Tell me who you love and I'll tell you who you are.

If people have no love in this life, it must be boring, because you don't even know who you are.

When I was a child, I was still ignorant, and all kinds of tricks were used. Those who followed me succeeded, and those who opposed me died. At that time, I thought that the first enemy was the teacher, and the second was my mother. Although he is taught to be a good boy who respects his teachers and parents every day, why should he respect his enemies? I can't understand it for a long time.

I think teachers and my mother are enemies because they are always different from what I think.

At school, I think if you finish your homework, you can go out to play. The teacher said, no, you should observe discipline, review after finishing your homework and have a good class. So I ran out to play after learning, which led to the teacher asking my mother to go to school. My mother criticized me, and when I was hungry, they became my enemies.

Of course, when I get up every day, my mother is also an enemy. I can't get out of bed. This is a habit I have developed since I was a child. My mother hasn't changed me for so many years.

Who did I like at that time? I like to play marbles with my friends, like my deskmate who quarrels with me but doesn't blush, and secretly like a handsome boy in the next class.

Gradually I grew up, and I don't know when I began to feel that they were no longer enemies. I love my mother and begin to appreciate my teacher. Because my mother thinks her daughter, that is, I, is the best child in the world, and so am I, so I also think my mother is the best mother in the world. Teachers have changed a lot, but I can see a me in every teacher's eyes, so I began to learn to love those teachers.

As for my little friends who play marbles with me, they are far apart, and the same table is far away from me. The class next door doesn't exist, and the handsome boy's face can't be remembered.

Have you ever found that no matter who we are or how old we are, we are very consistent with our lover, because I love the way you look at me and the way you recognize me. The basis of influencing your lover is not whether someone loves you or not, but whether you can see you from your lover's eyes.

You love your family because you have been together for a long time. They really pay for you. You can feel your importance at home. The more they value you, the more you love them. It has nothing to do with whether they are good people or bad people. Many people say that they are fickle because when their parents divorce, they regard themselves as a drag bottle and rarely feel their parents' affection, so they are lacking in love, or incompetent.

People who have never felt love have no self-knowledge, self-knowledge is blank, and life will not be smooth sailing.

So we can say that loving others equals loving ourselves, and loving others is actually a self-knowledge process.

Of course, this magical feeling of love is more complicated.

"I love you because of who you are, because of who I am when I am with you." Roy clift described love like this.

Whether true love exists or not, there may be no true love and false love at all. Love itself is illusory and cannot be defined.

From the perspective of pheromones, it's too rational. If it rises to the level of asking what the world is like and making people commit suicide, it may be too far. Even if there is, others say you can commit suicide. I'll think for myself. My other self is gone and my life is meaningless. Finally, I will leave. But this does not affect the pursuit of love by literature and art.

Everything in this world is believed by others, so you also believe. So is love. I said so much that even my own consciousness gradually realized what I said. Just like that sentence, there must be a trace of malice in the jokes that can be said, and a little sincerity in the love words that can be said.

There is no reason to love someone. No, there are all reasons, but many people don't realize their deeper self, their subconscious self and their other self. The degree of self-awareness directly determines the height of love.

A person with a strong sense of autonomy can handle his love reasonably most of the time. Some people say that love is a beast, which makes people very painful, struggling on the edge of love and unwilling to leave. So why does love bring pain?

Because two of a kind is hard to meet. It is not so easy to find two people whose magnetic fields attract each other. The premise is that you need to know yourself first, and then take that step bravely to really understand others. If you just sit back and complain, if you meet them, it will be providence.

Xiao said that he didn't know who he should like, let alone love, and even felt that there was no love at all. When he got married, he found someone to marry, and he lived like this all his life.

Please don't add all the sins to this bad society, don't blame yourself for not having a good material foundation because you can't find a lover, and don't slander the existence of beautiful love. It's always there, and most people can't see it.

When we observe the lovers around us, whether they are in love or get along well, we will find that they are more and more similar to each other in the long-term relationship. No matter living habits or personality characteristics, even if they fall in love at first because of different directions, they will eventually tend to be in dynamic balance. Birds of a feather flock together. That's what I said.

We often like people who are very similar to ourselves, or fall in love with people with similar personalities or hobbies. On the surface, we have the same topic, but in fact, what we subconsciously see is our recognized self. It is precisely because in each other's eyes, they are loved, excellent and perfect that they will love each other more. Therefore, it is especially important for couples to express their feelings and sweet words to find a sense of existence and identity.

In addition, the influence of appearance on love also depends on the degree of self-knowledge. It is undeniable that human beings are all visual animals, but the opening of love is not entirely visual.

Of course, we are more with people who are opposite to ourselves, so that we can complement each other and find a better self. Finally, improve yourself and know yourself. As we all know, knowing polyhedron and living in a complex social environment can't always express themselves simply, so they have their own thoughts, hidden personalities and their own other side. This aspect is often very different from what it shows, or an extreme yearning. For example, I am super lazy and especially like to be with hardworking people. When looking for a lover, if he is diligent, he will get a few points. Thinking that if we are together in the future, it will definitely drive me to work together and make me better.

Love is that two people together can make each other better, instead of clinging to everything. Long live obedience, even a long way.

Tell me who you love and I'll tell you who you are. Loving a person begins with knowing yourself and ends with discovering yourself. We have been looking for ourselves all our lives, and at the same time, love runs through our lives.