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Type 1: Perfectionist (Reformer/Perfectionist) Perfectionist*Desire traits: pursuit of continuous progress〖 Enneagram

Basic dilemma〗: If I am not perfect, I will No one will love me. 〖Main Characteristics〗: Principled, not easy to compromise, often say "should" and "should not", distinguish between black and white, have high demands on oneself and others, pursue perfection, constantly improve, have a weak emotional world; hope to do everything well You have to be perfect and hope that you and the world will make more progress. Always reflect on whether you have made mistakes, and you will also correct the mistakes of others. 〖Main traits〗: Patience, perseverance, commitment-keeping, follow-through, family-loving, law-abiding, influential leader, likes to control, aboveboard. 〖Life style〗: Love to exhort and teach, avoid expressing anger, believe that there are endless things to do every day. 〖Interpersonal relationship〗: You are a typical perfectionist, easy to understand. Precisely because you pursue perfection in everything, you rarely say words of praise, and often you only criticize, whether it is for yourself or the people around you! And because you have extremely high standards for yourself, you put a lot of pressure on yourself, and it will be difficult for you to relax and have fun and have fun Enneagram

laugh! 〖Angry, dissatisfaction〗 If you belong to Type 1, I believe you often feel this way, right? You often feel angry and dissatisfied because of your extremely high life requirements. When something goes wrong, it's easy to feel angry and dissatisfied, feeling that things shouldn't happen this way... This kind of emotion is not only for yourself, but also for the surrounding environment and people, because you treat them It also has very high requirements. But please note that as your friend, it is not easy to bear your anger, and it will also cause stress, so be more careful! 〖Disappointment, frustration〗 Also because of your attitude of pursuing perfection in everything, you often feel that you have hit a wall and are unsatisfactory in life. In addition to venting anger externally, in fact, I am constantly experiencing frustration and disappointment in my heart. These emotions are not healthy for you and must be dealt with proactively. The most fundamental way is not to make yourself better, but to adjust your view of everything and face it with ease! Other types of things mentioned above are correct [Basic Fear]: Fear of doing something wrong, becoming bad, and being corrupted. [Basic Desire]: Hope that one is right, good, chaste, and honest. Type 2: Full Loving type, Helper/Giver type (Helper/Giver) *Desire trait: Pursuing service [Basic dilemma]: If I don’t help others, no one will love me. 〖Main Enneagram Characteristics

Characteristics〗: Longing for love or good relationships with others, willing to accommodate others, people-oriented, wanting others to feel they need them, often ignoring themselves; very concerned about other people's feelings and needs, very enthusiastic, Only when you are willing to give love to others and see others accept their love with satisfaction will you feel that your life is valuable. 〖Main Traits〗: Gentle, friendly, easy-going, never express needs directly, tactful and reserved, nice Mr./Ms., generous, willing to do good deeds 〖Life Style〗: Love to report facts, avoid being helped, busy helping others, deny the existence of problems. 〖Interpersonal relationship〗: Helper type (Helper) As the name suggests, you like to help others, and you are proactive and generous! Although you are sensitive to the needs of others, you often ignore your own needs. For you, meeting the needs of others is more important than meeting your own needs, so you rarely make requests to others. In this way, your ego is not strong, and you often have to help others to affirm themselves. 〖Proud, proud〗 Enneagram

As Type 2, do you think this description is inappropriate? Surprised? In fact, you, who have always shown that the foundation of happiness is helping others, affirm yourself through enthusiastically helping others, and want your friends to accept and appreciate you. So when a friend comes to you for help, you will be very happy, and you will also feel proud and proud, because you will get affirmation and satisfaction in the process. 〖Possession, Control〗 Just because you get so much satisfaction from helping others, you want to continue to be locked up like this. This is normal! However, when you "invest" more time and effort, you hope to get more returns.

