How to catch up with the person you love?

This is a delicate stage. Because the other person is a beautiful woman, she has always been sought after and loved by people. So if you start attacking like crazy,

Then you will become one of many suitors, with no characteristics and will not be taken seriously.

If you do the opposite, pretend to be cool, reserved and high-profile in front of beautiful women. As women, they all want to be favored by the opposite sex.

Especially beautiful women, think men deserve to be liked. If you pretend not to like her, she will think, "why is this man so strange?"

""well, like him, he is still so cool. "For people who don't like themselves, beauty won't have a favorable impression on him. (This is different from men.

Beautiful women rarely want to conquer, and they rarely want to conquer men who are not interested in themselves to prove themselves. )

So I suggest that the initial posture must be low-key and humble. Show her some affection, but don't like her too much.

You can give her a call or send a text message and pay a little attention. But don't overdo it. If she knew you decided to go after her,

You are very passive. You just need to let her know that you are interested in her to some extent.

Tell her, "Well, you are cute and I admire you ... but ... I don't know if I will chase you or if I care."

Information.

The initial posture is very important. Once the posture is fixed, it cannot be easily changed in the future.

Beauty is destined to have many suitors, so from the beginning, you should avoid being classified as "another fan" by beauty.

You have to be different. This principle will run through all stages of the whole "beauty conquest process".

You can flatter each other and tell her that she is the most special girl you have ever met, and she has a unique temperament.

(such as "quiet", "pure" and "concise", never say "beautiful", "lovely" and "gentle". Remember, you must be different from others. )

Flattery is what anyone likes to hear. However, after flattery, you should be cold and pretend that "I like it very much, but I haven't decided to chase you"

This gesture. This is a gesture to attract beautiful women. She'll start to think you're special and curious.

The main weapons at this stage are text messages and telephone calls. There is no need for dates and gifts at this time. This is the next stage of heavy weapons.

Fast approaching

After meeting beautiful girls, there are probably two general mentalities.

1, attracted by her death, regardless of the consequences and the environment, began to chase her fiercely. Euphemistically called "brave and firm"

"Persistence is victory"

2, intimidated by each other's beauty and reserve, lamenting that he is not a natural tall handsome guy, not a hook-up expert, not a sweet talk, nor a rich man. ordinary

Alone, so move on with your life.

In fact, these are two extreme attitudes, both of which are inappropriate. The former is too involved in the onslaught, and unless you are super handsome, you are likely to become a target.

It has a deterrent effect. Surprise first, then refuse. Because women are different from men, they are extremely fascinated by each other's looks, and there are more women.

Jia is obsessed with something called "taste", which I understand as a man's style that women can feel. This is usually necessary.

It takes time and contact to feel it. In other words, a woman can't fall in love with you in a short time, even if she has enough affection for you.

So we don't recommend storming.

Another kind of escape and abandonment is worse. If you don't chase others and treat your goals negatively, the possibility of success is almost zero.

Therefore, we must strive to control our own rhythm and mentality and achieve a balance between offense and defense. For specific behavior, often but not.

Always send text messages to the beauty target to let her know that you exist and that you appreciate or even like her, but you don't.

Didn't decide to chase her.

This initial attack posture lasts about 25-40 days. Once 25 days have passed, it is necessary to start thinking about the next offensive.

Let's analyze the target again.

Beauty is certainly not there for you to chase. Beautiful women will have a large number of followers around them, including all kinds of people, handsome guys,

Frogs, perverts, of course, will have strong competitors. But not bad. Worst of all-she already has a boyfriend.

If this beautiful woman doesn't have a boyfriend, that's good. You can skip the following coping strategies. Continue "fast approaching".

If your partner already has a boyfriend, then I dare say you should spend more time dealing with him. The reason is simple, just like you have to work hard.

Take other people's food out of the refrigerator and put your own.

If she already has a boyfriend. There are also two situations,

1, her boyfriend is very good, and they are inseparable. You need to do too much work at this time. You need to collect information about your opponent. you need

Know what his boyfriend is like, what his weaknesses and strengths are, and how he treats his beautiful girlfriend. Find the attack point from it. Of course, distance

Success is still far away. When we meet such lovers in love in the city, let's give them our best wishes. As for how to break up, I haven't practiced.

