Children don't like learning, and they always find various reasons not to do their homework. What if children don't study hard?

I don't want to do my homework. I am very tired and it is difficult to study. I believe many children have complained to their parents about similar problems. Some of these children are so serious that they don't want to go to school, and even have the characteristics of being tired of learning. High school students are in a rebellious period and are tired of learning. It is normal for them not to take it seriously, so parents should treat it correctly.

What if children don't study hard? 1, calmly guide children's weariness of learning. When you find that your child is tired of school, many parents are used to reprimanding and scolding, but it often backfires. Parents should first accept their children's negative emotions and share their troubles. Think of boredom as a natural adult "don't want to go to work" emotion, and don't be overly nervous. Children are not iron men, and occasionally feel tired in the long preparation for the monthly exam, mid-term, final, and year after year.

2. Correctly treat children's growth and enhance self-confidence. Parents should not always compare their children with others, but observe the changes of their children vertically, such as the progress of academic performance in single subjects and the formation of good habits. If you are not sure what you are looking for, you can buy good things yourself. If he (she) has regressed, calmly analyze the problem with him (her), whether it is lack of knowledge or his (her) carelessness, and solve the problem immediately. Parents should pay more attention to their children's growth and advantages, encourage them in time, let them feel their own value and form a correct self-evaluation system.

3. Let children realize that learning is their own business. The same old tune, saying the same words over and over again, will produce habitual fuzzy hearing, that is to say, if parents force their children to study too much, they will be passive and lose their initiative in learning over time. Therefore, in daily life, parents should reduce the supervision of their children, but tell them more about the positive significance of homework, let them know the usefulness of homework for their own learning, and let them regard learning as their own career. To start your own business, you should do everything in your study independently, seriously and solidly, and cultivate children's good habit of active learning.

4. Cultivate children's other interests. Parents should consciously cultivate children's interests, such as painting, calligraphy and painting, piano, guitar, basketball, badminton and other sports. Once children are tired of classroom learning, they can adjust through interest activities, so that children can find satisfaction in participating in interest activities and have what they like and insist on, and children are not easily affected by social adverse factors.

5. Teach children to study with work and rest. Give children the right amount of pressure, let them feel the fun of learning, and teach them efficient learning methods by watching educational movies and sharing conversations and books with them. Parents can consult their children to make a study schedule and arrange the time of classroom homework and interest activities reasonably. For example, give children two hours to do test papers in the morning, and the rest of the time can let them go for a walk outdoors, listen to music, watch movies, read extracurricular books and do sports with their classmates. Especially on weekends, let children relax properly, but grasp the time to relax.

6. The right company. Parents should accompany their children instead of supervising them. Many parents say that I spend time with you, but children feel that their parents' company is like a watchdog. Happiness without company is all the troubles of being watched. It is understandable to love their children, but too many parents control their children in the name of love. Therefore, parents should learn to accompany their children correctly, lend a helping hand when their children need help, and do something else quietly when their children don't need help. For example, when children do homework, parents can read or work instead of playing games.

7. Cultivate children's ability to resist stress. Children have poor adaptability and occasionally encounter some unbearable setbacks in their study and life, which leads to weariness of learning and serious emotional problems. Therefore, parents should cultivate their children's independent living ability and interpersonal skills. Children will encounter setbacks in their studies and will not give up their studies easily because they avoid setbacks.