What are people who give up easily?

Actually, I gave up my life.

Last night, I saw an old movie, Warm with Light by Jim Carrey. I thought it was a cured romantic comedy, but I didn't expect the whole film to talk about giving up.

Because they don't want to settle their quarrel, they give up all their memories. Because I don't want to face a painful relationship, I delete all related emotions from my mind.

everyone thinks that they just know how to choose. But after giving up, they didn't relax and live a better life. Instead, you start to regret, regret, and then go back to the original point, or get worse. They don't know that running away from the enemy is never a shortcut, but an invisible knife hanging around their necks.

italo calvino said, "It is easier to give up everything than people think. The difficulty lies in the beginning. Once you give up something you thought was fundamental, you will find that you can give up other things, and there are many other things to give up later. "

Having met too many people, I made up my mind to study, but as soon as I picked up my mobile phone, I couldn't put it down. I made up my mind to work hard, and as a result, I couldn't turn it off when I turned on Weibo. Determined to lose weight, I was eager to cultivate my own mermaid line and peach buttocks at first, but I was knocked down by muscle aches. Then I comforted myself and controlled my diet. But gradually, skipping after noon became too late to eat, and then it would not have much impact.

giving up is always sudden and natural.

A person's life is more than 3, days. Have you really lived that long? No, in fact, you only lived for one day, and then you repeated it more than 3 thousand times.

◆ What are people who have a fever for three minutes?

"I want too much, but I have to get nothing; Losing is painful, but the pain is fleeting. It seems to be the most exclusive, but it is actually the most ruthless. 」

? @ 京京京京京

It's too easy to give up on yourself, and he also found a bunch of reasons for forgiving himself.

? @ Thinking Owl

Primary school times has attended children's painting classes, enrolled in Olympic math classes, sketching in junior high school, and taking guitar lessons ... High school wants to write online novels, and universities think more, but all the above attempts fail.

? @ Zhu Li

I saw wool felt for a while in my sophomore year, and it was suddenly turned over. I decided to become a skillful craftsman, and bought several boxes of various kinds of wool and needles. These big boxes of wool are still hidden in my cupboard, and the needles are getting rusty. They haven't been moved for years.

? @cherry

has been insisting on losing weight, and now there are only 15 pounds left from the goal of losing 1 pounds.

? @ Anonymous

I seldom make plans for myself, because I don't want to do it after a week. I also like the new and hate the old for small things, and it is easy to get bored with one thing.

? @ Anonymous

I have given up too many things in the last four or five years. I have learned half of the guitar in Grade Two, the girl I like in Grade Three, the student union I joined in Grade One, my favorite teacher and sister, the opportunity to join the Party in Grade Two, the internship in Grade Three, and so on. . . I feel that these years have not been wonderful at all.

? @Amanda

It's easy to give up when you meet a slightly more difficult exam and book.

? @ 京京京京京

I am particularly curious about some new things. When I have been chasing for a while, I feel tired, and I have to give up and pursue new things. In this way, I am constantly chasing, and I often lack the commitment and fulfillment of my goals.

? @ Vienna Shortcake

I feel very fresh about something, want to try it, and then delay it for various reasons. After these obstacles are removed, I find that I don't really want to do it.

? @ tatami

Even the TV series can't be finished.

? @ Buyiqing

I often hate my disappointment, and the most persistent thing is that I can't persist.

? @ anonymous

◆ Why is it easy to give up?

"People who blindfold themselves always think that everything has hidden options. 」

? @ Bega

There will be winners and losers in competition, and there will be pressure in winning and losing, and there will be escape in pressure. This is the root cause of giving up.

? @EA6B

I feel inferior and subconsciously don't think I will succeed.

? @ Lin Yu

Because he is lazy.

? @ fortune pig

there are too many choices, like children in the candy store.

? @ 京京京京

I don't want to get out of the comfort zone, especially when I'm in a fairly good state now, I will give up more easily.

? @Amanda

With the growth of age, the society has developed rapidly, and then my cognitive model has not been improved accordingly. There were not so many choices, temptations and interferences before, but now it is everywhere.

◆ how did you get through the hardest time?

"Escape is because you can't face the reality, but the waves of fate will come one day, and those who leave will never know that it is sunny in the eyes of the storm. 」

? @ a lost Pei Yao

There are about 2 days left before the college entrance examination, and the class polarization is particularly serious. One night, I saw my mother secretly wiping tears because of my study. For the remaining 2 days, I slept at three o'clock at twelve o'clock every day, and there were about 2 pens that cost me, from 2+ school scum to 559 points. . Well, nothing can surpass myself at that time in the future. I don't want to disappoint those who love me.

