Write a composition on what is a ceremony.

1. What is "filial piety" in the composition with the title of ceremony? Ceng Zi once said: "Life is a matter of courtesy; Death, ritual burial and ritual sacrifice can be described as filial piety. "

Mencius once said that there are three kinds of unfilial. It is the first kind of unfilial to blindly obey and not know how to dissuade parents from doing bad things when they see their mistakes. Being poor at home but doing nothing to support parents is the second kind of unfilial; As we all know, the third is that there is no future. In the sentence of Louzhang, Gong and Mencius talked about it.

Gong was puzzled. He thought puffed up and the whole country said he was unfilial, but Mencius made friends with him, so he asked Mencius why. Mencius replied: "Generally speaking, there are five kinds of unfilial people; First, lazy parents; Second, gambling and drinking, spending all the money but not supporting parents; Third, be stingy with money and throw your parents aside with your wife; Fourth, do the opposite, indulge your desires and shame your parents; Fifth, courage and ruthlessness at ordinary times bring trouble to parents.

And puffed up just because his father did something wrong, he assumed the responsibility of repaying kindness and was not accepted by his father, so why not be filial? It is unfilial to let my father do something wrong. "

Confucius once said, if you don't respect your parents, what's the difference between keeping a cat and a dog? From this point of view, filial piety is to serve parents with a respectful heart, so that parents can have ample food and clothing, be broad-minded, be healthy and behave correctly, without adding burden to their parents and worrying about them. If parents are wrong, they should also speak out tactfully.

This is filial piety. There is an allusion called "Wang Xiang lying fish", which means "filial piety".

There is a city in the south of Shandong Province and a river named Xiao Mu River in the north. In the middle of this river, there is a place where there is no ice in March and September, and the boundary between ice and water draws a human figure.

According to legend, this is where Wang Xiang lies. According to legend, in the Western Jin Dynasty, there was a family in Linyi City, and there was a young man with a strong bloodline named Wang.

This winter, his mother was ill and wanted to eat fish very much, but it was September, and there was ice and snow everywhere. Where can I find a fish seller? Wang Xiang was in a hurry, and there was nothing he could do. One day, it suddenly occurred to him that fish must be afraid of cold and want to go to a warm place. I used my body temperature to melt the frozen water, and the fish swam towards me, so I caught the fish. So he ran to the river, took off his clothes and scraped on the cold ice. The ice melted and the fish was caught. Mother recovered from eating fish.

This is the famous legend of Wang Xiang lying fish. The story of this young man in the Western Jin Dynasty is very touching.

Wang Xiang became a model of filial piety in China. This story tells people that filial piety is children's absolute obedience to their parents, that is, they fully understand their parents and even sacrifice their lives to repay them.

Of course, Confucius was not the first person to advocate filial piety. The concept of filial piety existed before Confucius.

But Confucius was the first thinker who systematically expounded filial piety. For the first time, he considered filial piety from the perspective of national stability and world peace, and thought that if a person could abide by the principle of filial piety, he would not commit the crime of insurrection.

Filial piety is the foundation of benevolence. If a person can't be filial, he is definitely not a benevolent.

Confucius used this idea to educate his students, so some of his students are famous for their filial piety, such as Min Ziqian. Min Zikai, a native of Shandong, is said to have been driving with his father when he was a child, wearing a cotton-padded coat just made by his stepmother and shivering with cold. His father thought that he was driving badly on purpose, and was furious. He raised his whip and whipped it. As a result, the cotton coat was torn, revealing reed flowers, not cotton.

Father understood and decided to divorce his abusive wife. But Min Ziqian knelt in front of his father and begged him not to divorce his stepmother.

He said that if he divorced his stepmother, his brother would become like this. Father felt reasonable and agreed to his request.

Min Ziqian is a noble among Confucius disciples and a concrete practitioner of Confucius' filial piety thought. Confucius' filial piety to students mainly has three meanings. First, there is no violation, that is, he absolutely obeys the will of his parents. Even if he knows that his parents are wrong, he should gently persuade them to ignore them and still obey them with a pleasant face.

The second is "respect and support". Confucius thinks it is unfilial to support parents only in life.

He said: Just like dogs and horses, anyone can feed them. Support parents disrespectfully like dogs and horses. So respect is the essence of filial piety.

The third is that you haven't changed your father's way for three years. Confucius' filial piety embodies benevolence and runs through ceremony. He asked people to be polite to their parents. Death, burial with ceremony; Sacrifice it with ceremony. "

However, Confucius' filial piety has both classical humanism and foolish filial piety. After the development of later Confucian scholars, it has become a tool for the feudal ruling class to oppress the people. Since the Jin Dynasty, many feudal rulers have also played the slogan of "ruling the world with filial piety", which has had a great impact on China society.

Just as Confucius' filial piety itself is advanced and lagging, its influence on China society has two sides. On the one hand, it plays an irreplaceable role in maintaining the family unity and harmony of the Chinese nation, forming a good social fashion of loving the father and filial piety of the Chinese nation. On the other hand, he stressed that children should be absolutely filial to their parents, and even asked their children to mourn for three years. "Don't change the father's way for three years" has become a spiritual shackle that binds children, which is extremely unfavorable to the expansion of children's personality and develops into a post-Confucian "cannibalism ethics".

So we should correctly understand the meaning of filial piety. The so-called "filial piety" means respect, love and filial piety.

When it comes to filial piety, most people think that as long as they do their best to support their parents, it is filial piety. In fact, livestock and poultry still know how to feed back, and supporting parents is only the most basic part of filial piety. In addition to filial piety to parents, it should be extended and supplemented, and filial piety to clans even extends to filial piety to the whole nation.