It is very likely that you would really like your friends to "attach" you, or even just "attach" you, tell you everything, and share everything with you. This is reflected in your inner possessiveness. If your friends don't treat you this way, they will be very disappointed and feel that they have betrayed you. Or, you might put pressure on them to control them. Of course, this does not mean that every Type 2 is like this, but when we are not in a good state and are not in a good mood, we do have the opportunity to have the above tendencies. Pay more attention to your emotional reactions to help control and improve them! 〖Basic fear〗: Not being loved, not being needed 〖Basic desire〗: Feeling the existence of love Type 3: Achiever/Motivator Type of doer , no one will love me. 〖Main Characteristics〗: Strongly competitive, likes to recognize authority, often compares with others, measures one's own value by achievements, focuses on image, workaholic, afraid to express inner feelings; hopes to be recognized by everyone. He is a careerist, constantly pursuing effectiveness, hoping to be different, attract the attention and envy of others, and become the focus of everyone. 〖Main Traits〗: Confident, energetic, humorous, confident, smooth, proactive, beautiful image 〖Life Style〗: Love to count your achievements, avoid failures, and live according to long-term goals. 〖Interpersonal Relationships〗: Achiever: You are energetic and always motivated because you have a strong desire to win! You like to accept challenges and will connect your own values ??and achievements. Achievement-oriented you will pursue a goal wholeheartedly because you believe that "nothing is impossible in the world." If you are full of motivation, it is best to be a leader and lead others! 〖Narcissism and showing off〗 Type 3 people tend to see themselves as very big and important, so they are a little narcissistic and self-inflated. Therefore, you will show your best side to your friends, and even in extreme cases, you will lie in front of your friends in order to "maintain" your image in Peng Shui's mind. Many times, Type Three's true strength is often not that strong because their expressions are a bit exaggerated. 〖Afraid of Intimacy〗 Type 3 you are very afraid of intimate relationships. This does not mean that you will have no friends, but when the relationship deepens, you may avoid or run away because you are afraid of being seen. Therefore, it is not easy for Type 3s to establish close/good friends relationships because they are afraid of being seen by others, and therefore find it difficult to open up and communicate honestly with others. Type 3, you are very competitive and usually think that you cannot "admit defeat" in front of your friends, so you will act "great and great", but no one in the world is perfect! When you can allow yourself to see people as they really are, your life will be very happy! 〖Basic Fear〗: No achievements, nothing accomplished 〖Basic Desires〗: Feeling valuable, accepted Type 4: Artistic, Self-type (Artist/Individualist) Tragic Romantic ＊Desire Traits: Pursuing uniqueness 〖Basic Sleepy Thoughts〗: Me If I were not unique, no one would love me. 〖Main Characteristics〗: Emotional, pursuing romance, afraid of being rejected, feeling that others do not understand me, possessive, going my own way. Life style: likes to talk about unhappy things, prone to depression and jealousy, pursuing life to feel good; cherishing myself very much love and emotions, so I want to nourish them well and express them in the most beautiful and special way. They want to create unique and distinctive images and works, so they are constantly self-aware, self-reflective, and self-exploring. 〖Main Traits〗: Easily influenced by emotions, tend to pursue unusual, artistic and meaningful things, have many fantasies, believe that death, suffering, and tragedy are the most valuable and real life, and have a keen sense of beauty that can be seen in unique clothing , and his taste in arranging the environment shows his uniqueness, he is extremely creative, overly emotional, easily depressed or depressed, often feels that life is a tragedy, is aloof from others, and is afraid that close relationships will make people discover that he is not perfect. Know the Enneagram

Leave him. 〖Life style〗: Like to talk about unhappy things, prone to depression and jealousy, pursue life to feel good.

