"Many women feel good after divorce because they don't have to wait on men and in-laws." what do you think?

I don't want to serve anyone either. No one agreed to serve her mother-in-law and husband. It seems that I should. When I was a child, I went back to my parents' home to recuperate, and my husband's family was left unattended. Now my mother is ill and wants to take care of her. Mother-in-law and husband look unhappy, and sometimes they are not happy when they make something my mother likes to eat and take home. Now I understand that their house is a hard stone that can't be covered by heat. No matter how they feel, they can eat if they want, do if they want, and buy if they want. At this age, if they are not filial, that's the sentence: sons have to support, relatives are gone, so as not to regret, they can do what they want.

A woman's marriage is born with sacrifice.

In ancient times, women had no conditions to support themselves. It is natural that most of them have to live on their husbands, honor their in-laws and raise their children, and submit to humiliation.

Nowadays, women not only have to work to supplement their families, but also take care of the big and small things at home and the human relationship between home and outside.

Live a tired life

Once divorced, she only needs to work to support herself and doesn't need to take care of trivial matters in marriage. Of course, she feels good by comparison.

When a woman marries, she marries someone who is worthy of her own sacrifice.

It won't be in vain.

Women get married in the hope that we can spend the rest of our lives together, not serve others. What we need more is care and understanding.

I know a woman in her thirties.

When she first met her, I couldn't believe that she was only thirty. A face of freckles, facial panic, only Nuo Nuo. I feel inferior.

She and her husband have been married for seven or eight years and have never worked a day. She takes care of her mother-in-law and husband at home. Having a child, she takes care of three people by herself. The mother-in-law doesn't like her, the children don't like her, and even the husband wants to divorce her.

When her husband filed for divorce, she felt that the sky was falling and she would not make money, so she stayed at home for so many years.

Later, in order to dispel her husband's idea of divorce, she threatened her son. A man found a job with his children. 1500 yuan. 1500 yuan can hardly support two people, but she still insists on her opinion that this will make her give up.

Among the people who work together, everyone looks down on her and thinks it's strange that her husband won't divorce because she looks like this and doesn't dress up.

She thought that with her son, her husband's family could find her and tell her not to go. I didn't expect everyone to ignore her and no one gave her a penny.

She figured it out and was doomed to divorce.

So I sent my son home, went out to work, learned to dress up, and was willing to spend money for myself, because she had nothing.

Now that she has learned to make up and buy beautiful clothes, she looks younger and needs it.

She said don't expect a man to support you for life. You'd better take care of yourself.

This story doesn't mean that you have done so much in vain, she just wants to say that you should be kind to yourself.

At the beginning of divorce, women did have a better life. After all, there are many things to do. At this time, men have a miserable life, and their feelings and life are not satisfactory. They have to start learning everything again.

One to three years before a man's divorce, he was sad. First, let go of his feelings slowly, and then readjust his life. During this period, he lived a more chic life.

As long as women don't lead an honest and clean life, they will be happy for a period of time after divorce and lonely after a period of time. Some of them remarried, some just went out for a wave, and finally they didn't know why.

Women feel very good after divorce. Why do they remarry so much? I still want to do those things after remarriage. Is there any change? Just a different one.

If a woman thinks divorce is good, then don't get married again. You can sleep until you wake up naturally, order takeout for dinner, go home if you want to go out for a drink, and don't go home if you don't want to. No one will take care of you, buy whatever you want, and no one will say anything about you

Women are so good after divorce, and it's really crazy to remarry. Divorce says that men don't do housework and take care of their children, but they remarry and cook and take care of their children. What is the significance of remarriage?

A group of women say it's good to be divorced together, but they don't know what they think when they are alone. Only they know what they are thinking. If they are really as good as women say, I think there should be more single women than men! However, there are not many divorced single women, but many men.

Whether a woman feels good after divorce depends on how much she remarries. If a woman says yes, we will listen. After all, what women say is reasonable. If a woman feels good after divorce, I advise her not to remarry. Isn't it a slap in the face to remarry?

Only those who disagree, please don't go in.

The happiest thing after divorce.

First, you don't have to mind your in-laws' eyes when you spend money, you won't be happy when you go shopping, and coming back to listen to your in-laws' nagging will affect your mood.

Second, get up whenever you want on weekends, and consider your own taste when cooking.

Third, stay as long as you want to go back to your parents' home for the holidays, regardless of the feelings of your in-laws, give as many gifts as you want, and don't look at your in-laws' faces carefully.

Fourth, don't listen to your mother-in-law's abuse and nagging. You've never seen a woman. From six o'clock in the morning to evening, you can curse while eating, and food often comes out of her mouth. You don't have to force yourself to find a bunch of relatives in your husband's family, and you don't have to be born by them all day.

5. I decided my own room. I don't have to worry about my husband's family rummaging through my room, stealing and losing things. I deserve it. I can't have a problem yet.

