Chi called He Jiong and said that his face value was too high, which hurt the other person's eyes. How can we cultivate this kind of humor?

First of all, let's briefly introduce what humor is, which is discussed in detail in a book about humor. Here I briefly summarize that humor is all words that make people laugh, even vulgar jokes. In layman's terms, what you say makes others particularly easy to accept, but also makes others full of interest. People with a sense of humor are particularly easy to get along with anyone, and this quality of themselves will make people feel easy to get along with.

So how do we cultivate our sense of humor? Here I have a few tips to share with you.

1. Self-incrimination is to avoid embarrassment. Like some very grounded stars, it is precisely because of this that they are more popular with fans. And a recent friend of mine, who just entered the university, took selfies everywhere in the dormitory. The next comment asked me why I didn't see you, and she replied, "Didn't you see the ugliest thing? Isn't it me?" Friends are actually pretty, but in order to leave a step for myself and keep the relationship with new classmates, I answered skillfully.

2. You can always use humorous jokes and classic quotations. Just like if someone says you are fat, you can answer "God gave me a fleshy body for fear that others will be jealous of my beauty", so that both sides can avoid embarrassment.

3. Be serious enough when you speak, and then suddenly take an unexpected but reasonable turn. This can definitely make you become a humorous person in a short time, but you must finish from beginning to end.

Finally, and most importantly, humor is not for you to tell jokes to others, let alone intentionally. It is the embodiment of precipitation and cultivation. True humor is "the brilliance of the soul and the richness of wisdom".