〖Interpersonal Relationships〗: Individualist (Individualist) Has anyone ever told you that you have the temperament of an artist? This self-type is exactly the character of an artist - sentimental and imaginative, and he will often be intoxicated in his own imaginary world. On the other hand, since you are an emotion-driven person, you may not do some work if you don't like it, and you will not consider the issue of responsibility. 〖Jealousy, Comparison〗 For those of you who are egotistical, you all actually have a bit of an "artistic temperament," right? Self-pity, feeling that oneself is different from others, and liking to indulge in one's own imaginary world... Many times, Type 4 behaves more withdrawn, all because they feel different from those around them, and others will not understand. , and you feel that other people have a lot of things that you don’t have, so it is difficult to be satisfied in the real social circle. 〖Self-absorption and self-pity〗 Since they cannot get satisfaction from real life, ego-type friends will construct their own world in fantasy and create some moody environments so that their emotions can be vented. However, in this way, self-type people appear to be more emotional, making others less able to understand you and making you more isolated. So you have to be careful not to let yourself get too disconnected! 〖Basic fear〗: No unique self-feeling or meaning of existence 〖Basic desire〗: Looking for self, finding self-identity in inner experience Type 5: Wisdom, thinking type (Thinker/Observer) Observer* Desire Trait: Pursuit of knowledge 〖Basic Troubled Thought〗: If I don’t have knowledge, no one will love me. 〖Main Characteristics〗: Look at the world coldly, detach from emotions, like to think and analyze, want to know a lot, but lack action, do not have high requirements for material life, like spiritual life, not good at expressing inner feelings; want to gain more knowledge, Come to understand the environment and face the things around you. They want to find out the context and principles of things as a guideline for action. With knowledge, they dare to act and feel safe. 〖Main traits〗: Gentle and elegant, knowledgeable, well-organized, reserved in expression, clumsy with words, silent and introverted, cold and distant, lack of vitality, slow to respond 〖Life style〗: Love to observe, criticize, detach yourself, watch something every day Endless book. 〖Interpersonal relationship〗: Thinker type: You are a very calm person. You always want to keep a distance from people and things around you, and you will not lose your temper to vent your emotions. Many times, you will first be a spectator before you can participate. In addition, you also need sufficient personal space and a high degree of privacy, otherwise you will feel very anxious and unstable! You also have a good chance of becoming an expert, such as computers, comics, and fashion, because you are very passionate about knowledge! 〖Discrimination and detachment〗 Thinking people often observe things around them, but rarely participate in them, so they have very little emotional investment. Also, they are easy to discern and very persistent, but rarely have the space and measure to "discriminate". Perseverance in knowledge is important, but the experience gained in life is also very valuable. I hope you can strike a balance and get the most! 〖Basic Fear〗: Incompetence, ignorance, laziness 〖Basic Desire〗: Competence, rich knowledge Type Six: Loyal (Team Player/Loyalist) Skeptic , no one will love me. 〖Main Characteristics〗: Cautious in doing things, not easily trusting others, many doubts, likes group life, does his best for others, does not like to be watched, is content with the status quo, does not like to change to new environments; believes in authority and follows the guidance of authority However, on the other hand, he is prone to rebel against authority and his personality is full of contradictions. They have a strong sense of community, a need for intimacy, and a need to be loved, accepted, and protected. 〖Main traits〗: Loyal, alert, cautious, resourceful, pragmatic, observant, and discipline maintainer. 〖Life style〗: Love peaceful discussion, fear authority, tradition can give a sense of security, fear achievement and avoid problems. 〖Interpersonal Relationships〗: Loyalist: You will be a good employee because you are loyal and conscientious. A sense of security is important to you, because when you encounter new people and things, they will make you feel fearful and uneasy.

