Describe how husbands, brothers and sisters-in-law are stingy and send friends away.

Damn, the miser is as poor as a church mouse.

If a relative is too stingy to help, whether she treats you as a relative depends on whether you treat her as a relative. If you can't stand it, then you should stay away from her and try not to contact her, but there is no need to get angry. The key is to be generous. A bottle of eight-treasure porridge, she is serious, you can ignore it.