So I can't say the details.

But I seldom meet a beautiful boyfriend who can lock his girlfriend firmly. Most beautiful women are stupid, philandering and bohemian.

Be possessed by an unruly handsome boy, rich man or powerful person. In this way, we certainly have a chance. So I turned to the following point-if hers

Neither her boyfriend nor she is strong.

She and her boyfriend are not strong, which is when we show our tactics. Adolescent boyfriends are mostly dedicated to themselves.

Our beautiful girlfriends are obedient and spoiled, ignoring the emotional leading role of men in love. Besides, most beautiful women are weird,

So I often regard my boyfriend as a band-aid or a nanny. Although practical, it is difficult to meet my inner needs, that is, it is difficult to treat men.

Friends are deep. At this time, you need to appear in her life as a "strong image".

You need to make her feel that you are interested in her. You don't care that she has a boyfriend (her boyfriend is really inferior). You have strong self-confidence.

So you can stay with her. At this stage, it is likely that she will refuse you, because she has a boyfriend, and most of her personality is better.

All girls think it's not good to have an affair with other boys when they have boyfriends. You must not hurry or retreat. It's time.

When patience and style are tested. You must make her feel that you are different. You are different from her boyfriend. You admire her, but don't worry.

With her, you are observing, waiting and living.

I have always stressed that in love, men must have the advantage and conquer women. Oppose taking advantage of one's hard pursuit or suffering.

The opportunity or vulnerability to gain women's sympathy. Of course, there are also successful cases of this method, but I think it is not difficult to rely on it.

The feeling exchanged for peace and sympathy is a kind of love, a deformed love, unstable, abnormal and not advocated.

Continue our article "Fast Approach", get to know each other's general strength and target characteristics through preliminary contact, and then

We have also initially found a breakthrough that can be attacked. For example, a beautiful girl's boyfriend is boring, or a playboy, or doesn't care about her.

If this beautiful woman is not good enough, we can also find that she may be a playboy, eager for excitement and vanity, superficial and superficial. these

Is a weakness that we can attack.

Then after knowing this beautiful woman for 25-40 days, we began to do some in-depth exploration.

After the above preparation, you should be able to communicate with your goal to some extent. I mean, you can text her or

Chat online about some sensitive, deep-seated and emotional topics. This kind of communication is extremely important because you not only

You can understand her needs and ideas, and you can show her your ideas directly.

Same style. You must be special. When communicating or talking with her, you must be assertive, firm and slightly aggressive.

Slight, calm and rational, this is only part of it. At the same time, you must be relaxed and humorous, be a little presumptuous and not violate bad principles.

Men's "bad" is like a catalyst for chemical reactions. Without catalyst, the reaction will proceed normally, but the speed and intensity are very low.

Once there is a bad catalyst, the reaction will be very intense. Of course, we must master the right amount of this catalyst, because no good girl likes it.

The kind of bastard who eats, drinks and gambles, has no quality and is very bad.

They prefer contradictory combinations. Combination of good and bad.

Personally, I like playing games, skipping classes and going out to dance in college. I'm crazy and frivolous, but I

Often read books on philosophy and psychology (occasionally learn computer communication, 5555). Even now, I am reading pessimism.

The birth of tragedy, global history. On the one hand, we can deepen our thinking, on the other hand, we can mix the taste of this scroll with hooliganism.

Together, it is a very attractive smell for beautiful women.

What you need to do is to inadvertently reveal your contradictory qualities in your conversation and dialogue with her. You can pretend that nothing matters.

Look down on everything, but when it comes to truth, you must show piety.

In the conversation with her, you need to achieve this effect, so that she feels that you are so different, you have profound thoughts and your own opinions.

But there are many frivolous and humorous elements in your piety and seriousness. Such a man is very attractive.

Men must have ideas. A man without ideas is as sad as a man without reproductive organs.