Based on this kind of fear and uneasiness, you will prepare for the worst in everything. In other words, you are more pessimistic and more likely to avoid things. 〖Fear, worry, hesitation〗 Loyal type, you behave loyal because you are afraid, worry about many things, and often plan for the worst, so you are very cautious. For the same reason, because you are afraid of making the wrong decision, when faced with a choice, most of you seem very hesitant and cautious. Appropriate worry can protect us, but excessive worry can hinder our progress! Pay attention! [Basic fear]: lack of support and guidance, unable to take care of everything with one's own ability [Basic desire]: receiving support and a sense of security Type 7: Active, cheerful (Enthusiast) Hedonist* Desire Trait: Pursuit Happiness [Basic sleepy thought]: If I don’t bring joy, no one will love me. 〖Main Characteristics〗: Optimistic, want freshness, keep up with trends, don’t like to be under pressure, are afraid of negative emotions; want to live a happy life, want to innovate, entertain others, desire to live a more enjoyable life, and put the bad things in the world into perspective Vanished. They like to plunge into a world of experiencing happiness and high emotions, so they are always looking for happiness and experiencing happiness. 〖Main Traits〗: Happy and enthusiastic, non-stop activities, non-stop acquisition, afraid of serious things, versatile, very familiar with fun things and will spend energy to study, just want to be happy at any cost, treat people in a laughing and scolding way thing. 〖Life style〗: Loves to talk about his own experiences and likes to create happiness. There are too many happy things waiting for him in life. 〖Interpersonal relationship〗: Active type (Adventurer) The active type of you is like this: optimistic, energetic, charming, active, greedy for novelty, and changes at all times... "I want to have fun lately" is you philosophy of life! You need freshness in life, so you don't like to be restrained and controlled. Your vitality is the vitality of playing, and it is different from the achievement type of the third type. I believe that you are a busy person in activities and will never tire of playing! 〖Impatient, impulsive, addictive〗 Fun and hedonistic active type, lack of patience in doing things, because you are both afraid of boredom. In addition to being impatient, they are also prone to act impulsively, because friends of Type 7 rarely have detailed plans for doing things, and they are very quick to celebrate and do whatever they want! But you must be careful. Even if you encounter a thing or interest that you like very much, you must learn not to become addicted to it! Always take care of your own body and other things! (I say this because Type 7 people are more addicted to smoking, drugs, gambling, or video games, etc. than other types. Be careful!) [Basic Fear]: Being exploited, trapped in pain Medium [Basic Desire]: The pursuit of happiness, satisfaction, and getting what one wants Type 8: Leader, Capability (Leader) Protector* Desire Trait: Pursuing power [Basic Troubled Thoughts]: If I don’t have power, no one will love me I. 〖Main Characteristics〗: Pursue power, emphasize strength, do not rely on others, have a sense of justice, talk about things, like to do big things; an absolute activist, and take action to solve problems as soon as they encounter them. If you want to be independent, you must rely on yourself and do things according to your own abilities. You want to destroy before building, and you want to lead everyone towards fairness and justice. 〖Main traits〗: Aggressive, self-centered, despising cowardice, respecting strong men, standing up for the oppressed, impulsive, acting out on the spot when dissatisfied, subjective, intuitive. 〖Lifestyle〗: Loves to command, speaks loudly and with authority, has a vindictive mentality, loves to debate, and controls life by will. 〖Interpersonal relations〗: Many leaders of the Leader type have the following characteristics: bold, informal, self-respecting, getting stronger when encountering strong, caring about justice and fairness. You know your goals and work hard to move forward. Because you do not want to be controlled by others and have a certain degree of dominance, you have the potential to be a leader and lead everyone. Since you are both more competitive, you can sometimes be a little aggressive towards others, which can make people feel stressed. 〖Invasion, Challenge, Rebellion〗 Type 8 you usually act as a leader and can have full authority to make arrangements and command others.

Because you have strong motivation, you sometimes give people a sense of aggression, and this is also the source of your own motivation. You have a strong desire to win and control, but you must use it carefully and don't use it to hurt others! In addition, you are dedicated to challenging the difficulty and standards, which is the willfulness of "knowing that there are tigers in the mountains, but prefer to travel in the tiger mountains". So it’s very possible that you don’t listen when your mother tells you not to do things; when the teacher wants you to learn, you act stupid... Is this what you will do? If true, would it be beneficial to you? 〖Basic fear〗: Being considered weak, being hurt, controlled, violated 〖Basic desire〗: Deciding the direction of one’s own life, defending one’s own interests, being strong Type 9: Peacemaker, Harmony (Peacemaker) Mediator* Desire Trait: Pursuit of peace [Basic Troubled Thought]: If I am not kind, no one will love me. 〖Main Characteristics〗: It takes a long time to make decisions, it is difficult to reject others, and does not know how to vent anger; appears to be very gentle, does not like to conflict with others, does not boast or show off, and has a weak personality. I want to live in harmony with others, avoid all conflicts and tensions, and want things to remain as they are. Ignore the things that make you unhappy and try to keep yourself as steady and calm as possible. 〖Main traits〗: Gentle and friendly, patient, easy-going, afraid of competition, unable to concentrate, sometimes like sleepwalking, will not finish the job until the last minute, very dependent on other people's reminders, focus on details, minor things, He doesn't have much interest in most things, doesn't like to be dominated by others, and never directly expresses dissatisfaction. 〖Lifestyle〗: Love harmony, work slowly, prone to laziness and depression, pursue comfort in life. 〖Interpersonal relationship〗: Peacemaker: In many situations, you are peacemakers, considerate and easy-going. It is easy for you to understand others, but you are not very clear about what you want, and you will appear indecisive. Relatively speaking, you will have fewer opinions and would rather cooperate with other people's arrangements and be a good supporter, so you are relatively passive. 〖Shy, afraid of trouble, lazy〗 The peaceful type of you is indifferent to the world and hopes that everyone can live in peace. You are very afraid of causing conflicts and you are an inconspicuous one. Since you never try to stand out, you will be shy and afraid of getting into trouble, and it is easy to be lazy. Because you love peace and do not like hard work, you will not push yourself! If you want to do something big, you have to push yourself hard! 〖Basic fear〗: Change and pressure, loss of balance 〖Basic desire〗: Maintain inner peace and stability

