How to deal with the bullying behavior of others' jokes

In life, we often encounter some bullying behaviors in the name of joking. These behaviors often make people feel uncomfortable, but it is not easy to express them clearly, because these people always bully others in a joking way. Below, I will share some bullying behaviors I have encountered in the name of joking.

Once, I was playing with several classmates, and one of them suddenly said to me, "You look stupid, hahaha." After he finished, he and other students laughed. I was embarrassed, but I couldn't express myself clearly because they were all joking.

Another time, when I was studying in the school library, suddenly a classmate came up to me and said, "Why are you studying so hard?" It is not and will not be of any use in the future. "Then he left. I felt very hurt at that time, because I thought I was working hard, but he took my efforts as a joke.

Another time, I was playing games with several classmates, and one of them suddenly said, "You are so lame, we don't want to play with you." Then they continued to play games, and I was isolated. This feeling is really hard, because you feel excluded, but you don't know what to do.

These bullying behaviors in the name of jokes, although seemingly just jokes, are easy to hurt people. If we accidentally hurt others by joking, we should apologize in time, show our attitude and accept our mistakes. At the same time, learn to protect yourself. If we feel that other people's jokes are beyond our acceptable range, we should speak out decisively and let others know how we feel. Only in this way can we establish healthy interpersonal relationships and make each other full of respect and understanding.