What topics do you use to chat with girls?

1. The most direct way to talk about travel is to ask her what are the most interesting and impressive places she has been before, or you can tell a story about her previous trip first. Whether it's good or bad, as long as you think it's worth talking about, it's interesting to talk about and even brings value to girls. And the places you have been to don't need to be very high. For example, Bian Xiao once went to a place called Jinzhai in Dabie Mountain, Anhui Province. The train will take six hours first, then transfer to a bus and drive around Panshan Highway for another four hours. When I got there, I saw mountains, nothing special. But I learned a lesson from that trip. When we went up the mountain to take the Panshan Highway, we took a car. Everything is fine except that my ass hurts a little. When I went down the mountain, I took the bus that meandered along the Panshan Highway for nearly 4 hours, and the whole bus was vomiting. Imagine the scene, the smell of the car, which lasted for 4 hours, so you must remember to take the bus when you take the Panshan Highway, and never take the bus. Because the car is big and the curve is big, it is easy to get carsick. In fact, there is a very simple trick to talk about travel with girls. You can look at her circle of friends sent by WeChat. /kloc-9 out of 0 girls will send photos to their circle of friends as long as they are traveling, and you will know where she has been at a glance. In addition to sending travel photos, what do girls' circle of friends usually send? This is what we are going to talk about next. You can talk to girls about the second topic. 2. Eat, drink and be merry. Food, music, movies or some activities she has participated in can be summarized in four words: eat, drink and be merry. Most girls love it. If it's a date for dinner, we can start with the meal at hand. Tell me something special that you ate last time. For example, a friend of mine especially likes to eat Korean crab sauce, which is very interesting when eaten raw. Talking about your friend and her friends may surprise many people at once, but it is a good starting point for chatting. Girls usually have girlfriends, and there are always many stories. Of course, as a man, you have to take the initiative to be attractive. So you can start with an interesting thing that happened to a friend of yours recently. For example, Bian Xiao has a friend who has become a father. His son is only one year old. Every time I see his father, he always calls him son. His father, my friend, came home from work, and his son pointed to his father and called him his son. My friend's wife has been troubled by this for some time. 4. Tell her about your special experience and the craziest and most incredible experience you have ever experienced in your life. Maybe you skipped class, got hung up by your dad, had dinner with a big star, and so on. It can also be a person riding a bicycle across half of China, or your bus almost had an accident, and the driver and passengers got into a fight. 5. Talk about a more personal and in-depth topic, you can talk about each other's hobbies and quirks. This is a more personal and in-depth topic. If you can get a girl to tell you some of her hobbies or quirks, then you can get close to her in an instant. In fact, everyone has hobbies or quirks of one kind or another. For example, Bian Xiao meets the cleaning standards. I remember cleaning the house. As a result, after he came in, he exclaimed "My God" many times. Is this where people live? Why is it so dirty! It's embarrassing ~~~ 6. You can ask a girl her opinion or opinion. In fact, each of us likes to give advice to others and tell them what to do. Everyone has his own opinions and opinions. What's missing is that someone really sits down and asks you what you think. What is lacking is that someone listens to your opinion carefully. If you do this, girls will feel special. The point is that all girls want to feel special. So, when you don't know what to talk to a girl next, ask her opinion, her opinion. This is another trick. Generally speaking, girls have more views and opinions on men's and women's problems and emotional problems. For example, you can ask general questions. Generally speaking, do you think men lie more or women lie more? There is no standard answer to this question, and there is no obvious right or wrong. When you ask a girl's opinion, you'd better ask more specific questions. For example, a girl found a photo of her ex-girlfriend in Shanghai on her boyfriend's computer, so she lost her temper and finally broke up. You can ask the girl what she thinks of this matter. In fact, there are many questions that can be asked for girls' opinions. The key is to pick the questions that girls will say. 7. Talk about her passion or your passion. Get up every morning, is it an alarm clock to wake you up, or is it a passion in your heart, about your life, your favorite things, your career? If the girl you are facing has the same passion, then you will suddenly scream. Passion is not equal to work. Girls may work as clerks from nine to five, but their passion may lie in keeping cats. Although she sits in front of the computer at work every day. Maybe she bought toys for her cat online. Some people like karaoke, others like playing games and so on. None of this is the point. The key point is that these are all things that girls are very passionate and interested in. Are you afraid that they can't talk to her about it? More importantly, talking about these topics with girls is also a way for you to get to know her. Because many boys only care about what topic to talk about, they can make girls like themselves. In fact, what you need to pay more attention to is what kind of girl you are and whether she is suitable for you. When she chooses you, you are also choosing her. Only selective criteria are attractive. What topic to talk with girls? 