Simple test

① There are 108 statements below. ② Make a mark in front of the statement that you think fits your description, and pay attention to covering up the numbers in front of each statement ③ Then add up the marks behind the same number, for example, there are 3 marks after the number "1", and there are 3 marks after the number "2" There are 8 tokens, the number "3" is followed by 1 token, the number "4" is followed by 5 tokens, etc. ④ The number with the most marks is likely to be your type number. ⑤ It should be noted that this conclusion is for reference only, and a more accurate judgment needs to be obtained after in-depth understanding and comparison. 9 1. I am easily confused 1 2. I don’t want to be a critical person, but it is difficult to do so 5 3. I like to study the principles and philosophy of the universe 7 4. I pay attention to whether I am young, because it is to have fun 8 5. I like to be alone and do everything by myself 2 6. When I have difficulties, I will try not to let others know 4 7. Being misunderstood is a very painful thing for me.

2 8. Giving gives me greater satisfaction than receiving 6 9. I often imagine the worst results and get myself into trouble 6 10. I often test or test the loyalty of friends and partners 8 11. I look down on those who do not For people as strong as me, sometimes I will humiliate them in various ways 9 12. Physical comfort is very important to me 4 13. I can touch the sadness and misfortune in life 1 14. Others cannot complete their duties , will make me disappointed and angry 9 15. I often procrastinate problems and do not solve them 7 16. I like drama and colorful life 4 17. I think that I am very imperfect 7 18. I have a particularly strong need for the senses, Like food, clothing, physical tactile stimulation, and indulge in pleasure 5 19. When others ask me some questions, I will analyze them clearly in detail 3 20. I am used to promoting myself and never feel embarrassed 7 21. Sometimes I will Indulgence and doing extreme things 2 22. It makes me feel miserable if I can’t help others 5 23. I don’t like people asking me broad, general questions 8 24. I tend to indulge in certain areas (e.g. food, drugs etc.) 9 25. I would rather adapt to others, including my partner, than resist them 6 26. One of the things I dislike the most is hypocrisy 8 27. I know my mistakes and can correct them, but because I am persistent and strong, people around me Still feel pressure 7 28. I often feel that many things are fun and interesting, and life is really happy 6 29. Sometimes I appreciate my authority, but sometimes I am indecisive and dependent on others 2 30. I am used to giving more than receiving 6 31 .When faced with a threat, I either become anxious or fight against the oncoming danger 5 32. I usually wait for others to approach me instead of approaching them 3 33. I like to be the protagonist and hope to win over everyone Note 9 34. I will not respond or defend when others criticize me, because I don’t want any disputes or conflicts 6 35. Sometimes I look forward to others’ guidance, but sometimes I ignore other people’s advice and just do what I want to do 9 36. I often forget my own needs 6 37. In major crises, I can usually overcome my doubts about myself and inner anxiety 3 38. I am a natural salesman, and it is easy for me to persuade others. 9 39. I don’t trust a person I have never understood 8 40. I like to act according to routine and don’t like changes 9 41. I care about my family very much and am loyal and tolerant at home 5 42. I am passive And indecisive 5 43. I am very tolerant and polite, but I do not have deep emotional interactions with people 8 44. I am taciturn and seem not to care about others 6 45. When I am immersed in work or my area of ??expertise , others will think that I am cold and heartless 6 46. I am always alert 5 47. I don’t like the feeling of having to fulfill my obligations to others 5 48. If I cannot express my position perfectly, I would rather not say it 7 49. My plan is better than my actual completion 8 50. I am ambitious and like challenges and the experience of climbing to the top 5 51. I tend to be dictatorial and solve problems myself 4 52. I often feel abandoned 4 53. I often appear very depressed , full of pain and introversion 4 54. When I first meet strangers, I will act cold and arrogant 1 55. My facial expression is serious and stiff 4 56. I am very erratic and often don’t know what I want in the next moment 1 57. I am often critical of myself and hope to continuously improve my shortcomings in order to become a perfect person 4 58. I feel particularly deeply and doubt those who are always happy 3 59. I am efficient in doing things and will also find shortcuts and imitate Very strong 1 60. I am reasonable and practical 4 61. I have strong creative talent and imagination and like to reorganize things 9 62. I do not ask for too much attention 1 63. I like everything Everything is in order, but others will think that I am too persistent 4 64. I long for a perfect soul partner 3 65. I often boast about myself and am very confident in my abilities 8 66. If the people around me behave too much