Of course, maybe that beautiful woman doesn't know you so well, and she probably doesn't bother to read your mind. If you need to conquer her from the bottom of your heart,

You must try to make her interested in you and get to know you. I recommend that you can be very talkative and humorous to provoke her and make her

I think you are an interesting person, so I am interested in getting to know you.

Once a woman realizes that this man is not as superficial as he looks, her favor will double.

Well, suppose you do well, this beautiful woman has begun to try to get to know you. Our next step is to make her like you.

Women are very vain animals. At the same time, they are eager to be understood and cared for. So don't miss the opportunity to praise her at any time.

Of course, grasp the scale and discretion, and don't turn into disgusting flattery. I once met a girl who looked like Michelle monique Rice, and everyone praised her appearance.

Like Michelle monique Rice, her compliments are common. But when I was with her, I said, Vivian Chow is really depressed, said the beauty.

Why, I said, when she saw Michele Monique Reis, she realized that she could only come second, and when she saw you, she found that she couldn't come second either.

Although this statement is disgusting, it is much better than other people's compliments. ) She smiled at once, but I smiled and said piously:

I'm not lying. She immediately said, you are so interesting.

Therefore, through clever compliments, it is not difficult to achieve the purpose of increasing goodwill.

Of course, there are more important things. -Try to read your goals and try to find some qualities in her that others haven't talked about.

My first beautiful girlfriend has beautiful eyes. Many people say, "Wow, your eyes are really powerful!" "

I didn't say that. When I first met her, I looked at her with evil eyes and said calmly, "You know,

Your eyelashes are beautiful. I like watching them. "She immediately very happy, and said, is it? No one has ever said that about me! ..... really?

Is it really beautiful?

Therefore, trying to understand beautiful women and finding their less prominent characteristics can often make beautiful women have an "eruption" of affection for you.

Well, through witty and humorous short messages, in-depth online chats, subtle compliments and slightly provocative compliments, continuous comfort.

Show love for your goal, and you have completed the first step of the "fast approach" stage.

Your goal already thinks that you are an interesting person, very interesting, unique and different.

Then, you can start to go further. This is a substantial change from "air raid" to "ground warfare".

The first step of transformation is confession.

How to confess

In my opinion, confession must be made as soon as possible. Many people have to wait until they are completely sure before they confess to girls. If it's an ordinary girl,

If your advantage is obvious, it's easy to attract her. Wait until you can see that she is fascinated by you. The success rate is really high.

However, you are not facing an ordinary girl, but a beautiful girl with many suitors. If you need to rely on ambiguity.

Wait and see, wait and see,

1, before you, it is very likely that someone else will confess successfully, and you will never wait for the right time.

2, causing beauty "Why is this man so timid? Does he like me or not? " "He has no masculinity."

As we all know, decisiveness is another sexy trait of men.

3. miss the best opportunity. Women are often curious about new things. When they know a man for 25-40 days, if she has feelings for you.

Interests, this is the best time to change the relationship. At this point, the two sides were neither ignorant at first, nor did they know the root of the matter after several months.

It is a very delicate moment for the two to be at arm's length. If you don't confess, what are you waiting for?

So after about 40 days of contact, you have a deeper understanding and ambiguous communication. You know she doesn't hate you, and she even appreciates you a little.

So, you find an opportunity to tell her bluntly that I like you very much and I need you to be my girlfriend. Confession is also artistic.

I will not repeat it here)

I never think that confession is a difficult thing. As a man, it is natural and proud to say I like you to a girl.

Things.

Of course, you are waiting for her result. There will be three results.

1, ok, I promise, but ... this answer is the best, at least she has recognized you and is willing to associate with you. Of course, such a probability

Not the biggest.

2. OK ... I don't know/I don't know if I like you/should we know you better? This answer is also very likely. objectively

Say, this is a very optimistic answer, at least he gave acquiescence to your next move. This is a good sign.

No, we are not suitable/I already have a boyfriend/I don't like you/. The possibility of getting this answer will be very great, because she is a beauty, if

You can't do the first few steps perfectly, and you will encounter difficulties at this time.

