How to improve one’s humor cells?

First define the word "humor". According to the explanation given by the Mandarin dictionary: "A subtle and witty rhetoric that can make the listener smile knowingly." 』

According to this idea, humor can make people laugh, make people feel interesting and happy. It is a positive behavioral health movement that deserves everyone's careful promotion. Make more use of humor to lubricate this Serious society and rigid interpersonal relationships.

A person's degree of fun can be divided into three types from easy to deep:

"Funny"->"Humorous"->"Funny"

『 "Funny" - We describe a person as funny because he expresses witty and interesting words and actions, or looks funny and funny. To put it simply, he is funny. This kind of behavior is more popular and easier to use. The more you ignore your image, the more vivid it can be. But usually as you grow older, you will gradually become disdainful because of the need to put on an image. This trait can be innate. The clever arrangement of your facial features makes people laugh when they see you. I don’t know whether it’s joy or sorrow when someone describes you as looking funny. Funny does not require practice or mental thinking. If you add dramatic and exaggerated body movements and replace "image" with "pictogram", it will definitely bring short-term joy to the people around you.

『Humor』-Since it is "subtle and full of wit", it is definitely not as simple as pretending to be a monkey or a dinosaur. You must start from the heart, your thoughts must move faster than others, and use ingenious arrangements to set up incentives so that your audience will gradually and spontaneously understand your leading ideas, and smile knowingly. Being able to tell jokes does not mean you understand humor. You must know that jokes are just fish caught, which does not mean you are a good fisherman. Humor is not innate, but can be developed. Your mental flexibility, diversified thinking, and accumulation of joke inventory will make you more effective in cultivating your sense of humor.

『Funny』-Humor is elegant and thought-provoking. It is a kind of temperament that exudes from the bones. It is the highest state of humor. There is no need to use exaggerated body language or actual jokes to convey witty words and deeds that are full of wit and wit. They are the perfect crystallization of wisdom and experience. Everyone has two sides to everything. If the shortcoming of being funny is that it is not stable enough, humor can barely be labeled as frivolous, but "funny" has no negative side. Using the most witty words or techniques at the most appropriate time to achieve humorous but far-reaching effects requires years of experience and a happy and healthy mentality.

"Sense of humor" is a necessary life skill for modern people and an important key to survival in the 21st century. However, the strange thing is that there is no academic institution that teaches or provides such profound and profound knowledge. courses. A person without a sense of humor is like a disabled person whose limbs are petrified and his brain is hardened. The air around him is solid. Being with him really makes you want to throw yourself into a well and escape from this boring and boring life as soon as possible. life. On the contrary, a person with an upper-class sense of humor is definitely wise and experienced. He can bring you surprises and joy at every turn, resolve embarrassments in a funny and clever way, and get out of predicaments beautifully in a reversible way.

The popularity and extent of humor in Chinese society are not as good as those in Western countries. It may be because we have so many tying principles that we "don't dare to make big mistakes" and "can't make mistakes". Dare to commit the crime", but it is helplessly limited to the range that can be accepted by the public. However, the situation has improved slightly now, society is more open, and the country's supreme leader is inevitably treated as a humorous topic. Only then do people gradually liberate themselves, understand humor, and enjoy humor.

As for how to cultivate a sense of humor to achieve better interpersonal relationships, I boldly provide my opinions for your reference. The easiest way is to learn from the many jokes. I have made a very simple collection and analysis here to share how to flexibly apply these jokes in daily life and transform them into your own unique humor. feel.