How to find a topic when chatting with girls on the phone

First, talking about each other's lives and talking about the topic of life can bring us closer together and make girls more familiar with you. For example, if you often suffer from insomnia recently, you can say to the girl, "I often suffer from insomnia recently, and I have no energy to go to work during the day." I am talking to you with a pair of panda eyes. " Girls are likely to ask you, "What's wrong with you? Is the pressure great? " Then you can go on talking about your recent life. Chatting is talking about each other's lives. You talk about your own life, and she talks about her fucking life. When chatting, two people will have emotional resonance. Second, chatting is a topic that many people will pay attention to. The weather will also affect the activities of going out and affect each other's mood. Now that it's winter, you can talk to girls like this: "It's just winter, so cold. I feel that every door can freeze itself into a popsicle. " This humorous remark is ridiculous. Girls may laugh at you instantly, and then your topic will tell you, "Ha ha ha, aren't you frozen into a popsicle?" Or "it's so cold, I've been catching up with the drama at home these days." In this way, I established contact with girls through chatting. Talking about news hotspots News hotspots are always an outdated topic, and girls like gossip very much. If you pay attention to Weibo, you can often see the gossip news of various stars, and you can seize these hot topics to chat with girls. For example, girls like TFBOYS, so you can watch some news about TFBOYS and talk to girls. If girls don't like gossip news, then you can say some special news, and tell these fresh news to girls, which may open a steady stream of girls' chatterboxes when talking about a certain point. Fourth, praise each other. Praising each other is a skill that must be learned in chatting. When talking to a girl on the phone, you can't see her expression and manner, but only hear her tone and voice. Then we can talk to girls about each other's voices. For example, a girl's voice is very sweet, so you should praise her in a sincere tone. Let the girls evaluate their voices by talking about each other's voices and then contacting their own. If a girl's voice has no characteristics, then you can praise other points of this girl, through some topics that this girl talked to you, grasp some details that this girl provided to you to praise this girl, praise that this girl is virtuous, praise that this girl is cute, and so on. 5. Talking about work can share interesting things in your work with girls, let girls share interesting things in her work with you, and make girls willing to talk to you through these interesting things. Remember not to just talk about work logically. There are many topics to talk with girls, and the key is how to find the breakthrough point. If you bring girls a relaxed feeling when chatting, this emotional feeling can turn on the emotional switch of girls and your chat can continue. How to find a topic when chatting with girls on the phone II. What do you say at the beginning of calling a girl? 1. Cut to the chase and take the initiative to start the topic "Where did the holiday go?" "Have you seen the new movie recently?" "Apple 1 1 is on the shelves. Did you see it? " Calling girls is actually a communication process, and you don't need to try your best to find a topic, especially if you start with a clear purpose. Of course, if a girl is not interested in your interest, praise her first to arouse her mood. For example, "by the way, that dress you wore yesterday, jeans with a sports coat, is cool and beautiful." "Did you tie your hair yesterday? I didn't recognize it. You still look the best like that. " 2. It is very important to talk with girls humorously and have a relaxed and happy atmosphere. At this time, talking to girls can start like this: "My big baby, did you miss me?" "This lovely, beautiful, generous and kind little sister, here I am" is more easily accepted by girls. Girls are willing to accept your intimate address, which shows that they also have a certain affection for you. 3, care about the inquiry under the coat Many boys just want to know what girls are doing, but if you ask directly, the average girl is more disgusted. At this time, you can ask in a caring tone, such as, "It's so cold, you should put on more clothes. Are you outside?"? Shall I pick you up? " "Did you have a good time at the party tonight?" "I think the weather outside today is not very good. Where are you? I'll pick you up. " I kill two birds with one stone, and at the same time show my gentleness and thoughtfulness. Second, call the girl to talk about what is good for her, normal mind is the most important, and some necessary anxiety. In fact, when you call a girl, you should pay more attention to her speech. When she puts forward her point of view, we must not interrupt her expression, so as to ensure the comfort of chatting. If necessary, you can make up one or two sentences yourself, find a topic and avoid a little embarrassment. This requires us to do some homework ourselves, and emotional intelligence can be improved slowly. If you don't know what to talk about, just talk about what you have done, what friends you have, going out to play and study, anything. Your girlfriend is not afraid that you are boring, but that you don't know what to say and make her feel that you don't love her enough. When we call a girl, it is usually for a purpose. For example, if you have a crush on her or want to get close to her, then the problem comes! Can't pick up the phone and talk about emotional topics! Then she will be disgusted, and girls are very sensitive to these topics. The best thing is to say something you have experienced together, or tell her a joke you used to know, as long as she starts talking to you! At this time, your topics will start to be more, and you can also selectively guide her to talk about the topics you want in advance! Of course! Everything should be measured and not rushed, so that your relationship will be stable and there will be better room for development. If she knows that you are interested in her and she is willing to chat with you, at this time, you must summon up courage to start action! You must know his heart and vote for him. Third, why not call the girl? When you call her, don't always ask, what are you doing? Have you eaten? You can change your tone. How have you been recently? Are you tired from work? We haven't been together for a long time. When to rest and so on? And her usual hobbies, so that you can plan what to do when you come out. For example, when you know what kind of food she likes, you can arrange where you will eat, her hobbies, where you like to play and what you like. Fourth, what should I pay attention to when calling girls? 1. Try to show your attraction. When chatting, you need to make girls feel comfortable and willing to chat with you. If what you say is wonderful and attractive, then she will be more interested in you. Don't deliberately show a sense of humor. If you are not like this, then I still advise you not to. 2. Keep a good attitude. The first time you call a girl, you may get the wrong number. She may refuse you when she is invited. This is normal. Failure is not terrible, but losing confidence at once. If you don't understand such a small thing, then you will miss the success behind you. 3. The core of chatting is that you can't say what you can't see. You should learn from what she said, for example, she told you that she had a cold, and she knew all those things, such as drinking more water and taking medicine. You don't have to say this. At this time, you need to care about her and ask her how she caught a cold and whether anyone around her is taking care of her. This will not only comfort her, let her feel your kindness, but also have a good impression on you, narrow the distance between you and increase the communication between you.