How to deal with being teased?

I have always liked the sentence "Life is short, how can I live if I continue to live seriously?" . Indeed, in my opinion, as long as life does not involve state affairs (which is difficult for ordinary people), then we can all solve it in a relaxed and happy way. Especially when dealing with the problem of communication with people, the relaxed and joking way of speaking will make people feel more relaxed and friendly. This will enable us to make more friends.

At the same time, besides our jokes, we often meet many friends or people we know who make fun of ourselves. Whenever this happens, some people will be at a loss, feel embarrassed and don't know how to answer the phone. Faced with such a situation and people who are troubled by it, I make the following suggestions, hoping to have some effect on such people:

One: If the person who made a joke with you is your good friend, you can know how big a joke he made according to your own understanding of him. If it's just a simple joke, you can choose to laugh it off, or return it with another joke, which will not only show your humor, but also easily resolve the embarrassment. If you think your friends joke too much, you can also show indifference in front of others. When you are alone, you can euphemistically express that you don't like his jokes, and I believe your friends will understand.

Two: If the joke is only made by someone you know, and there is no intimate relationship, he is just making an ordinary joke. You can ignore it or make fun of him, but if the joke touches your bottom line, you can tell him directly that you don't like such a joke. There are two possibilities for you to do so. One is to gain a good friend because I like you.

Life doesn't need to be too serious, and jokes are also a gesture of life.