Children also need face, how to leave face for him?

The topic to share with you today is the child's face. Once upon a time, in public, parents either taught their children righteously or exposed their shortcomings and laughed at them. The behavior of these parents is like a sharp knife deeply rooted in the child's heart. The deprivation of dignity by parents has caused many children's lifelong memories.

1. A child's face is his dignity.

I often hear colleagues say that his children do homework at home and can't do math problems. My mother shouted, "Isn't it that simple?" What did you do in class? "The voice is getting louder and louder, and the children are getting more and more inferior and at a loss.

Psychologist Susan? Forward said in "Poisoned Parents": Children can't tell the truth from jokes. They will believe what their parents say about themselves and turn it into their own ideas.

Face is a child's dignity. Parents don't leave their children with face, which will make them feel inferior and cause indelible harm.

2. Disrespect for children leads to tragedy.

There is a passage in the Zhihu about a child who likes to chew his nails when he is free. Every time I meet a colleague or friend, whether the child is in front of him or not, his mother casually tells the other party about her bad habits, thinking that the child can get rid of it quickly after listening. In fact, the mother did not know that this incident had seriously hurt the child's self-esteem, so that the child often cut his nails and his fingers were scarred. Parents must not know how to humiliate their children in public and feel inferior.

Another story tells that when a child made a mistake, his parents made him stand in the corridor as punishment, and the neighbors coming and going upstairs and downstairs were very concerned and asked the child, why didn't you go home at the door ... At this time, the child's heart is very painful, like a knife, which is what we often say. It means that when a person is emotional, there will be physical pain, and the child will eventually suffer.

At this time, parents didn't even know that it was their ignorance that led to the tragedy.

3. "thank you, mom." Respecting children means respecting ourselves, and children thank us.

One night after school, the child was kept in school for a while by the teacher because he didn't finish the homework stipulated by the school on time. I was angry when I saw other students coming home from school happily. On the way home, I have been reasoning with my children. When I got into the elevator, I stopped talking when I saw an outsider in the elevator. After the outsider left the elevator, the child suddenly said to me, "Thank you, Mom." I wonder why the child suddenly thanked me. The son went on to say, "You have never criticized me in front of outsiders." One little trick is to touch the child. As long as children are respected, they will be grateful.

Remember: public criticism can't make children turn over a new leaf. On the contrary, it aggravated children's rebellious psychology and deprived them of their trust in their families and confidence in the future.

Dong Qing, a well-known host, said in the program Face to Face: "What kind of person do you want your children to be? What kind of person do you want to be first." Example is the best teacher, and it is the power that affects a child's life.

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As parents, we educate our children to love themselves, respect themselves and respect themselves, but are there any shortcomings in our education for our children? Please reflect on your behavior and let our children grow up healthily.

Do you agree with this?