Therefore, we say that filial piety in the modern sense is the expression of love, the true feelings of the country and relatives, the due responsibility between people and me, and the intimate relationship at the time of human relations. Filial piety maintains the order of the old and the young, and is a virtue passed down from generation to generation by parents and children; Filial piety is sincere gratitude for life, and it is also a grateful return without regrets.

Loving oneself is filial piety, filial piety to family, filial piety to country and nation. Therefore, the significance of filial piety is not limited to filial piety to parents, but should start with relatives and then extend to the whole society and country.

2. The composition with the title of ceremony, 800 words, and the ceremony with extra points includes self-cultivation and morality, which China has always attached importance to since ancient times.

The ancients said, "Harmony is the most important thing in courtesy. Wang Zhidao comes first, and Sri Lanka is beautiful.

It is not polite and feasible to see the big from the small, to know and be harmonious. "It means: the function of the ceremony is that harmony is precious.

Ancient kings were not as good at governing the country as they were beautiful, and everything was done according to etiquette. However, there is also a place that doesn't work, that is, it doesn't work to just know the value of harmony and pursue it blindly, instead of using etiquette.

The essence of Fang Lin's politeness. Confucius said, "Good question! Ceremony, not luxury, is quite frugal; It's easier to mourn than to grieve. "

Fang Lin asked about the nature of politeness. Confucius said, "This question is of great significance! In etiquette, it is better to be frugal than luxury; In the funeral, I would rather be sad than fan ru. "

However, if we carefully observe people's behaviors in social life, we will find that there are often some very uncivilized behaviors, such as spitting, throwing garbage at high altitude, making loud noises or quarreling in public, but these are nothing. Most obviously, some young people compete with young children, pregnant women or the elderly for seats on the bus. Do you feel sad to see this? Giving up one's seat to children, pregnant women and the elderly is the behavior that best reflects one's self-cultivation and morality. Obviously, these young people have no self-cultivation and moral corruption, but I find it strange that none of the other passengers on the bus can come out to be fair. Dare or not, I don't know, I don't know or understand. China's etiquette is world-famous, but why has it developed to this point? Is it because of E799Be5Bae6E7898E69D83313333536432 that people's lives are getting richer now? Or is it because China has become corrupt? I think this problem is worth discussing, thinking and reflecting.

3. Ask for a etiquette article with the title of "Li" and about 600 words.

Etiquette is a process of self-discipline and respect in interpersonal communication, which is expressed in a certain and established procedural way, involving dress, communication, emotional intelligence and so on. From the perspective of personal cultivation, etiquette can be said to be the external expression of a person's inner cultivation and quality. From the perspective of communication, etiquette can be said to be an art, a communication method or a communication method suitable for interpersonal communication, and a customary practice of showing respect and friendliness in interpersonal communication. . From the perspective of communication, etiquette can be said to be a skill of mutual communication in interpersonal communication. It can be roughly divided into five branches: government etiquette, business etiquette, service etiquette, social etiquette and foreign etiquette.

Etiquette is based on people's life and social interaction. People can correctly grasp the scale of interpersonal communication with the outside world and reasonably handle the relationship between good people according to various etiquette norms. Without these etiquette norms, people will often be at a loss in communication, and even be rude to others and make jokes. Therefore, if you are familiar with and master the etiquette, you can draw inferences from others and treat people just right.

Etiquette is an important means to shape the image. In social activities, paying attention to etiquette in conversation can become civilized; Manners and manners can become elegant; Dress appropriately and be polite, and you will become generous; If you pay attention to manners, you can become beautiful ... as long as you pay attention to manners, everything will be done just right. In a word, a person can become attractive if he pays attention to etiquette.

Etiquette plays a positive role in regulating people's social behavior, coordinating interpersonal relationships and promoting the development of human society.

So whenever and wherever, we should treat people in the most appropriate way. At this time, "ceremony" has become the most important part of our lives. Etiquette is an art in interpersonal relationship and a bridge between people. Etiquette is an agreement that must be observed in interpersonal relationships, and it is a conventional form, that is, a conventional practice in interpersonal communication.

4. A 400-word composition on the topic of ceremony should be given to families on holidays.

It is not surprising that many people are polite. If the gifts are too many and expensive, people will naturally not blame you.

When subordinates make mistakes, they will try their best to please their leaders and give gifts generously. What kind of high-grade tonic, high-grade wine, big bags and small bags will leaders bring at home? This is the "gift" they send. The leader was born honest and self-respecting and shouted, "I won't accept the gift, you'd better take it back!" " "The underlings left happily.

This is not so much a gift as a gift. What is given away is a small part of the benefits. Under the protection of the leaders, those who take bribes are more benefits.

"Rites" are nothing but "benefits". I don't like this selfish and hypocritical ceremony.

What I like is sincere and unpretentious ceremony. Giving gifts to relatives and friends is always full of joy.

Buy some ordinary gifts and send them to relatives happily. Relatives opened the door and greeted them warmly. This is a real fact. On the second day after returning home, relatives bring gifts in return, which is also a warm reception and a further sublimation of family ties.

This is the real reciprocity! In the process of sending me back, although this real gift has nothing to gain or lose, you can't send that kind of affection and blessing if you want to. Different gifts for different people.

The harvest fruit was given to hardworking people; That romantic rose is for the love of my life; Then'''''' innovative composition' gave me a gift, and the scholar was in high spirits. What gift should I give back? .