I don't want you! What shadow will this joke of parents leave on their children?

Many parents play jokes on their children when they grow up. For example, they often hear parents say I don't want you when their children are disobedient. Perhaps in the eyes of adults, this is just a joke, but for children, this is serious. Because the child is very simple and doesn't know to joke with him, he will think that his parents will really want him. After a long time, the child will be seriously insecure. It will have a great influence on his growth. Many people's feelings as adults are not so smooth, because they will be eager to find a sense of security from their other half, but it will also bring great pressure to each other.

Moreover, in the child's mind, parents are very tall, and he feels that everything parents do is a serious choice. Therefore, if the child is disobedient, he will choose to abandon the child and cause great fear to the child. When he grows up, he will become very cautious, because he is very afraid of what he has done wrong and will make his parents abandon him, just like a pet dog. After being abandoned by his master once, he will become a different person.

If a child makes a mistake, he should not use such a threatening tone. He can communicate well with children. Parents' education determines what kind of person their children will become when they grow up. Therefore, if the child does something wrong, don't blindly beat and scold, which will also make the child feel afraid of his parents and form a rebellious mentality, which is also a very bad factor in his growth. For children, mistakes must be corrected in time.

Many times, parents think they are just joking, but they didn't expect to leave great harm to their children. Sometimes parents' jokes can be remembered for a long time. This is because the child is very simple, so he will take everything seriously. If his parents are unhappy because of his own problems, he will feel embarrassed and even become cautious in the process of growing up. Because he doesn't want to be abandoned by his parents, parents must avoid this problem when the child grows up. If the child makes a mistake, parents can communicate with the child in a friendly way and don't use verbal violence.