Write an 800-word composition about self-confidence

"How high a person can fly is not determined by other factors, but is restricted by his own beliefs." The belief mentioned here boils down to self-confidence. Before you want to do something, you have confidence, which is half the battle. What is confidence? Self-confidence is an idea, an inner subconscious, and an affirmation of oneself. We stutterers lack self-confidence, or lack self-confidence, and even have an inferiority complex. We feel inferior to others, others are good at everything, but we are useless. These people's lives are painful. They treat life with a negative attitude and are in sadness and loss all day. They hold their heads up in front of everyone. They seldom or never participate in group activities, are introverted and are not good at talking. Because they don't have the courage to face difficulties and setbacks and think that others are better than themselves, they have no chance in social competition, and even if they have opportunities, they often fail. Are these people incompetent? Don't! Their intelligence is not lower than others, and some people even perform very well in some aspects. It is because of inferiority and lack of self-confidence that their intelligence and wisdom can't be played normally, which affects their future! In life, there are skills and methods to do everything, otherwise, you may work hard several times and fail to achieve the expected results. Why are some people not outstanding in appearance, but graceful in bearing, always showing an extraordinary temperament in front of people, showing ubiquitous self-confidence? Here are the ways and skills to have self-confidence. As the saying goes, "gold is not enough, and no one is perfect." There is nothing perfect in the world, and there is no perfect person. Everyone has defects and shortcomings. It is important to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, get rid of the chain of "shortcomings", get rid of its psychological control, and let the whole body get a freedom to live. When you feel inferior and lack self-confidence, you should calm your mind and learn to observe carefully. As long as you are good at using your bright eyes, you won't find that the people around you who you think are the most perfect actually have shortcomings and deficiencies. Maybe these shortcomings and shortcomings are your strengths. For example, if you think you are short, you will often envy those tall people, but you may have good looks, high academic performance and work level, or you may have a happy family. All these conditions are not necessarily possessed by the tall man. This is your own bright spot. As we all know, money is a very important thing and everyone can't live without it. People are eager to have it. People often envy those rich people and yearn for the life of driving out and living in a mansion. So in front of those rich people, some people will feel inferior, which makes them very angry. We know that many rich people can't have health, are troubled by diseases and are miserable. Money is good, but it can't buy health. How precious and beautiful health is to those who suffer from diseases. The poor have no money, but they have the health that the rich want very much. What reason do we feel inferior? In short, it is not difficult to have confidence. As long as you are calm and observant, you will find your own strengths and advantages. By comparing with others' shortcomings, you will have confidence! After a long-term summary and analysis, we find that there is a very obvious relationship between a person's facial condition and self-cognition. The more a person can realize his strengths and advantages, the better his mental state, the stronger he will be in the face of external interference and stimulation, and the less he will be intimidated and knocked down by failures and setbacks. When others don't give us face, or even deliberately embarrass us or make a fool of ourselves, we can still achieve psychological balance and spiritual liberation through self-affirmation, that is, relying on the face. At this time, the face has exerted infinite power. When Li Yang, the founder of Crazy English, was studying at Lanzhou University, he often failed English exams. However, in the second year of college, you must pass CET-4, otherwise you won't get a degree certificate. To this end, he went to the cemetery alone to read a foreign language aloud. Soon he found that English was improving rapidly. Li yang began to reflect: because he was thin-skinned and afraid of not understanding foreign languages, he dared not speak, and the more he dared not speak, the more he could not understand foreign languages, forming a vicious circle; The rapid progress now should be because a person reads aloud in the cemetery and is not afraid of criticism. Li Yang realized that if he wants to make greater progress and achievements, he must read boldly and not be afraid of losing face. To this end, he began to walk out of the cemetery and read aloud in public. In order to better exercise his face and courage, he will also wear some strange clothes and earrings. Sure enough, he was looked down upon by many classmates, and some even said that he was "overreaching, making a fool of himself in public, shameless ...", but he didn't flinch and was not intimidated by an ambitious young man. Because he has his own firm goal, that is, to exercise his courage and face to improve his level. As a result, I got the second place in CET-4, and the final success was a powerful counterattack against those mockers. At the same time, the ridicule of others also gave Li Yang a chance to exercise himself. Now that Li Yang's name is well-known at home and abroad, he finally won his real "face". What we call thick skin is a manifestation of mental health, courage, openness, self-confidence and high psychological quality. It plays an extremely important role in developing our own potential, grasping opportunities, establishing good interpersonal relationships and better adapting to society, thus helping us to actively create and realize the value of life. Modern society is a competitive society, and opportunities are equal for everyone, but it prefers people who are good at grasping. Some successful people around us, their intelligence is not much higher than ours, but they are better at grasping and using opportunities. And the thickness of the face determines our grasp of the opportunity. Thin-skinned people are always in a passive position, afraid of wolves before and tigers after, afraid of losing face, afraid of being laughed at, afraid of making a fool of themselves and afraid of failure. Many opportunities that should have been seized have been missed, let alone succeeded. Those thick-skinned people have no worries, firm goals, dare to think and do, dare to do, and are not afraid of making a fool of themselves and failure, so there are more opportunities and the higher the possibility of success. ! People who lose money lose little; People who lose their health lose a lot; He who loses courage loses everything. Many geniuses disappear in this world because of lack of courage. Unknown people are sent to the grave every day. Because of cowardice, they never tried. If they can be induced to start, they are likely to succeed. The past is not equal to the future. A hundred thoughts are not worth one action. How to have self-confidence is to lose face, lose face, and you will succeed until you lose care! The greatest enemy in life is ourselves. If we don't beat ourselves, how can we beat others? As long as we are full of self-confidence, firm in our goals and unwilling to give up, we will certainly succeed!