Why did you quarrel with your parents for the first time?

On Mother’s Day, in order to save face for my mother, I invited my aunt and my family to eat Haidilao together. I also specially ordered a cake in advance, which cost a thousand yuan in total, about a quarter of my salary. My cousin didn't come back when he was in college. Like everyone else, he sat there and waited for others. I was the only one running around, picking up mixing bowls and greeting people. After I got home in the evening, my mother would always tell me what was wrong with what I cooked today. She said that I was too slow in ordering food, which would make others think that I didn't want to treat them.

WTF? I've spent all my money to tell you this? Are you sure it's your mother? Your elder sister and your younger sister are your little cuties, what am I? This has not happened once or twice. Anyway, she always considers others first and ignores me first. No matter what I did, it was all condescending lectures without a single nice word. It hurts, I'm getting married anyway, the new house is ready for people to live in, I've been staying there recently, it's so close to home, I can get home in ten minutes. I made peace with my mother on the surface, but I still haven't moved back, so let's leave it at that.

I apologize first so that my mother will not be angry. Turns out I was wrong. Saying sorry in advance can make parents feel more comfortable in advance. Although parents will not be angry for a long time, the body will secrete toxins when they are angry, right? Remember not to get too entangled with your close friends and family. Unless you know what you want. I think it's pointless to just argue about right and wrong.

Can I ask them for a divorce? ! real! Maybe my biggest wish since childhood is that they get divorced and stop torturing each other! Stop torturing me! Chinese New Year feels like the end of me! No one understands that kind of loneliness! We quarrel during the Chinese New Year, we quarrel intensified, we quarrel just to make trouble, we quarrel because we are not afraid of other people’s jokes, no one considers my feelings at all, and there is no need to consider whether I need to be a good person outside. I can’t even pretend to have a happy family! I don’t want to celebrate the New Year! I want to be alone! Everyone is happy!