What should parents do if their son is in conflict with his classmates at school?

Minors, even those who have just grown up and have not yet formed or matured their world outlook, are impulsive and reckless, influenced by relevant audio-visual materials, and love to talk about brotherhood, which often leads them astray and leads to big mistakes.

If a child quarrels or fights with someone else's family, parents can stand up and help the child support and guide, but they can't completely solve the problem instead of the child. Therefore, education in peacetime is very important, and children should be guided and educated how to do it in peacetime.

There is a saying that "children don't hold grudges when fighting", perhaps because they are not as serious as adults. For children, there is no concept of "lose or lose". The so-called "no loss" is the idea of parents.

So the child had a fight, tears dried up, and played closely together. As long as the safety of children can be guaranteed, there is no need to take the problems between children too seriously. If you don't allow any bumps, you can only sacrifice your child's activity space and exploration opportunities, which will definitely do more harm than good to your child's growth.

Children's disputes are inevitable. What should parents do? Parents must keep in mind the following five rules:

1

Judge that this is a "normal conflict" between children.

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Children's fights are often part of the game. They occasionally pull their companions' pigtails and pat their shoulders, but because they can't control the degree of these movements, they sometimes cause some injuries. Ordinary parents can remind their children not to overdo it when playing, and not to hit the fragile parts of each other's bodies, such as eyes. However, if children's play does not cause safety accidents, parents don't need to take the fighting between children too seriously.

2

Don't directly intervene to warn each other or punish them.

When a child has a dispute, the process of dealing with the problem by himself is also the process of training the child to deal with interpersonal relationships. Parents may hear their children's side of the story, but they don't know much about it. If they directly intervene, it will make things more troublesome and complicated.

three

Guide children to find solutions to problems.

When children don't know how to deal with conflicts with friends and ask their parents for help, parents should guide their children to find solutions to the problems, and the following principles should be followed when determining the final solutions:

If the matter is serious, we should discuss the solution with the teacher and another parent.

If the responsibility lies with yourself, take the initiative to apologize to the other party;

If the responsibility lies with the other party, it is necessary to clearly inform that this is a wrong behavior, prevent children from imitating, and encourage children to be more open-minded and not haggle over every ounce;

If it is a matter of principle, it is necessary to educate children to learn to fight for their rights and interests in an appropriate way.