2 How to continue the topic of chatting with girls? 1. Pay attention to the rhythm of chatting with girls. Many brothers are trying to tell girls what they can say and what they want to say, which makes girls speechless, just like Degang Guo robbed Yu Qian of all his lines in cross talk. How many words does Yu Qian have? Nothing more than right, um, right. So, when chatting with girls, don't rush to answer. It is taboo for girls to start adding words or grabbing words without talking back a little. 2. Chatting with girls should be open. Many people pay great attention to their image when chatting with girls, and dare not say some gossip. Actually, there is nothing to talk about with girls and their hobbies. Why do you say that? Because at first she thought you liked it, just like finding a bosom friend, and she was very excited to tell you, but holding this chat every day, you know you very well but have a little knowledge, which will make you feel very boring. Talking about topics related to emotions You should talk about topics related to "emotions", such as childhood memories, future ambitions, or her hobbies. Such a topic can open the floodgates of her emotions. 2, control the chat topic A woman likes a man who has the ability to control her. When talking to women, you should control the topic of chatting with girls. Don't wait for her to tell you what to talk about. 3. Pay attention to the language tips of girls and pay attention to the non-language tips that women give you. If you stand close to her, spit, or otherwise make her feel uncomfortable, she will give you a hint. Pay attention to these tips. 4. Humorous but not funny. Remember this proverb: "Humorous but not funny." Women will be attracted to men who make them happy. Don't just tell the funniest jokes, spend more time showing them the most exciting and interesting things. 5. tease her. Tease her. The easiest way to make a conversation ambiguous and interesting is to flirt with a lady. Think back to how I played with girls on the school playground. The method of attracting girls at that time is completely applicable to dating now. Skills of Chatting with Girls to Continue the Topic 1, Keyword Chat As the name implies, Keyword Chat is to maintain and continue the chat topic by grasping the keywords in the topic. Therefore, when chatting with the other party, we can keep a normal conversation by grasping a key word in the other party's discourse and then talking about our own experiences, opinions, feelings or stories related to other people according to this key word. 2. Talk about topics that women are interested in. The so-called know yourself and know yourself. Since we want to chat with girls, we should have a deep understanding of what girls like to talk about. I found that emotions, pets, food, gossip, art and stars are all topics that women like. Of course, we should also prescribe the right medicine and look at the menu. What can I talk about when chatting with girls? 1. Family, friends and family are people we have known since childhood, so there are often many interesting topics. If you talk about your family with a girl, it will bring you closer to her. However, you must share your information first, and then you can ask the other person's information, otherwise the other person may not want to talk about it. 2. Talking about Career Talking about Career If the conversation is superficial and the other party doesn't want to talk about it, it's easy to talk about it, so guide the other party to talk about it in depth! 3. Talking about entertainment "What do you like to do when you are resting?" "Why do you like it so much?" "How do you feel when you do XX?" "Why do you feel this way?" 4. Talking about dreams In fact, many people can't stick to their dreams because they have not reached financial freedom and need to work to support themselves. Many people can only hide their dreams in their hearts. People with dreams will like you if you show great support for each other's dreams! What is the topic of chatting with girls? 3 How to chat with girls? 1, find the same interests, it is important to sing while chatting. It means that when two people are talking about something, one thinks it is right and the other thinks it is wrong, so there is no need to chat, because if we keep talking, there will be a quarrel. Since we have different ideas, boys and girls must pay attention to this when chatting, and find the same interest first, which includes three views and ideas at the same time. Only by figuring this out can we have a good chat. 2, control the rhythm, drive her emotions Boys should know how to drive girls' emotions during the whole chat process, and also be people who master the rhythm. If you want to fuck, you don't want to talk about the effect that girls want to chase you. How to realize this feeling, it is necessary to let girls' emotions integrate into the whole chat process. Boys talk about girls when they chat, and then disappear every once in a while. Don't reply to girls every second. Slowly, when girls start to rely on chatting with you, boys can deliberately ignore her, which will completely curb girls' emotions. 3. Use more invitations to meet and interact with her. When chatting with boys, you must establish yourself as a man of your word. Don't just talk empty words when chatting. You should know to send invitations and ask to meet and interact with girls. This shows that boys are more sincere, not talking about chasing girls, but also showing practical actions. Whether it's inviting you to dinner or shopping, at least boys have this attitude and practical actions, instead of just mentioning it.