What do you think of the sentence "Young people are hollowed out by fake exquisiteness"?

In today's materialistic world, some people pursue fashion brands, satisfy their own living consumption, show their aesthetic level and economic level, and are superior to others; Some people pursue beauty in order to catch up with the fashion trend of society and show their extraordinary temperament. ...

The younger generation is instilled with the concepts of "exquisite life" and "love yourself", but they love themselves by overdrawing the future. Spending money, borrowing money and writing IOUs have unconsciously become common payment methods. The amount of 10 thousand yuan seems to be the money in your wallet, making the younger generation a debtor early.

In my opinion, fake exquisiteness is eroding the concept of thrift formed in the hearts of the masses for a hundred years. Fake exquisiteness is also common on campus-students don't pay attention to academic performance, but compare clothes and shoes everywhere and compare prices with famous brands. Having famous brands gives them a sense of superiority, but they have long forgotten that young people's lives are for struggle, not the "fake exquisiteness" of overdraft credit cards.

With the development of fast-paced life and the complexity of people's hearts, people turn from the real side to the unreal side. With the rapid development of Internet big data and the continuous expansion of social platforms, people pay more and more attention to other people's opinions and self-evaluation, so people continue to deepen their anxiety and inferiority, and finally get lost in false exquisiteness.

The harm of fake exquisiteness is so great that we have to say no to it! So how do we prescribe the right medicine? Let me share a few tips with you:

1, quit vanity and improve your hard power.

When you want to show off, shut up and calm down for a few seconds. When you doubt yourself, start studying, reading and improving yourself. It can not only effectively fill a full heart, but also learn some skills.

Why should a person be poor and exquisite? Most of the reasons are for others to see, in fact, others don't have that much time to pay attention to you. So shift your focus to improving yourself. When you are strong, you will find that wearing a 29-dollar T-shirt will be expensive for others. On the contrary, when you are not strong, wearing brand-name clothes is high imitation in the eyes of others.

2. Change consumption thinking

Money must not be spent on vanity, and one day it will pay for its own vanity. From buying expensive brands to buying what we need with the least money, mastering some small methods can save us a lot of money.

When shopping, it is best to spend a few seconds before placing an order and choose the most economical way. In a few seconds, check the discount, not to say that you can't spend money, but you can save it with your fingers.

Buy what suits you; Buy one that matches your income; Buy something with reuse value. Do not buy cheap but useless (inferior); Don't buy those that need overdraft economy; Don't buy things that don't suit you.

3. Learn to manage money

Happiness is not tied to consumption, but saving money will make you happy. From the time I save money, looking at the balance every day is my greatest sense of security. It can solve 90% of troubles and anxieties, and it can also bear the risks of some uncontrollable factors.

A person who has the habit of saving money will probably not allow himself to be "poor and exquisite" because saving money will be addictive. Once he is addicted to it, other things don't matter.

Small conclusion

Conclusion:

True exquisiteness is a calm and open-minded mind, a clean and pure mind and a gentle temperament, not what logo clothes to wear or what style bags to carry. On the contrary, in order to pursue exquisiteness, I am poor and lack confidence in life, and I will only become poorer and poorer spiritually and economically.

Before, we couldn't live a refined life, but learned to enjoy it at an age when we shouldn't, so that we would forget our efforts and forget to pay, and then we would get a reward. More importantly, when we have no financial ability, when we spend more than we can afford, we are looking for hardships for ourselves.

Therefore, we should reject false exquisiteness, and don't let false exquisiteness disturb the age that should have worked hard.