Skills of social jokes

Skill 1 of social jokes: the content should be elegant.

Joking is the art of skillfully using humorous language to communicate thoughts and feelings, which requires that the language must be pure and elegant. The content of a joke depends on the joker's ideological interest and cultural accomplishment. Jokes with healthy content and elegant style not only give the other party enlightenment and spiritual enjoyment, but also effectively shape their own beautiful image. If you joke and swear, it will not only make the language environment full of foul smell, but also be an insult to the listener, or at least a disrespect. At the same time, it also shows that his level is not high and his taste is vulgar.

Social joke skill 2: be friendly.

Being kind to others is a principle of joking. The process of joking is the process of communicating with each other and conveying feelings, which is the embodiment of goodwill. If you laugh at others in a joking way, vent your inner disgust and dissatisfaction, or even make fun of others, then only fools will know. Maybe some people are not as eloquent as you. On the surface, you have the upper hand, but others will think that you can't respect others, so they don't want to associate with you. In this way, you have lost many friends.

Skill 3 of social jokes: distinguish between objects.

The same joke can be played on A, but not necessarily on B. People have different identities, personalities and moods, and have different tolerance for jokes.

Generally speaking, the younger generation should not joke with the older generation, and the younger generation should not joke with the superiors; Women shouldn't joke with men. When joking between peers, we should master each other's personality characteristics and emotional information.

The other person is extroverted, tolerant and patient, and can forgive a little joke. The other person is introverted and likes to ponder between the lines. Be careful when joking. Although the other person is usually cheerful, if he happens to meet something unpleasant or sad, you can't just joke with him. On the other hand, the other person is introverted, but it just happens that a happy event is coming. At this time, it would be unexpectedly good to play a joke on him.

Social joke skill 4: distinguish occasions

When joking, you must look at the occasion clearly and see if you can make such a joke on this occasion. Generally speaking, in serious and quiet occasions, you should speak solemnly and not joke. On festive occasions, we should pay attention to whether jokes can add joy to the festive environment. If jokes disappoint people, it will be bad. Generally speaking, it is not appropriate to joke on solemn occasions, otherwise it will easily lead to misunderstanding.

Working hours are generally not suitable for joking. In order to avoid distractions affecting work and even causing accidents.

Social joke tip 5: avoid taboos.

Usually need to pay attention to the taboo mainly includes the following points:

Don't be frivolous and presumptuous when joking with elders and younger generations, especially when talking about men and women. When several generations are in the same room, jokes should be elegant, witty, humorous and enjoyable. Avoid talking about men and women on this occasion. When peers joke about this, when they are present as elders or juniors, it is best not to mix words and pretend that nothing happened;

Don't joke when you are alone with the opposite sex who is not related by blood. Even a serious joke will often arouse the antipathy of the other party, or cause speculation and criticism from others;

Play jokes on disabled people and avoid them. Everyone is afraid of others making fun of their shortcomings, especially the disabled. As the saying goes, don't scold baldies in front of monks, and don't say light bulbs in front of lazarillo DE tormes.

In a word, jokes can make our life more colorful, but we must master the "degree" when joking to enliven the atmosphere and enhance friendship.