Never argue with a fool, he will bring your IQ down to his level and crush you

Never argue with a fool, he will bring your IQ down to his level and crush you

2022-01-20

Never Argue with a fool, because he will bring your IQ down to his level and ravage you with his rich experience!

Of course, this is what you say to comfort yourself, then the fool is the other party.

In fact, in reality, both parties assume that the other party is a fool and that there is something wrong with the other party. Of course, it is not ruled out that some people just want to ravage you, which is the so-called PUA!

I said before that one of the situations of PUA is to make you lose confidence in your own values, and then guide you under his values, and then ravage you. It was just the ravage at that time, you thought It's just protection.

And I have also told some stories about great people who like to take advantage of others. In fact, many times it is not that great people like to take advantage of others. It’s just that after jumping out of the circle that they are familiar with, they don’t know what to do, and it will happen naturally. Leading you into his circle. Over time, even if he doesn't do it deliberately, he will reach this level naturally, and then slowly become an unnoticed habit of his own, and finally become a so-called shortcoming seen by others. After all, if you don’t correct or change, you don’t even care what others say, you just have to think about your own so-called thoughts.

If you know that the other person is deliberately pretending to be stupid, or is used to it, even if the other person is a very smart person, stop arguing, because in the end, you will be convinced. Of course, this is a bit absolute. After all, we still have to be brave enough to touch new things. But as I just said, you already know that the other person is like this.

However, this is so difficult to know. After all, no one is sure who is right. So it seems really difficult to say whether arguing is a kind of acceptance or a kind of resistance. However, to be honest, I have been exposed to it many times. In fact, what I want to say is that when we are involved in it, we know the scene, it is just whether we are willing to admit it.

There is a more important point, what is the reason why we don’t argue? Is it because we know that the other party is a fool, so we don’t argue, or is it because you don’t understand it yourself, so you don’t argue? ?

The reasons are different, and the results are even different. The most terrifying thing is that when you know that the other party is stupid and does not argue, you feel a little complacent. Then after many times, you develop a habit, but the other party is making progress. , then this is a boiled frog in warm water!

In fact, everyone has this problem to some extent. In front of things we are unfamiliar with, we are like giving "nicknames" or "labels" to make them familiar to us. A form, similar to equations plus data, becomes your own, easy to understand, and more importantly, you can control many things in your own field.

Fear of being cheated, fear of something being wrong, fear of not being able to figure out what the joke is, etc. To put it simply, fear of being looked down upon and fear of being in danger. Then they say, you don’t understand, this industry is different, this thing is different, etc., and then they start to ravage you.

And when you are really pulled in, you can easily get lost. After all, this is his profession and he has a complete say. Since he has a say, he can more or less bluff him. Stop you, then you will start to doubt yourself. At this time, the other party's goal has been achieved!

Therefore, self-improvement is the foundation, then persistence, and finally the so-called argument. After all, the argument must at least be about the same thing...

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Laugh at the past and laugh at the present, laugh at the East, laugh at the West, laugh at the South, laugh at the North.

Laugh here and there, laughing at your own ignorance.

Observe things, observe the sky, the earth, the sun and the moon.

Observe up, down, and others. There are always highs and lows.