? @monster meow meow

I started to exercise last May, from 117 to 94.

? @ zige _Weirdo

In order to get out of depression, I insisted on taking medicine and seeing a doctor for five years, which was my hardest day, but I got out.

? @ 京京京京

I thought it was difficult to write 2, words, so I wrote a novel with 32, words.

? @SOMELODY1118

As a trainee in South Korea, I practice dancing after school every day because of my weight problem, and I go to the gym for 2-4 hours every day. I pass by a snack bar and feel like crying. Being alone in a foreign country, I have no friends because I am too competitive, and I am too far away from my family to tell them about my sufferings. A year has passed, and I have lost 6 pounds. Now I am the lead singer and dancer in the team. The road we have taken is the light of the future, and thinking about the lights on the stage has survived all the way.

? @ banshee

When I just graduated from college as an intern. Stubborn and stubborn, we never reach out and ask for money from home. At the stairs of the dormitory, we ate instant noodles one by one, which is the best instant noodles I have ever eaten, and I will remember the scene all my life. I'm getting married next year.

? @ Taosu _

During the postgraduate entrance examination, I have been reviewing in the school since July and August. Everyone occupied the self-study classroom, but for many days, I was the only one sitting there. The school cafeteria was closed and I just ate bread every day. The typhoon and the rainstorm never stopped outside, and then I didn't go to the national examination enterprise school, because I just wanted to go to graduate school. Three students entered the re-examination of 211 school with the second place in the written test and were finally admitted.

? @ negative three floors

teaching. The first day of school was late because of the rugged mountain road. I just went to the classroom and saw the children sitting neatly waiting for me. I asked them how long they had been waiting. Ten children looked at me and said, teacher, we have been waiting for you for a long time. I am very serious in class and read aloud. Sometimes I really want to cry when I look at the teaching facilities, because I think my children are great, and they will be great in the future! Hmm!

◆ What is the reason for you to persist?

"Life, the most regrettable thing is never failure, but that I could have. 」

? @ is the joy of music

"Mom and Dad believe in you."

? @ Always

Let others look down on me, but I can't drag my parents into being looked down upon by others.

? @ 京京京京京京京 OvO

makes my mother not think that clothes with 5 yuan are expensive.

? @ The plane flies away

"I will try to be someone you will regret not cherishing when you see it in the future"

? @ZL Lu

stood in front of his parents and said, don't look down on anyone, your son is not good enough for me.

? @vickey_ Miss Ye Jia 222

I am most afraid that my dreams will be realized by others one by one.

? You don't eat tomatoes.

We are getting married.

? @ I love you so ugly

"She studies better than you, so don't drag her into trouble", that's what the class teacher in Grade Three told me … As a result, I got more than 5 points higher than her in the college entrance examination.

? @ 嗮嗮嗮

This is my first visit to this world and my last.

? @ tappmtmtmmt

"When you think it is too late, it is the earliest time."

? @ 京京京京京京京京京

When one day I stand next to the person I love, no matter whether he is rich or has nothing, I will embrace him frankly. I don't have to feel aloof if he is rich, and we won't be down and out if he is poor. This is the meaning of a woman's efforts.

? @Firmmask

Maybe I am a complacent person. I am lazy, and many things will give up halfway. Later, I saw a saying that I was afraid of endless truth, and every inch I entered would make me happy. Later, I think that it is not so easy to do things well in this world, but if you do it bit by bit, you will always finish it.

? @LAMPSY

One day, I have my own day.

◆ how to stick to it?

"After falling many times, I finally understand that everything will be fine if you take your time. 」

? @ Edmund

What many people lack is that when we invest, we are not only advancing a distance, but also slowly increasing the proportion of your input, making you more accustomed to what you do. The growth rate of this habit will be slower and slower, but the more you continue to input in the future, the more you can slowly squeeze out the long-term slack you have accumulated in the past.

In fact, many times we can't persist because the growth rate we are used to is getting slower and slower, which will make us think that it will stop there and just extend the time in the future. We are not psychologically prepared for this rule, and we don't know where the continuous investment will be and what the significance is.

? @ Thinking Owl

When you start doing something, first get into the habit of doing it every day, and then pursue the intensity and quality of doing it.

how to do it every day? The method is simple: lower your standard of doing this thing, to the point where you think telling it will make others laugh, form the habit of going every day, and then pursue the efficiency and intensity of doing things.

and the reason why many people can't insist on it is that the cart before the horse. First, they demand themselves with high intensity, but as a result, they can't see the effect in a short time, so they slack off.