Simple sharing of parenting experience

Simple sharing of parenting experience

A brief sharing of parenting experience, parents' successful parenting experience can cultivate children's high IQ and high EQ, and will also benefit children for life. So what parenting experiences are worth sharing? Let's take a look at the brief sharing of parenting experience.

Brief parenting experience sharing 1 1, take good care of the child and prevent him from having negative emotions.

2. put your eyes in the same position as your child and see the world with your child.

3. Say to the child: I love you no matter what you do, but I don't like some of your wrong behaviors.

4. Give children some money and let them learn how to manage money.

5. Don't look at children's privacy without their permission.

6. Understanding children is a great hope for them.

7, children's behavior, five things and three praises, two education.

8. Reading with children, a good study partner is very important.

9. Give children a comfortable learning environment.

10, children's friends should be welcomed home, which will make children happier.

1 1. To educate children well, we must constantly improve our teaching skills.

12, responsible for the child's physical development and his psychological development.

13. Smart parents will take care of their children when their emotions fluctuate.

14, the child will show independence in the natural environment.

15, the child is a careful observer, especially easy to imitate others.

16, do the same thing over and over again, and children will be perfect.

17, children judge themselves by the attitude of others towards them, so don't criticize them too much.

18, stimulating children's thirst for knowledge and learning is far more meaningful than teaching limited knowledge.

19. Parents should educate themselves as well as their children.

20. Respect your child, and don't rush to judge him.

Share a short parenting experience 2 1 and let the baby eagle spread its wings slowly.

It is not a good thing for children to mature too fast nowadays. To make children full-fledged, it is necessary to give them inverted pyramid-shaped care, that is, V-shaped care. When he was very young, we should restrict his freedom and his right to make his own decisions. When they gradually mature and show the ability to take responsibility for their actions, let him move towards independence step by step.

This is to remind young parents not to give up their children too early, otherwise they will feel indulged and used to making unnecessary mistakes. After entering the school, due to the lack of necessary judgment, they will feel unaccustomed, depressed and even have a strong rebellious attitude when they have to help their parents, which undoubtedly increases the difficulty of parent-child communication.

Don't quarrel at the dinner table

The food chosen by parents may not be acceptable to picky children. Teach you to use the inducement method: choose lovely food, then sit down and talk happily with your child while eating. Be sure to keep the atmosphere relaxed and lively, and don't criticize his eating habits. In this way, children will gradually like many different kinds of meals. Remember: meals are with children. Enjoy the opportunity and don't start a war at the dinner table.

3. Spend as much time with your children as possible after work.

Busy parents are used to buying a lot of gifts to express their apologies to their children, but in fact this is not what children need most. Why not put down the phone, turn off the TV and relax together? Play games, tell stories and jokes that happened during the day, ask more questions about the school sports meeting, and don't forget to tell your child that being with him is your happiest moment.

With enough communication time, even if your work interrupts your communication occasionally, your children will understand you.

Don't push your children into trouble.

It is dangerous to label a child, take a nickname, or compare him with others, which will only make him go further in the direction of criticism. You should regard every child as an individual who is making progress. In fact, they grow like bamboo; Planting in the garden, you worked hard to water him for four years, and he only grew a few centimeters; In the fifth year, inadvertently, he suddenly jumped nearly 1 meter! The maturity rate of each child is different. But be patient and give them time.

Instill him with the love of learning, which will affect his life.

If you can figure out "how the world exists", children will definitely feel particularly excited. Tell your child that learning is an adventure, and he will naturally be full of enthusiasm. Different from studying in school, parents mainly guide their children from artistic creativity at home, doing intelligence tests, science quizzes and brain teasers. Set up a parent-child book corner to test the fun of learning with children.

6. Discipline is not superfluous. Make clear what you want from him.

Only by knowing the boundaries of doing anything can children be safe. Tell your child clearly what you want, so that he will know when enough is enough and will not unconsciously cross the boundary between safety and danger. Although sometimes children may not want to listen, as long as you are firm and make reasonable demands on him, then he will definitely obey your constraints in the end.

7. Have the courage to stick to your point of view.

This is the most important one; Tell children that sometimes most people's views are wrong. Dare to stick to your unique views, and don't express your views against your will for fear of being different.

8. Beating and cursing is teaching children to use violence.

If the children who have been beaten and scolded really become honest, it is because their little hearts are full of fear, rather than really understanding their mistakes. This does not help children to establish a correct view of right and wrong at all, but only teaches them that violence is a good way to control others. If you want your child to look like one, you need to set an example yourself first. Don't underestimate the child's imitation ability, but let him see everywhere how proud he is of being polite and educated.

9. Take on the responsibilities of parents

With children, we should rearrange our life for this little life: work should try not to occupy the time of life, make proper use of the holiday of raising children, improve the quality of family life and so on. As a mother, the social occasions you have to attend are no longer limited to work. You should have a positive performance at your child's graduation ceremony and parent-teacher conference.

10, giving children fun to chat.

Create a relaxed environment for children to express all their joy, confusion, fear, disappointment, school, pressure ... and encourage them to express all their thoughts, even their dissatisfaction with you. This will help him regard you as a trustworthy friend and cultivate his ability of self-expression, which is the most important life ability!

Especially when children enter adolescence, if they feel that telling the truth will never be understood, it is easy to embark on a dangerous road.