How to solve these difficulties? It's kind of like playing the game of Three Kingdoms. Before you persuade the enemy generals to surrender, you must constantly bribe and provoke.

Here, before she promises you, you must constantly increase her affection for you.

At the very least, you should make her not hate you. If she becomes evasive when she sees you, then you can only change your goal and start from the first place again.

The steps have already started. You must have a legitimate or slightly ambiguous reason to be alone with her. For example, you lied that today is a special day.

God, so you should invite her to dinner or drink. At that time, you can say that today is the 53rd day of knowing you, and you are very happy and honored. )

Of course, such an invitation must pay attention to the attitude of the other party. I once chased a mm who hated me very much (at that time, her expression was dull and her language was dull.

Timid and not handsome, she was obviously impatient to be with me, and I was still pursuing it, and then I went to see her once.

She said that we hadn't seen each other for two months, so she gave her a present. She didn't accept it and left a sentence, "Do you know you are bored?"

. "(Now my wife is going to make fun of my anecdote. )

Well, suppose you have succeeded in asking her out to meet alone from time to time. This is a crucial step, because she provides you with.

The battlefield gives you a chance to show off your various tactics and heavy equipment. You know, beautiful women don't give every suitor equal opportunities.

Please cherish every opportunity you have. Every joke you make, every idea that can move her, and some subtle details of you may be right.

After the war. I don't care what kind of person you are at ordinary times, but when you are with beautiful women, you must show: bold,

Single-minded, decisive, independent, sensitive and humorous, enterprising and imaginative.

Let me explain it in detail.

1, bold. For example, I won't feel nervous and embarrassed at all because I say "I like you" or touch her hand or face her at close range.

You regard dating her as a natural and beautiful thing, and you are not afraid at all. You may not think so, but you must look like it.

Here's the thing.

2, single-minded. When two people are together, it is inevitable that they will talk about previous stories. Please don't focus on how you liked a girl before and how you picked up girls before.

Glorious deeds come out to show off. I knew in elementary school that I should never talk about another woman in front of her. Not in front of her.

Degrade or praise others. In short, in your time with her, in your conversation, if there is a woman, then you can only

Is the beauty in front of you.

3. Decisive. Women hate men who are hesitant. In front of her, you must be free and firm. Judging from the details, you must be decisive.

For example, when deciding where to play and where to eat, you must think about it a little and then decide immediately. Like sitting on the playground together,

Please don't blow the dust off the stone bench over and over again when you sit down. Mother-in-law is too despised by beautiful women.

Of course, those thin people who carry toilet paper with them and dare to sit down after wiping their stools should be disqualified from picking up girls immediately.

4. independence. Women are afraid of taking responsibility, so they try not to make a decision and are willing to leave the decision to the men around them. Therefore,

In some details, you must show your opinion, when to meet in the evening, where to go, what to do and when to come back.

It should be within your expectation and control. In this way, you can make the other person feel like a real man.

5. Sensitive and humorous. Sensitivity means that you always pay attention to each other, which is actually a very important skill, not only for women,

In the adult world in the future, you will find that observing words and deeds is actually too important. It depends on whether the other person is happy, gratified or agitated.

This will be of great guiding significance to your next action. Humor goes without saying, you must make this girl feel very open with you.

Good heart. No one wants to date you with a straight face unless you are really handsome.

6. Aggressiveness and imagination. You must be as aggressive as possible on the premise of being polite and not causing the other person's disgust. You have to make her think you're active,

Very positive. When you confess to her, you really regard her as the girl you are determined to date.

Imagination means that you should not be too narrow-minded. When we meet, we can talk about the school, only about the good weather today.

You should think of many things that can interest the other person.

You may not be able to cover all of these at once. But you must make sure that you can remember it and work hard in this direction.

A beauty is a beauty. Even if you have done all the above work, she can see you occasionally now, and the two of them can sit down and talk for a long time.

Even she can let you go shopping with her. However, she may not be able to promise you anything

Because, she is a beauty, and you are her suitor. If you can't tell yourself from others, why did she promise you instead of others?

