Duan Long's unrequited love for Hong Tao failed, and the feelings of adults were lost to the word "no money"?

Have you ever heard of Duan Long and Hong Tao? The reason is that in an activity, Duan Long was asked about his feelings. He said to the camera, "My crush is in the back."

This object is Hong Tao, and Hong Tao generously replied, "Why didn't he say so earlier? He missed it. " This is a joke, a missed love.

Duan Long once said in the program that he fell in love with pink at first sight, but he was too poor to speak.

How poor was Duan Long then?

During the Spring Festival, all the students went home for the Spring Festival, but only he stayed at school, because his family was very poor and he could not afford the travel expenses. At that time, Hong Tao was the monitor of their class. He is very responsible and helpful.

Hearing about Duan Long's situation, she invited him to her home for a New Year's Eve dinner. At that time, Duan Long was warmly received by Hong Tao. Imagine suddenly seeing a man with a poor family and low self-esteem, and the other party still doesn't dislike himself. Such a touch is undoubtedly profound.

In the face of Hong Tao's talent and gentleness, it is normal for Duan Long to fall in love with her. It's just that this relationship has been buried in Duan Long's heart, and he dare not express himself, let alone show his heart. With that love, I hid in the corner like a child who did something wrong. Some people say that distance is the killer of love, but poverty is.

If Duan Long's family had been better, he might have said that bravely. Even if there is no result, he won't have any regrets. Now that he and Hong Tao have a family and Duan Long has a successful career, he dares to say these feelings as a joke. Although it seems like a joke, there is a little ambiguity in a corner of his heart.

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Love is pure and should not be doped with many substances. But love needs courage and confidence. It is not terrible that a person is poor. The terrible thing is that poverty will kill your inner desires.

In the face of love, men are even worse. In the ordinary world, Sun Shaoping and Tian Xiaoxia appreciate each other and love each other. But the gap between them is too big. Sun Shaoping was born in the countryside and his family was poor.

Other students can eat white-flour steamed bread and two meat dishes, while Sun Shaoping can only eat black-flour steamed bread and other people's leftovers. A man who can't even satisfy his food and clothing is qualified to talk about love.

Tian Xiaoxia's father is Gao Qian. He eats well and has seen the world. After graduating from high school, he went to college and got a decent job. Sun Shaoping admired such Tian Xiaoxia, but poverty frightened him. Later, the two met again and fell in love.

At this moment, Sun Shaoping is a coal miner and Tian Xiaoxia is a college student. The cross-class love between them looks beautiful, but behind it is full of turmoil and cruelty.

Sun Shaoping and Tian Xiaoxia are under too much pressure, just like toads and swans. Other people's eyes and inner inferiority make Sun Shaoping breathless. The gap between Duan Long and Hong Tao is similar to that between Sun Shaoping and Tian Xiaoxia. No matter how passionate you love, you have no money, no confidence and no courage. Such love can only end in vain.

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Talking about money is tacky, but money is the protective shell of love.

When you are in love, you may ignore the economic foundation, but when it comes to marriage, there is no money to embarrass the lovers.

I saw a video before, and a couple were quarreling. The woman accused her husband hysterically. She wants to give her family the best, but from the family's point of view, she can only live in a shabby little hotel.

Going out to eat, I only ordered four dishes, but I didn't even have enough to eat. Mother is ill, and they don't even have the money to treat the disease. The wife was in tears and the husband was silent.

The root cause of this situation is poverty. If they have more money, they can settle down their parents and let them eat and drink well.

In the face of parents' sudden illness, they will not be reduced to the point of helplessness. But the truth is, but it's not as people who used to be poor together know. It can be expected that the couple will fall into arguments again and again because of money, and eventually they may divorce and one party may cheat.

In fact, poverty brings not only material deprivation, but also mental anxiety and powerlessness to life.

Think about it, two anxious people, getting along day and night, even food and clothing have become a problem. Do they still have the heart to love?

It's beautiful, but it's all based on the economy. It costs money to have a sense of ceremony, give gifts to each other and go out to see the world. If you have no money, you can only watch each other at home.

Just like that line in Northern Ireland:

When I am carefree, poverty is only the difference between eating steamed bread and steak at night, and it does not harm my happiness. But when I fall in love with someone, I deeply feel what poverty is caused by inferiority.

Love without material is just a loose sand, which is not blown away by the wind and scattered in two steps.

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Duan Long revealed that he had a crush on Hong Tao, and the love when he was young might become the meaning of life in Duan Long. If Duan Long had more money, he wouldn't feel so inferior and could bravely express his love. Even if we don't end up together, at least we won't regret it

But the fact is that poverty is enough to kill love and leave a person nowhere to turn over in the corner. We all long for pure love, but pure love is not unrelated to material things. All love must be put into practice in the end. Men are more rational than women. They know the consequences of having no money, and they have many concerns.

Chen's words in To Youth: My life is a building that can only be built once. I have to be extremely precise, there can be no difference of one centimeter. So, I'm too nervous and afraid of making mistakes. Young people are too poor to support themselves. What about dreams and love?

It is true that when you can't give each other happiness, all your sweet words are jokes. Being with someone doesn't mean feeling full of water. We both want to give each other a better life. This kind of love is meaningful. So, when it's time to make money, try to make money. Don't wait until you meet the person you love. You don't even have the courage to say that confession. Love is beautiful, life is realistic, and only when you are full and warm can you talk about romance.