Why do so many people always like to complain?

When people encounter unpleasant and disobedient things, complaining is a good way for people to vent their emotions. However, now complaining has become a habit, complaining has become the mantra of some people, and it has become a way for them to face failure and dissatisfaction. They are not looking for solutions to problems, but complaining in ignorance. Complaining can not only solve the problem, but also bring trouble and pressure to people around.

Knowing the nature of complaining people will help us to become better friends with them and help them. When people complain about something, it is because it is not as good as expected and does not meet expectations. The most direct cause of complaint is people's dissatisfaction with reality. The object of complaint can be themselves, others or the environment. It is easy to complain about others, and it is inevitable that others will shirk their responsibilities and complain that others have not done well. Then it leads to the failure of things, as if they were not at all wrong and others made mistakes. Such people dare not admit their mistakes and take their share of responsibility. It only shows that they lack self-confidence and mobility. There are always some complainers who can't adapt to the changes in society, and their lives are frustrated, and then they complain about their lives. Then get discouraged, and so on. If they didn't complain all the time, but found out where their mistakes were, they would have ended this cycle of frustration and complaint long ago.

Complaining sometimes means expressing another emotion. Parents complain that their children are too busy at work, but in fact, parents want their children to spend more time with themselves. The wife complained that her husband came home too late, but in fact, she just wanted him to accompany her to dinner. Unfortunately, few people can understand the emotions behind these complaints, but some misunderstandings will occur because of the misunderstandings caused by complaints.