Programmers with an annual salary of 2 million are ridiculed: Why do girls with a monthly salary of 10,000 want to marry you? what do you think?

There was once a programmer with an annual salary of 2 million who asked for marriage online. I thought I would get everyone's answer, but the comments were completely overturned.

Let's take a look at the programmer's self-introduction:

1986, born in northern Anhui, height 170, weight 65Kg；; Graduated from Beijing in 985, Kyoto family; At present, in Ali, P8, the annual income is about 170W, including stocks; Beiyuan has a house and a newly bought Trass car; My parents work and farm in the countryside, and will support the elderly with my sister in the future.

In this way, he is indeed a boy with good conditions.

The boy's attitude is also quite sincere: "I am barely a Phoenix man. In recent years, I feel a little inferior and missed many good girls. At that time, I felt that I was not worthy of others. Now I have more than enough. "

And his request for girls doesn't sound too much:

Gentle and virtuous, knowledgeable and sophisticated;

Cute appearance, online figure, height not less than 162cm, can dress up;

Bachelor degree should be at least 2 1 1, and the monthly income should be no less than1w; ;

Born after 90, the family has no burden, and it is best to be an only child in Jiangsu and Zhejiang.

In addition, because of his busy work, he hopes that girls can take care of their families after marriage, and it is best to have two children.

After reading this, many girls are not calm: "An only child, with a monthly salary of over 10,000 yuan, why not enjoy life well and have two children to take care of the family while working in your home?"

"The requirements are too high. If you want to have a career, you must have 2 1 1 and have children. You really think of yourself as an onion Your parents have no pension insurance for farming. If you are sick, it is a bottomless pit. "

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Is it really because girls are too snobbish that girls with a monthly salary of 10 thousand look down on boys with an annual salary of one million? Not exactly.

Because from the content of the post, the annual salary of boys is one million, and the price behind it is very high.

What he sacrificed was his personal life, his due participation in the family, and his parenting education, which meant that the whole family was busy together and made him earn millions of dollars a year.

Living with an annual salary of one million naturally means living in a bigger house, eating better things, wearing more expensive clothes and traveling abroad frequently.

These things, Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai's only daughter with a monthly salary of 10 thousand, could have been enjoyed.

Moreover, she doesn't have to go to work during the day, goes home as a nanny at night, is widowed and raises two children, and is in charge of family life.

Many girls would rather find a husband who earns 300,000 yuan a year, respects women, has time to spend with themselves and their children, shares housework and is full of fun, rather than a free housekeeper, nanny or shopkeeper.

Don't say who is more realistic than who. Boys feel that having a car and a house, with an annual salary of one million, is in good condition. It is more than enough to match a girl with a monthly salary of 10 thousand.

But from a girl's point of view, how much you have is your personal business, and you won't give me half of your assets. Take advantage of marriage at most.

For this advantage, it is not worth sacrificing my comfortable life at present.

It's like a big boss saying that my assets are over 100 million, and now I need to find a young man with an annual salary of one million to run errands for me and help me buy ice cream in the store.

I pay, he contributes, I buy ice cream, and I will let him taste it. Look how good I am to him.

People who earn millions a year are certainly not interested.

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I remembered the joke I had seen before.

The rich businessman is drinking with a table of people, and everyone toasts him.

When he was drunk, the rich merchant suddenly found a poor man sitting there, just eating vegetables and unmoved.

The rich businessman was unhappy and said, "I have millions of assets, but you have nothing." Why not propose a toast to me? "

The poor man told him lazily, "What does it matter to me that you have millions of assets? Why should I propose a toast to you? "

Hearing this, the rich businessman seems to make sense.

So he said, "I have millions of assets. If I give you half, will you toast me? "

The poor man said, "If you give me half, I will be as rich as you. Why should I propose a toast to you? "

The rich businessman simply fumed, "I'll give you all my assets, and you'll give me a toast."

Poor Haman Aha smiled and said, "If you give me all your property, I will become a rich businessman and you will be a poor man. You should propose a toast to me. "

The superiority of wealthy businessmen as rich people was instantly defeated.

Some people say that the marriage law protects premarital property and divides husband and wife too clearly, which is not good.

Actually, just make it clear.

What is yours is yours, and what is mine is mine. Even if you are a rich businessman and I am poor, I don't owe you anything.

This marriage programmer claims to have an annual salary of one million, and the condition that he can offer is to buy a house with the woman and repay the loan together, and the woman does not take any advantage.

Nobody is stupid. This million-year salary is not much different from 300 thousand. Since I can't get it, I might as well find a handsome guy with an annual salary of 300 thousand.

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To maintain a marriage, you must show enough sincerity.

That's not what I have, but what I am willing to pay.

For example, this programmer with an annual salary of 2 million is not unable to find a girlfriend. He just needs to change his strategy.

First of all, you should have a high emotional intelligence, and don't say silly things like "more than enough".

He can say: "A few years ago, I felt a little inferior and missed many good girls. Recently, I finally overcame my inferiority complex and gained a little courage. "

Modest and polite, he looks very gentle.

Then, change the goal slightly, and don't target the only daughter with a monthly salary of over 10,000 in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai.

The only child in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai with a monthly salary of over 10,000 yuan has no worries about eating, drinking and supporting the elderly, and doesn't care much about economic conditions at all. They just want to find a boyfriend who is good-looking and has time to spend with them.

There is nothing wrong with a marriage programmer who wants to find a girl with the same high education and high income who has struggled all the way and wants to settle down.

Because he can bring her value.

Finally, let go of the outdated idea that "as long as you make money, you are a good person".

Families need to run, not just give money.

Recognize your wife's contribution more, and don't put on an attitude of "I am only responsible for giving" before and after marriage.

Your future children can't grow up automatically by coins.

In short, it is quite easy to find a decent girlfriend with an annual salary of one million to do these three things.