What about 95 suitors?

So, let's go back to our principle-to treat beautiful girls, you must be different.

At this time, you must get to know the girl's habits well by getting close to her. Different beauties have different habits. Some beautiful women

Like rebellion, some beautiful women like tradition, and some girls like docile and clever men. Then you can choose one of your "specialties".

I have to take the game as an example again, because you can't be an omnipotent person, so I suggest you show some qualities about yourself.

The specific situation needs to be grasped by yourself)

For myself, I try to shape myself into an excellent rogue philosopher. I am bohemian in appearance and have no scruples about language.

I dyed my hair, wore a short coat full of metal chains and skulls (it's silly to think of it now), and held a copy of Communication Principles in my hand.

(Convolution is terrible. But I study hard, I am restrained and measured in front of girls, and I can always say that I am academic.

The strong contradiction between the appearance and the heart of the pie language makes the girl I pursue feel more and more incredible. It's easy to increase goodwill.

Take me for example. Examples will be more convincing. My wife is really a flower. I was chased by many people at school, even a few.

Big money from outside the school also came to pursue her. Of course, most of them are vulgar boys with no taste and quality, full of foul language.

A boy whose English looks poor. My wife is studying in an ordinary college, and everyone knows that many boys there are fooling around.

(Boy) She hates the feeling of being a bad person. Knowing this, when I pursued her, I took the academic route.

And I showed my vicissitudes in front of her (I worked in Southwest China, Guangdong, Shanghai, Shenzhen and Central China for a while after graduation).

And strive to maintain their positive and not decadent style. In front of her, I behaved in a complicated and comprehensive way, and I have seen the greatness of human nature.

Dark and ugly side, but I don't smoke or drink, my personality is relatively pure and my thoughts are positive and enterprising.

So later she told me that I was really different from all the boys she had met. She met a nerd, a hooligan, or

He is an ordinary boy of Muheng. I've never seen me so good (she thinks good grades are good) and I like to play (this is true).

An interesting (that is, nagging) and bad (I am a little presumptuous in front of her) man.

Therefore, in dealing with beautiful women, it is fatal to show one's uniqueness and give full play to one's special skills. Beauty is only a minority,

The reason why you can fight your way out in the competition and bypass the defense line of beautiful women is entirely because of your uniqueness and a little luck.

Well, suppose you succeed in attracting this beautiful girl. Then, the next step is "fire support"

fire support

Judging from the reality, a large part of men and the beautiful women they pursue have maintained this unclear state for a long time. Neither did she.

It belongs to you and nobody. She refuses your confession, but has a soft spot for your phone call or gift, and occasionally thinks of giving it to you.

You call or text, but more often it's "I'm busy".

In fact, this is the biggest headache for men. She gives you hope, but she doesn't let you get it.

Many men will complain, why not simply refuse me? Why not say "I'm sorry, I'm not going to be with you" at the beginning?

In fact, it is not other girls who are willing to drag their feet like this. According to my judgment, beautiful women are indifferent to some suitors.

For the following reasons:

1, a few beautiful women are driven by vanity and take pleasure in wandering among men. (this kind of abnormal love, don't make a specific analysis. )

2, women's unique hesitation and lack of decisive performance. She doesn't want to play with anyone, but she really doesn't know if she likes this man.

And she doesn't know how to gently give herself to this man; She doesn't know whether this man is really worth paying for.

Unlike men, women will try to solve problems, and most of the time they can only hesitate to wait. (Because of this indecisive beauty.

The pursuit obstacles caused by psychology account for the majority in the examples. )

3. Competitors with balanced strength. Besides you, there are others who also moved the beauty herself. She likes them all, but she doesn't know how to choose.

(This situation can actually be attributed to the above indecision. )

4. Because of my own experience (mainly failed love in the past), I am afraid of love, injury and even men.

There are many such cases, and I have witnessed many cases.

Well, then we can see it clearly.

If a beautiful girl is willing to approach you, she will never let you make a breakthrough. If she doesn't want to play with you, she must be hesitating.

