see through each other at a glance-this is a very famous book about interpersonal communication, and its remarkable feature is based on the results of actual experiments and scientific facts. Very scientific and applicable, its greatest advantage is that it allows you to see through each other easily and accurately in the first time. Readers who want to have good interpersonal relationships, or readers who want to have a correct and accurate understanding of others, might as well take a look at the book "The FBI teaches you to read minds"

2 "network six degrees"

Stanley Milgram, an American psychologist, put forward and verified the concept of "six-degree connection". Generally speaking, "there will be no more than six people between you and any stranger, that is, you can get to know any stranger in the world through six people at most if you want." Six-degree network is called the most efficient and direct network rule in the world. People who master the six-degree network say that the six-degree network can bring you absolute returns. Readers who want to improve interpersonal communication may wish to try to refer to the views in Liudu.com, which is believed to be helpful to interpersonal communication.

Charm of speech: Liu Yong's communication secret.

After The Charm of Speech: Liu Yong's Communication Secrets, I believe many readers will have a new understanding of the use of interpersonal communication language. In this book, with the theme of "talking", Mr. Liu Yong teaches you how to speak ill, say malicious words softly, tell big stories, tell jokes coldly, say malicious words slowly, make a long story short and tell the truth in vain. He also helps you analyze the humor in ancient and modern China and foreign countries, teaches you to set the stage, create an atmosphere, set off jokes, turn blunt language into euphemism, turn black and white language into color, and even teaches you to pay attention to the adjustment of breathing, the posture of the instrument and keep your breath.

4 "Difficult to talk about"

In fact, there is a close relationship between interpersonal communication and speaking. Difficult Conversations is a very useful book for language readers. This book is the essence of the painstaking research of Harvard negotiation team 15 years. As a must-read for senior White House officials, this book is regarded as a classic reading for language communication. The contents of the book will make readers gain a lot. Through the rich and representative conversation cases in the book, readers can learn how to have a successful conversation under difficult circumstances.

5 "network"

This book introduces you to very simple but very effective network rules. It reveals how successful people treat their contacts and how to accumulate and use them. The greatest essence of this book is to introduce readers how to break through the current social circle and build more contacts that are conducive to development, and how to make your contacts produce the greatest value. In addition, the author also put forward many novel rules in the book. If people use these rules correctly, they will have extensive and high-quality contacts at home to promote their success in life.

6 "Body Language Password"

Needless to say, just look at the words body language password to know the content of this book about interpersonal communication. Through this book, you can learn something other than the language of the person you associate with, that is, even if the other person doesn't speak, you can learn the other person's thoughts from his manner and a series of actions. That sounds amazing. Indeed, everyone's body language will reveal a lot of information. If you want to have good interpersonal communication, it is very necessary to have a certain understanding of body language.

7 "5 minutes to be friends with strangers"

Do you feel resistance or fear when facing strangers? Actually, it's completely unnecessary. Make Friends with Strangers in 5 Minutes tells you how to change this emotion that affects you in a short time. Through the tips introduced in the book, you can master the skills of communication and conversation with strangers, so as to become friends with strangers. The author of this book has helped millions of people to establish an effective dialogue model. He has many unique tips, and many people who have been coached by him are surprised to find that as long as they remember a few words, their situation will change greatly. This book is a summary of his decades of observation, research and practice. Mastering this technology, of course, good interpersonal communication is ahead.

8 Micro-expression: How to identify the true and false faces of others

Want to know people accurately? This book can help you. People's micro-expression is not consciously controlled by people, and people can't pretend or hide it, because micro-expression is an instinct of people. By grasping this micro-expression, that is, the expression at the first moment, you can accurately grasp the real thoughts in the other person's heart, and then decide what to do according to these.

9 "A world without complaints"

This book is not only a book about interpersonal communication, but also a world-class inspirational book that sells well in 80 countries around the world. The magical "no complaining" movement put forward by the author is exactly what we modern people need most. We can look at it this way: there are only three things in the world: my business, his business and God's business. Those who complain about themselves should try to learn to accept themselves; Those who complain about others should try to turn complaints into requests; Those who complain about God, please try to pray for your wish. Maybe you have a lot of doubts about many problems related to interpersonal communication in your life. This book can make you understand some truth, let you grasp the peace, love and joy in your life, and make your life complete and beautiful.

10 Your value of the image Million

Image has a great influence on us in our life and work, and even determines success or failure. Grasping the image will have a positive impact on us. This book aroused great interest of readers. Through your million-dollar value to the image, you will learn about the three quotients of success and how to master your IQ, EQ and spiritual IQ. Establish your successful image through IQ; Establish your good interpersonal relationship through emotional intelligence; Get a better life through spiritual IQ.

Careful selection

David Myers, a famous American psychologist, adapted Charm: The Secret of Interpersonal Attraction from the best-selling book Social Psychology. This book is owned by almost all psychology students in foreign universities, and it is the most outstanding achievement of social psychology that is closest to our life today. This paper extracts a part of attraction and intimacy, with a lot of illustrations, and modifies the overly academic sentences in the original book, revealing the four elements of attraction in plain language, namely, proximity, appearance, similarity and feeling of being liked, and introducing how we should develop, maintain and promote the intimate relationship with friends, relatives and lovers.

