Why do men and women have girlfriends?

There is sexual attraction between men and women, and 70% of men want to pick up girls.

1, friendship, an excuse to be close

There is a girl who has a very good boyfriend. They studied together and helped each other until one day the boy couldn't help telling her. She once thought there was a sweet love scene between men and women. But it is painful for girls. She doesn't like boys, which means she will lose this friendship. Although she doesn't want to lose "I have always regarded him as a friend, I never thought he would like me." I regard you as my best brother, and you still want to hit on me?

2. Maintaining friendship is only because of love.

The friendship between men and friends of the opposite sex is based on emotion. Evolutionary psychology also believes that the friendship between men and women begins with attraction, rather than pure factors. If two people don't like each other, then they won't be friends. Friends start by looking into each other's eyes.

In a Thai film "Above Love", the hero and heroine are both girlfriends, and they have a very good relationship with each other. Because of the high school man's phrase "love between good friends", the two maintained their friendship for more than ten years. The girl Qin Xiao suspected that she was pregnant abroad, so she called the male host. Without hesitation, the man left his female companion and flew away. The heroine suspects that her boyfriend is cheating, and the hero gives up his rest to accompany her across half of Southeast Asia. The girl was suddenly worried in the wilderness. Men are willing to give their brand-name T-shirts to women, topless, and endure the strange eyes of people on the street. The man was filled with emotion and told him to break up with his boyfriend. If this is not love, who else would do such a thing for a female best friend? Simple friendship is not enough. That night, when Pan was invited to her room, she even bought a house. Sexual attraction and affection between men and women are the important reasons why they can keep close relationship. Maintain an unconventional friendship, just because of love.

3. Male girlfriends are more than just friends.

Because men and women have different motives for meeting for the first time, they have different attitudes towards friendship. Men are more inclined to regard friends of the opposite sex as potential sexual partners or lovers, while women pay more attention to spiritual communication than sex. If a person doesn't like you, he doesn't want to be your friend. But if he likes you, he doesn't just want to make friends with you. 70% of boys are interested in their girlfriends, while girls often underestimate the interest of their girlfriends. Moreover, a man will never allow his girlfriend to have boyfriends and girlfriends, because he knows what men are thinking. Women with male girlfriends are more vulnerable, and men with female girlfriends are more likely to cheat.

A netizen was deeply troubled. His girlfriend had a male best friend for seven years, and they accompanied each other and spent the best youth together. Knowing that he had a boyfriend, the boyfriend and girlfriend finally couldn't help but have an attack. Say hello to her more actively, be caring and attentive, and call her a little idiot enthusiastically. The attraction between men and women is determined by human nature. Only when you are in a good mood will you be willing to do things beyond friendship for each other. Boys are willing to go shopping with girls and give her three hours of phone porridge; It is much easier for boys to keep friendship with boys, such as playing ball games, playing games and drinking. Boys prefer to play with boys, if not for sexual reasons.

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How to identify whether a heterosexual girlfriend has crossed the line?

1, it is difficult for the opposite sex to be best friends.

A study shows that the so-called "pure relationship between men and women" is basically destroyed by men's fantasies because of the different ways of thinking between men and women, Adrian said. Ward, a professor of psychology at Harvard University, said. Half of the young people said in a study that they had sex with at least one friend who was not a couple.

The friendship between men and women is too difficult to maintain, and the pure friendship between men and women is too difficult to maintain. Both countries must bear internal and external pressures. Maybe you will wonder if the other party regards you as a spare tire, or if one party wants to develop a love relationship, but the other party has no feelings. Even if you really want to keep a pure relationship, others will treat two people as ambiguous objects. As one party, you may gradually alienate each other or pretend that you are right. Moreover, when one or both parties have partners, girlfriends become the biggest obstacle to love, and it is impossible to continue to maintain close friendship. Because of sex, men and women can never be true friends.

2. How to test the purity of you and your friends of the opposite sex?

In order to test the purity of yourself and friends of the opposite sex, please refer to the following four dimensions given by psychologists: