In "Parental Love", the aunt has helped her sister-in-law take care of her children for so many years. Why does she still think her sister-in-law is good to her?

Because my sister-in-law must respect her aunt very much, which is very good. Everyone knows that a married daughter will usually be disliked by her daughter-in-law when she returns home, but in "Parental Love", the sister-in-law is very kind to her aunt and treats her like a real sister.

There is a custom in some areas from ancient times to the present, that is, to pour a basin of water on a daughter when she is married, but not everyone understands the meaning, but on the contrary, they think it is like this. Originally, the meaning of this was beautiful, and it was hoped that after the daughter got married, she would be able to live in harmony and not have any problems due to quarrels and run back to her parents' home. It doesn't mean that you and your daughter will never have any contact with each other. Once you get married, you will belong to someone else's family. But there often appear in society some superficial examples, which are really spilled water.

When a woman marries, it means being separated from her parents at home. Even in the past, the place where women got married was across the village, but now many women get married out of the province. There is definitely a distance between a woman’s home and her parents’ home. The distance between reality will distance daughters from their parents. If the daughter is far away, the old man may feel a sense of loss. In the past, when my daughter was always around, I felt like a "little cotton-padded jacket", which was very comfortable. Now that they are far away, their daughter has less time to care for her, and the old man will think that his daughter is married, and he will not be close to her often. "The water thrown out by the married daughter" makes it difficult for everything to go back to the beginning.

After women get married, they will have their own family, which is different from their parents. From then on, we become adults and start to make plans for the future. I can no longer live with my parents like before because I still have to worry about my husband and children. In short, there are many differences in life, which makes women want to return to their own small families as soon as possible instead of staying with their parents. Of course, there are also women who are worried about their parents and want to take them with them after getting married, but they still encounter many problems. For example, does the man agree? What do the man’s parents think? etc. The reality is that there are many reasons that prevent daughters from getting close to their parents.