What kind of jokes are the most offensive?

Introduction: Many people have this experience. At the beginning of the class reunion, everyone looked at each other and was very stiff. But as long as one person plays a joke at the beginning, the atmosphere will be different immediately.

Joke can be said to be a condiment in boring life. When we chat with people at parties, it is inevitable that we will make some jokes to resolve the embarrassment and make the serious atmosphere relaxed instantly.

However, not everyone likes these jokes, and some jokes that are casually told are really hurtful.

Your jokes hurt me.

Joke is a special language phenomenon. It is hard to say whether joking is polite or impolite, and it is more between polite and impolite.

In other words, joking is actually not easy to grasp. An appropriate joke can leave a good impression of humor. But if the joke goes too far, it may make people feel offended.

For the teased object, your joke sounds more like teasing and insulting them. At this time, the joke is really not funny.

So, what kind of jokes will make people mind?

We crawled around in the relevant Weibo and comments, compiled a list of "Top 20 Most Annoying Jokes", and found that many of them were directly poking fun at figure and appearance, and some jokes were also aimed at women.

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However, compared with these, under the premise that the joke offends the other party, the response of the joker to the angry reaction of the teaser is to some extent more irritating than the joke itself.

Never mind, don't be stingy. We didn't mean to. Why are friends so angry?

You really can't take a joke.

So you're angry? I was wrong. Come on, you're not that stupid, are you

I believe these three sentences are familiar to everyone. Obviously, you are the object of jokes, but in the end, you are denounced as "stingy", "can't take a joke" and "blx". Who will be more angry after listening to it?

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Originally, I may have made a joke to ease the atmosphere, and the response after screwing up the joke may also be to give myself a step down, but I didn't expect it to make people more sympathetic.

The joke itself has a certain sense of digestion, just like a "gold medal to avoid death." If you feel offended and unhappy, the other person's "I'm just kidding" response will make people reflect on whether they are too serious to joke.

But it's really not that we are too sensitive. In addition to this "angry" response, many jokes themselves are impolite.

"You can have a good ass", "You can have a boy at a glance" and "If you hadn't studied, you would have been a mother". This ridicule of women's fertility is inherently sexist.

"I am willing to exchange my three-year imprisonment for the shadow of her life", "The death penalty will not be reduced within three years", "If you like it, you can chase it, and if you can't catch it, you can prescribe medicine", which is far beyond the scope of jokes and can be said to be sexual harassment.

Some jokes are not so serious, but the "pointing fingers" revealed in the words are also inappropriate, such as "your clothes don't suit you, these shoes don't suit you, and this bag doesn't suit you", "My God, how can you like him? You have no vision "and so on.

Don't tell these jokes easily.

There is some truth in the saying that "all jokes have three points". Jokes are not just words, but more or less have realistic basis. If we classify these disturbing jokes, we can find that there are several types of these hurtful jokes.

Among the jokes that everyone cares about, appearance is mentioned the most, accounting for 45.73%. In addition, joking with favorite idols is not accepted by some people, accounting for more than 27.27%.

Joking about parents/family, shortcomings/pain points, dreams/beliefs, names, or even joking with yellow tones may be taboo for the other party.

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Among the most mentioned jokes about appearance, there are not a few people who use fat to ridicule. "Are you still eating when you are so fat?" "You are so fat" is a compliment.

It doesn't matter if boys are tall, short ones are called "disabled", and girls are ridiculed as "nobody wants them" if they are too tall. In addition, some jokes are even more direct, "Why do you look ugly again?" It hurts.

A lot of jokes are probably things that bother this person on weekdays. Joking about these is undoubtedly a pain point. Just like some netizens said, "Making fun of appearance, even a common joke for you, is poking my heart every word."

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When I was a student, many students liked to make fun of their height and thinness. These jokes are often told and are likely to become an inescapable label on the teaser. It started as a joke, but later it may become a bully.

How much bullying and verbal harassment are the guise of joking, saying that it is a joke, but in fact it is just to satisfy one's own bad taste.

In China, teasing children is particularly popular.

I believe many people had this experience when they were young. There are always a group of adults who like to tell their children with a wry smile, "Look, your parents prefer your brother/sister" and "Your parents only like your brother, but they don't like you".

Or deliberately say to the child, "You are a picked-up child" and "You were not born to your parents". If the child cries, he will show a successful and comforting expression and say, "I'm just teasing you."

When I grow up, I know that these are all jokes, but when I was young, I really took them seriously and I was afraid.

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Adults think this kind of joke is funny, but children can't tell the truth from the truth. These indoctrinated jokes that imply giving up may become the shadows that accompany them for a long time after they grow up.

Even if it is intimate, some words can't be said.

Many people who like to tease children are relatives who may only meet several times a year. Although they are all relatives and don't know each other well, they also like to judge the younger generation by their elders.

These elders may tell jokes to amuse you when you were young. When you grow up, I will never let you go. You should say something when you have the chance.

In the words of the elders, the most annoying thing is "I am a college student, how can I not even know this" or "I can't know this, and I went to college for nothing".

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"A woman's life is incomplete without marriage", "Who makes you a girl" and "A girl can be a teacher or a doctor, so that her job is stable" are also words that many conservative elders will say.

In addition, work, salary and object are the three themes that elders can't avoid when talking to you. After that, I often end up with words like "I did it for your own good" and "Don't believe me, this is all my experience", which makes people helpless.

Some words are disturbing, especially when the two sides are unfamiliar, saying inappropriate words. But both sides are very familiar, can we be reckless?

Take the parent-child relationship as an example. According to a survey of students in cities by the Institute of Journalism and Communication of China Academy of Social Sciences, as children, there are several things they dislike to hear from their parents. One is to urge learning and entertainment restrictions, and the other is to compare peers and directly deny them.

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On 20 18, a young girl stood on the rooftop and complained loudly, "There is a man named Decathlon. He is fine in everything. He is someone else's child."

Other children are always excellent, while their own children are always "really useless". Even if it is said in a joking tone, these words will still bring great psychological pressure to children.

Of course, not only between parents and children, but also between partners, some words can also make people mind, such as often breaking up, comparing with their predecessors, or making fun of each other's family and so on.

It is also possible to get out of control in intimate relationships, and because of this, some inappropriate words said in intimate relationships may bring more harm to people.

The speaker may not be intentional, but the listener is intentional. Sometimes you can't talk nonsense when joking, especially when joking with each other, you should grasp the pain points of each other.

It is not a person's basic accomplishment to be joking, but you can't make fun of others casually. It's nice to say hello for a while, but the person being teased may be really hurt.