Six, sometimes lazy to eat takeout can be aboveboard, regardless of other people's feelings.

Seven, when you are sick, you can lie down all day. No one forces you to get up and do housework, and no one nags you to be melodramatic.

Eight, how to use household appliances, how to use the washing machine, don't worry about my mother-in-law scolding me for wasting electricity and water. In the past, my mother-in-law's washing machine was locked and not used. Washing clothes by hand in winter was very painful.

Nine, you don't have to wash the bowls of a dozen people every day, you just need to wash a few bowls, and your imagination is very relaxed.

Ten, don't quarrel because of your husband's family and your partner, don't worry about your husband's money, earn money and spend it yourself.

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Anyway, divorce must be presided over by a guest!

I don't believe that after divorce, women will feel "very good" because they don't have to wait on men and in-laws and do less.

From the inside out, women feel bad after divorce, even if they are not short of money.

Why do women in China divorce? It's because it's too difficult to divorce in marriage, because life is worse than death. It is enough to live after divorce, and you will never feel "very good". No matter how strong and capable a woman is, she will not feel "very good" when she is divorced and faces the strange eyes of her family and friends. Those who agree are all Ah Q, deceiving themselves!

Many women feel good after divorce because they don't have to wait on men and in-laws. I think this is sometimes a woman's helpless choice. Of course, I don't approve of divorce. I am just making an analysis of this social phenomenon.

Everyone has different feelings about divorce, and people in every era have different feelings. Nowadays, people have a high quality of life and high requirements for marriage.

In the old society, men were the mainstay of the family, and women depended on men for survival. Even if their marriage is unhappy, they will not choose divorce under normal circumstances.

Everyone knows that Lu Xun's wife is Xu Guangping, but they don't know that Lu Xun has an original wife named Zhu An. Zhu An was a marriage arranged by Lu Xun's mother. Lu Xun and Zhu An are only husband and wife, but as Zhu An, they chose to serve Lu Xun and his mother all their lives. Of course, when Lu Xun got married and left, Zhu An didn't have a chance to serve Lu Xun.

In modern society, women don't have to rely on men to survive. They have their own jobs, but people still think that it is women's duty to serve men and in-laws, raise children and even do endless housework.

Imagine that women should not only bear the same responsibility as men to support their families, but also take care of their husbands, in-laws, children and housework. Is the burden on women too heavy?

Therefore, women feel more relaxed after divorce. Many girls in fear of marriage are not only afraid of having children, but these heavy burdens are also an important factor that makes them fear of marriage. Therefore, it is time to adjust the injustice caused by old thinking to women, so that women will no longer choose divorce to release pressure and girls will no longer be afraid of marriage, and our society will be more harmonious and stable.

I have married a man once in my life and have nothing. After the divorce, I had another child. The man left me alone and I was sentenced. After so many years of hard work and pain, only I know that my daughter has rheumatoid arthritis for six years and can't be cured. She managed to get a pension of 2000 yuan. What are the benefits of getting married? There is no advantage at all. This is the endless pain caused by marrying the wrong person. If I were a young man now, I wouldn't go this way. I will earn money alone and spend it alone. I can do whatever I want. When I am old, I can earn more money and enter a better nursing home.

People can't just live for themselves. An excellent person should be not afraid of hardship and fatigue. For the happiness of family members, it is also appropriate to pay some hard work. This is also a kind of responsibility and a kind of dedication. This is a great feeling. Men and women are the same. As we all know, it is very hard for women to have children. But most people will readily accept this fact. They have no complaints and are willing to make sacrifices for their country and family. This spirit deserves the respect of every male compatriot. Now some people are addicted to pleasure and don't want to do housework. A lazy woman like this will not be respected by others.

Two years ago, I ended 30 years of marriage. To tell you the truth, I had the same idea. I don't have to serve him now, nor do I have to serve his parents. I will be completely free for the rest of my life except to support my parents and die. To tell the truth, I have a good relationship with my former parents-in-law. She is very nice, and I am willing to wait on her when she is old. But parents can't make a decision about marriage, even though the former in-laws have done a lot of mediation work. Divorce is really helpless, but if I can continue, I don't want to divorce at this age. Compared with divorce, it's really no big deal to serve your husband and in-laws. It's actually a comfort to think so. In fact, I have the habit of serving my husband and the responsibility of serving my in-laws. After the divorce, I was really much freer. Let's just say that I work abroad, earn my own money and spend my own money. My ex-husband had five stents for a heart attack a year ago. If I don't get divorced, I will simply give up my job abroad and go back to China to accompany him, and then take care of his parents when he retires. I will never be able to go out and live the life I want. Now, when I earn enough money, I can do anything I want. Life is your own, just think about the benefits under any circumstances. Life has always been a choice, some active, some passive. Weigh more when choosing, be positive and optimistic after choosing, and work hard to be happy!