How to recover the breakup caused by pressing on men step by step?

1 ; You know how to win a man's heart. You are very attractive to the opposite sex, but you are completely in love with utilitarian thinking.

Instead of knowing and understanding each other. I believe that charm can buy everything in love.

2 ; If you don't cherish the person in front of you, you always feel that you can find something more suitable. So I always ignore this person in front of me until I lose it.

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3 ; Without a correct concept of love cognition, the state of the other party in the period of passionate love is always considered to be an eternal state. After the passionate love period, the other party will

The state of ecstasy returns to partial independence and peace, which makes you unacceptable.

4; You copied the relationship between mother and baby, turned the demand in love into the hope of "unconditional love" and always asked for companionship.

Lovers "have to" are lovers. This is actually an emotional blackmail for lovers.

5 ; Prove that you are loved by your partner in various ways. If the other party doesn't give a positive response,

You will take more revenge on each other.

I always have doubts about being loved, and always fall into the mold of "I am sure others love me, so I dare to love others".

Enter the formula. So I have been hoarding it and dare not pay it.

7 ; Cling to a person's love, but forget that a mature person is as happy as the person he loves. therefore

Ignore self-growth and independence and put more pressure on each other.

8 ; Don't respect individual differences, always judge your partner on the basis of self, and force the other party to follow their own wishes.

Well, you can't see * * * sex, you will only criticize differences and eventually become a slave to love, not respect.

9 ; Excessive misinterpretation of the other party's promise, once the other party fails to complete, will cause hatred, forgetting the promise is also a kind of romance.

Talk, irregular instructions.

10; I always think that "the one who pays more in love will always get hurt, so don't pay too much."

That's enough. Giving others love is positive. If the heart is missing, then this kind of pay is biased towards a compulsive pay, which is pain.

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