Hesitate whether I should love you and who I should love. In other words, she is afraid of falling in love with you.

The problem has been raised, so what is the solution? Let's analyze them one by one.

1, playing with men. -Go straight ahead. Interested brothers can do experiments on her, psychologically and physically. Anyway, everyone feels happy.

2, wait and see the man. She has a crush on you, but I don't know if she should like you. So, what you have to do is, according to your existing style,

Continue to increase her affection for you. For example, she likes romance. You can show her that you are a surprise gift or an unexpected date.

What a sensitive man! She likes sunshine and handsomeness, so you need to further improve your appearance and language. She likes maturity and stability, so

You have to work hard to increase your masculinity.

What I said is very abstract, easier said than done. It's not easy for a beautiful woman to have a crush on you. If you want to rely on this again,

Some good feelings are hard to rise to love. Never think that you can conquer a beautiful woman just by humor or handsomeness.

Beauty may not have a high IQ, but most beauty's EQ is amazing. Their personalities are very strong and special (thanks to many suitors).

Unless you can accurately grasp her weakness, you will hardly have a chance to strike a fatal blow with that hard-won goodwill.

then what She likes you and allows you to be ambiguous, but there is no further opportunity. At this time, I think it's probably time to lift that man's heavy weapons.

-Show your sincerity.

If the first stage of approaching beautiful women depends on temptation, then the second stage of restraining beautiful women depends on sincerity.

To tell the truth, this is a stage that makes men psychologically exhausted, and it is also the stage with the greatest investment. You need to pay a lot for your beauty, and you may find that,

You really love her. You can't convince yourself not to think about her. You are willing to get wet for her, and you are willing to wait under her dormitory for one night.

I would like to go to a place other than 7 stops to buy her her favorite strawberry ice cream.

I am very upset at this stage. Why does a man have to torture himself hysterically before a woman will believe that he loves her? There is no way,

That's the truth. What's more, beauty is the dominant group and the group that needs the most sense of security.

On the psychological suggestion, they will constantly remind themselves that most men just covet their looks.

Just because they are beautiful. That's all, there is no other high-sounding reason. Of course, as for love, that's another matter. )

Therefore, because of their lack of security, they need to try to set up many obstacles to test a man to prove his loyalty and firmness.

Then, there is no other way but to try to prove yourself and touch others.

There are many methods, such as short messages and love letters, supplemented by some practical examples: taking care of her illness, which is probably not commonly used;

Write down a sentence she accidentally said or a joke-like wish, keep it firmly in mind, and then do it for her. The level of killing is very high.

Observe her carefully (you should be able to find more by now) and see what potential opportunities there are.

No matter whether the method is old-fashioned or not, no matter how troublesome it is, as long as it can impress her, as long as it is effective, it is a good method.

Waiting in the rain is a very old-fashioned routine, which sounds lame, but when you really experience it,

I feel completely different, and I believe that beauty is different. )

I don't care if you are really religious. At this stage, all you have to do is make yourself look pious. You are too careless,

The bad habit of carelessness must not be reflected in her. A man who forgets a girl's birthday is unlikely to catch up with a beautiful woman.

In a word, beautiful women like men with hearts. Who doesn't want the other person to really put himself in the highest position in his heart? All you have to do is,

Is to make her think that you love her the most and care about her the most. You can give up everything for her. What an ironic language. )

At this time, anyway, all-round fighting has begun, and heavy weapons can be on it. This chapter is called fire support,

It is clear that we must increase investment, strengthen reinforcements and deepen goodwill on the basis of the existing ambiguity. By sending flowers continuously,

Dating, giving gifts, writing letters, sweet words, all the details that can impress her and achieve the effect of suppressing each other. In this case,

The only center is to let her know your firm loyalty.

Most beautiful women, or most women, need men to help her make decisions. If she really likes you, as long as you can make her trust you,

It's only a matter of time before I entrust myself to you. There are many regrettable stories, just because men are not firm enough, pious enough and unswerving enough.

Looks like there should be enough fire support here.

Actually, there's a trick here. That is, a timely ceasefire and intermittent attacks. -Like a man