3 67. I am outgoing, energetic, and constantly striving for achievement, which makes me feel good about myself 6 68. I am a loyal friend and partner 2 69. I know how to make others Like me 3 70. I rarely see other people’s merits and benefits 2 71. I easily know other people’s merits and benefits 3 72. I am jealous and like to compare with others 1 73. I always do things to others Don't worry, after some criticism, I will do it again. 3 74. Others will say that I often wear a mask to behave. 6 75. Sometimes I will anger the other person and cause inexplicable quarrels. In fact, I want to test whether the other person loves me. 8 76. I will try my best to protect the people I love 3 77. I can often maintain excitement 7 78. I only like to make friends with interesting people, but I am too lazy to interact with some boring people, even if they seem to be very deep 2 79. I often run out and help others 3 80. Sometimes I focus on efficiency at the expense of perfection and principles 1 81. I don’t seem to know much about humor and have no flexibility 2 82. I am enthusiastic and patient with others 5 83. In the crowd I often feel shy and uneasy 8 84. I like efficiency and hate procrastination 2 85. Helping others achieve happiness and success is an important achievement for me 2 86. If others do not readily accept my contribution, I will feel frustrated 1 87 .My limbs are stiff and I am not used to the enthusiastic devotion of others. 5 88. I am not very interested in most social gatherings, unless they are people I know and love well. 2 89. Many times I have a strong sense of loneliness. 2 90. People are happy to tell me about their problems 1 91. Not only am I not good at sweet-talking, but others think I am nagging 7 92. I often worry about being deprived of my freedom, so I don’t like to make promises 3 93 .I like to tell others what I have done and everything I know 9 94. I easily agree with what others have done and everything they know about me 8 95. I demand fairness and I am not willing to conflict with others for this purpose 8 96 .I have a strong sense of justice and sometimes side with the unfavorable side 1 97. I focus on details and am not very efficient 9 98. I tend to feel frustrated and numb more than angry 5 99. I don’t like people who are aggressive or overly emotional Person 4 100. I am very emotional and my mood changes throughout the day 5 101. I don’t want others to know my feelings and thoughts unless I tell them 1 102. I like exciting and tense relationships rather than stable and dependent ones Relationship 7 103. I rarely pay attention to other people's moods and only like to tell witty remarks and jokes 1 104. I am a rule-abiding person, order is very meaningful to me 4 105. It is difficult for me to find a way that I truly feel loved relationship 1 106. If I want to end a relationship, I will either tell the other person directly or provoke him to leave me 9 107. I am gentle and calm, do not boast, and do not like to compete with others 9 108. Sometimes I am kind and cute, sometimes He is also rough and irritable, and difficult to grasp