I lost my mobile phone.

6543810.5, a 9-year-old boy from Huangqiao, Taixing, Jiangsu Province went out to play alone and accidentally lost his mobile phone.

Looking for a long time without results, I clearly sat in the snow and cried in despair.

Finally, he chose to go home.

In a rage, his mother tied his hands, feet and body with tape, making him unable to move and resist.

Mother beat Mingming with a wooden stick, and rested from 6 pm to midnight 1 1, during which she only fed a few mouthfuls of water.

Late at night, the mother carried Mingming to the child's room and said, "Mom, I don't want to see you." Mother angrily returned to her room and fell asleep.

In the early morning of the 6th, Mingming was lying on the cold floor of the room in her thin autumn clothes and trousers, and closed her eyes forever.

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120 when he received the call, he was obviously dead. The child is already fragmented and scarred, with injuries on his head and face, bruises on his hands and arms, and terrible buttocks, legs and feet.

Neighbors cried when they heard the bad news, saying that the poor man was relieved.

Uncle Qian, the security guard, is even more unbelievable. After he lost his mobile phone, he asked for help: "Grandpa, I went to play in the back and lost my mobile phone."

Uncle Qian said to Mingming, "Good meat, now you are going to be beaten by your mother."

Then, uncle Qian accompanied Mingming to find it, and the mobile phone had no number. I searched along the road for a long time, but I couldn't find it. Uncle Qian had to go first.

After a while, Uncle Qian was not at ease, so he went to Mingming again and found Mingming sitting in the snow crying (now think about it, the child had a hunch that he could not pass this pass).

Uncle Qian's eyes, how could he think that it was the last time he looked after the children?

According to the neighbor's description, Ming Ming is a sensible child, very polite, very smart, and studies well, and will not let others say that his mother is not good.

Usually he and his mother are at home, and his mother is polite to people, but it is flammable and explosive to children, so she often makes it clear.

"When you started, every time you were obviously beaten, our hearts were tied." Neighbor said.

"Obviously losing my mobile phone really makes me angry. Plus, he didn't do his homework well, so I started hitting with a wooden stick. " Mingming's mother said after being arrested.

Mingming's mother also said that Mingming's father didn't go home for many years and didn't give a penny for living expenses. Yao Ming is very dependent on her, and often says that a person is afraid at home. Can mom not go to work to accompany him? How to make money without going to work? What if there is no income in life?

She admitted the fact of child abuse. After she tied the child with tape, she called from 6 pm to midnight 1 1, and took a break, about five times.

On the 8 th, the snow melted, Mingming's mobile phone was found, but Mingming left forever.

After watching the news, I burst into tears and couldn't calm down for a long time. Obviously, Xiaoju's body has been shaking in front of me.

There is a famous English proverb that a mother is God in a child's mouth and heart.

In Mingming's short nine-year life, his mother really played the role of "God" because she dominated Mingming's life and death.

"Mom" is the sweetest word in the world, and "Mom" is the most beautiful call. However, Mingming's mother made us shudder. How does such a person deserve to be a mother?

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Tiger poison didn't eat the child, but the mother killed her own flesh and blood. A nine-year-old life died in a hurry before it could be opened.

Many people commented that this woman was mentally ill. She vented her resentment against marriage and her husband's resentment on her children, and many people agreed.

The news did mention that Mingming's father didn't go home for many years and didn't give a penny for living expenses. Mingming's father didn't go home for many years, and Mingming's mother had to work to earn money to support her family and take care of her children.

However, I want to say that a child can't bear your resentment against society, your resentment against unhappy marriage and your resentment against hard life.

In this way, entrepreneurial failure, work failure, anger at leaders, unhappiness with colleagues, the arrival of menstruation, and inexplicable anger can all be reasons to beat up children. Think how ridiculous it is!

But, ask yourself, how many of our parents really do this? That's pathetic!

One weekend, I took my babies to play in the community and met my daughter's classmates playing alone. My daughter warmly invited him to my home.

"Okay, oh, no! My mother will hit me, and she will let me play for a while before going home. " It can be seen from the tangled words and eyes of the little boy that he really wants to come.

"It's okay. I'm your mother's friend. I'll call her. " I said with a smile

"No, if you call, she will hit me more."

"No, if I explain to her why, she won't resist. I'll help you talk to her and ask her not to hit you in the future. "

"My mother hit me, so cruel. Nothing can be said. The more you talk, the angrier she gets and the harder she hits me. Really, aunt, don't say anything! "

I was silent, but my heart was mixed.