Key Conversations: How to Communicate Effectively by Mr. Cory Patterson analyzes the common blind spots in communication in detail, and provides many instant conversation, listening and action skills, supplemented by rich conversation situations and light and humorous stories, to help readers master these skills in the fastest way. This is the ability to get to the point and let the other person know your point clearly; It is a kind of wisdom to speak appropriately and let the other person reflect automatically. Using the skills provided in this book, no matter how difficult the situation is, you can easily face it and get twice the result with half the effort.

Who Can Grow Delicious Tomatoes is the masterpiece of Yoshitomo Naito, Ph.D. in Sociology, Keio University, Japan. Based on extensive and authoritative psychological research, Mr. Naito's suggestion on improving practical ability has won unanimous praise from all walks of life. In addition, he also provides reference opinions for professionals on topics such as business activities and love, and his works are quite rich.

Ceng Shiqiang, the author of Tong Yuan's Interpersonal Relations, is the father of management science in China. This book takes interpersonal relationship as the starting point, and mainly talks about how to deal with two major problems: work relationship and family relationship. Working relationship is the core of Chinese management. If you have a bad working relationship, it will be difficult to develop your career. Family relationship is the theme of everyone's life. People are trapped in a network when they are born. Only when the family and career have a good harvest can we be truly successful. To solve these two problems, we only need to master ten easy-to-understand essentials, which are rich in connotation and indispensable. There is no harm as long as it is used reasonably. China people attach great importance to how to behave. Only by doing well can we do things well. The essentials of dealing with interpersonal relationships mentioned in this book may not work in the west, but they are quite effective in China.

The Charm of Speaking is a collection of four works by Mr. Liu Yong on speaking skills. Taking "talking" as the theme, we will teach you how to speak ill, speak hard, tell big stories, make jokes, speak hard, speak urgently, make a long story short and tell the truth for nothing. He also helps you analyze the humor in ancient and modern China and foreign countries, teaches you to set the stage, create an atmosphere, set off jokes, turn blunt language into euphemism, turn black and white language into color, and even teaches you to pay attention to the adjustment of breathing, the posture of the instrument and keep your breath. Life-oriented short stories, from the shallow to the deep, have both "strategy" and "tactics", and many subtleties in interpersonal communication are vividly displayed. The author has been teaching his speech experience for more than 30 years.

The famous Dr. Marshall Luxembourg discovered a way of communication, according to which people can communicate with each other and live in harmony. This is nonviolent communication. As a good person who abides by the law, perhaps we never thought that we would be involved in "violence". However, if we pay a little attention to the way of talking in real life and feel the different feelings that various ways of talking give us, we will certainly find that some words are really hurtful! Verbal criticism, ridicule, denial, preaching, random interruption, refusal to respond, and random output of comments and conclusions bring us emotional and spiritual trauma, even more painful than physical injury. These unintentional or intentional language violence make people become indifferent, alienated and hostile. Non-violent communication can: heal the hidden pain in the heart; Beyond the limitations of personal mind and emotion; Break through the way of thinking that causes negative emotions such as anger, depression and anxiety; Solve interpersonal conflicts in a harmless way; Learn to build a harmonious life experience.

Jiang Weiwei's Going Right is a necessary book for the study of super interpersonal relationship. It is a book that makes you invincible in the workplace and gain super popularity. It teaches you how to take the right path in the workplace and open the door to promotion with interpersonal skills. Some people say that success in the workplace requires 15% ability and 85% interpersonal relationship. This is not to exaggerate the importance of interpersonal relationships in the workplace, but to remind you to establish this awareness. When you open this book, you will find that getting along with people is not that simple. Just like opening a mirror, you can see the truth clearly, understand the contradiction, and let you know what kind of communication and exchange you need in the workplace. When you open this book, you will find that everything in the world has rules to follow, such as how to soften harsh words, how to make ugly words good, how to talk big, how to make a long story short, how to talk empty words, how to create an atmosphere, how to make a joke, how to set up a stage, how to control the situation, how to satirize and stop, and how to make you go further and further in the workplace.

The Seventh Sense: A New Concept of Psychology, Brain and Interpersonal Relations by Daniel Siegel, a famous American positive psychologist, is based on psychology, and explains the synergy between psychology and brain by explaining the complex operating mechanism of the brain. The combination of ancient meditation practice with modern neuroscience and psychotherapy reveals the mystery of the interaction between psychology, brain and interpersonal relationship. The seventh sense: a new concept of psychology, brain and interpersonal relationship is the crystallization of the author Daniel Siegel's 25 years of clinical experience. It teaches us how to master the skill of the seventh sense, and let readers know that we actually have more opportunities to change our psychology, brain, interpersonal relationships and even some innate personality characteristics than we thought, so as to realize self-transformation and obtain happy, healthy and satisfactory interpersonal relationships.