Husband and mother-in-law have a bad relationship. What should I do?

Husband and mother are both people who love themselves and themselves. If there is a contradiction between them, being caught in the middle must be their most painful thing. This problem is no less than the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. My wife and mother have a bad relationship, and my husband must be in pain, so I will have a good talk with my husband, find out the reason, and then resolve the contradiction.

As the saying goes, "The more a mother-in-law looks at her son-in-law, the more satisfied she is." Few mothers and son-in-law confront each other directly, because the daughter is the mother's pet, and even if she looks at her face, she will not embarrass the person she likes. What's more, she even thinks that if I treat you better, you will treat my daughter better. If it is really a last resort, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law must be because of the bad blood between daughter and son-in-law.

If there is nothing wrong with your relationship with your husband and your mother has nothing to say to herself, but two people have opinions about each other, then you can persuade them. After all, you are your mother's own daughter, and your mother and son-in-law are in conflict, and it is your own daughter who suffers. What is the difference? Hatred can't be dissolved in the daughter's face? Husband's side is relatively simple, and my own mother. Don't say my mother didn't do anything wrong. Even if she does, you have to be patient for her to raise me and marry you. Think for yourself, if your mother and I have problems, will you feel better? How dare a son-in-law have an opinion when it's too late to curry favor with his mother-in-law?

After the education work was in place, we began to act. When I go back to my mother's house, I will buy more gifts for my mother, and then say that my husband asked me to buy them, and say more good things about my husband, so that my mother feels that she still has a lofty position in her son-in-law's heart. When you come back from your mother's house, you can also buy some gifts for your husband, and then send them in the name of your mother-in-law, so that your husband will feel that her mother-in-law still has a good impression on him, and there will be no great rejection when we meet next time.

I learned all this from my mother. My father and grandmother belong to the kind of people whose mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a bad relationship. My grandmother always thought that my mother had a hard time marrying my father and took care of the housework for him, while my father was too lazy to do any housework. My father thinks my grandmother is always nagging and eccentric. My mother has a sister, but her husband, my uncle, has always been in poor health, so my grandmother also loves my aunt, loves to go to her house to help, and loves to take care of my uncle and prevent him from drinking. My dad is not convinced. In my opinion, there is suspicion of rivalry, haha! So two people who didn't like each other lived in peace for the sake of my mother's face. Some time ago, my mother had a car accident and my father had to go to work. My grandmother volunteered to take care of my mother, and my father bought food and cooked in the morning and evening, not to mention my mother-in-law's eccentric personality. After all, it's been a long time!

Finally, after all, it is the mother-in-law and son-in-law who bear the name of "half son", but they can't climb out of their stomachs. If there is anything wrong with their behavior, there will inevitably be opinions. I suggest that, just like dealing with the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, we should live separately as far as possible, have less contact, but be close to each other. If we are homesick, we can go back by ourselves. Isn't it more unrestrained?