I know, the little boy is right, I can't help him. It is also possible that I can help him this time, but in the long road of growth, he will eventually face his mother alone and bear the violence and abuse of her.

Before he has the strength to fight back, only being careful and resigned is the best way to protect himself, otherwise his mother will understand one day and learn to show mercy to the child, otherwise others' persuasion and intercession will only make him worse.

This is true, but it is also the epitome of countless families. We all love our children, but there are always various reasons to scold them, put pressure on them and do harm to them.

Many people encounter difficulties and are wronged by leaders, colleagues, friends and strangers. They all know how to forbear, control and restrain themselves. Why?

On the one hand, in front of outsiders, the Civilization Reform Association always reminds us to pay attention to our words and deeds. On the other hand, I am afraid of encountering a counterattack, which will bring me greater unhappiness.

But, in front of the children? Many people are like firecrackers, which suddenly explode and let their emotions play to their fullest, just because underage children are weak, helpless and unable to fight back.

I often see such a strange phenomenon. Many men are angry outside. He doesn't hit outsiders. He went home to beat his wife and children. Many women are angry with outsiders, especially husbands. She doesn't beat outsiders, husbands or children.

China people's bullying, bullying and fear of hard, in front of their families, especially children, is really presented to the extreme.

When older children are disobedient, parents just shed some tears and scold a few words of "rebellious children"; After independence, when children are disobedient and disobedient, parents slowly learn to accept and follow their children; The most pitiful are underage children, who are the least able to argue and resist.

When children do their homework, we slap them in the face when they encounter problems they can't understand; The child accidentally dropped the cup and we slapped him in the face. The child's dream disturbed our good dream, and we slapped each other.

When we meet questions that children can't understand in books, we will easily tease each other: "Now college students can't get full marks in elementary school questions." ; We accidentally dropped the pot, and whoever dares to question it, we dare to directly smash the pot in his face; We can't sleep, and we play drama night after night. If the child dares to ask, he will be yelled back to bed.

Many things have happened to us, and we can all understand and let go. Why can't we forgive a child? Are we parents or tyrants?

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Babies are the best. They are as pure and lovely as angels. They know nothing about the world, and their parents have no demands on them. It is always not enough to spoil and love them blindly.

How many people remember the first time they scolded their children? When was the first time you hit a child? When will children fight for themselves? When did the children get used to our beating and scolding and stop fighting?

When my daughter began to understand what adults said, I raised my voice and spoke to her fiercely because of a small matter.

I clearly remember my daughter's reaction. First she paused and asked me, "What are you doing?"

She doesn't understand how her mother, who has never been gentle, can suddenly do this. She didn't even understand what that tone and expression meant.

When I explained to her, it was because she had just made a mistake that my mother was fierce, which meant that my mother was angry and didn't want her to make any more mistakes.

Then she burst into tears and said, "I don't want my mother to be bad to me." I don't want my mother to be bad to me. "

I realized my mistake and immediately said to her, "I'm sorry, mom won't treat you badly in the future." Mom will tell you well. " She just stopped crying.

Later, because of some trivial things, I lost control and got angry with her. She cried and said, "Mom, didn't you say not to be bad to me last time?" Why are you talking like that again? "

"Well, mom was wrong. Mom will never talk like that again. If you say that again, will you remind mom? "

Then, with tears in her eyes, the daughter said a particularly profound sentence: "But I am afraid that you will forget, and I am also afraid that I will forget."

"I'm afraid you forget", how many parents are used to this way of loving their children when they are beating and cursing; "I'm afraid I'll forget", how many children have adapted to this life of being scolded and beaten.

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? "Mom, I don't want to see you." This is the last sentence clearly left to mother and the last sentence left to the world.

"Only a mother is good in the world, and a child with a mother is like a baby. If you throw it into your mother's arms, you won't enjoy happiness ... "

I hope every parent will not just shed a few tears and be gentle with their children for a few days after seeing this social news. Then, as soon as the news was over, they entered the long and trivial years of parenting, their mouths began to be mean again, their hands began to owe money again, and they would continue to regret themselves afterwards.

Over and over again, although the child who is beaten to death is a special case, there are still some things that will die on the child, such as self-confidence, such as security, such as self-esteem, such as happiness. ...

Children can forgive us a thousand times because we are their closest relatives in this world, but do we really have to make mistakes again and again?

Because he (she) is our baby,

Because he (she) is our closest relative,

For the love of parents and children in this life,

Restrain your emotions,

Don't let your child want to say to you most: Mom (Dad), I don't want to see you.