Example of reflections after reading Zhu Ziqing's prose "Children"

"Children" is an article in "Zhu Ziqing's Prose". It tells the story of Mr. Zhu Ziqing's changes in his attitude towards his children from youth to middle age.

Reflections after reading "Children"

Reading "Children" by Zhu Ziqing, I felt a lot of emotion and screamed. Although he is a famous writer, his writing method is straightforward, natural and simple, which makes people feel that it is a reflection of his current life, or his own growth experience yesterday. When you read the similarities, you will inevitably laugh or be moved. Or simply think that maybe life has given so much to everyone, and there is no need for us mortals to worry about the trivial matters in life. The only way is to relax your mind, dilute, dilute and then dilute, dilute and dilute again. Tolerance can eliminate everything. Some people say: If you are neither deaf nor blind, you are not worthy of being in charge. I think it's very well said.

What I still remember most now is that Zhu Ziqing wrote that our family is really full of troops every day! Yes, although our family does not have as many children as Zhu Ziqing, my parents and I live together. My brother and I used the excuse of visiting our mother, and each family had at least two children. Plus my cousin was babysitting the children of a fellow villager, and also brought her children to visit her aunt. During the summer vacation, plus the children of my cousin’s own hometown, there were some other visits. The children, or those who come to visit relatives from their hometown, will have a prosperous business all day long. My cousin's family moved due to some reasons. With many children, quarrels over things are inevitable. Eating is a trivial matter. As long as their parents are happy to make two pots of food, they will be happy. The most important thing is that you may not find anything wherever you put it. I can't stand poor hygiene at home. What's more important is that it's so busy all day long that children can't do their homework quietly. At the beginning, I was often angry about this. My father and I quarreled: If your mother and we weren't here, you wouldn't be able to invite them. No one in my hometown dares to say that your mother is unclean. Cleanliness is well-known far and wide.

In Zhu Ziqing’s words, there was really nothing he could do, and sometimes he even thought it would be better to commit suicide.

At first no one invited my parents to live with them. My younger brother gave birth to another daughter. When he invited his mother to stay at his house to look after the child, he also invited his father to come with him, but his father refused. Later, I heard my mother say that my father understood this: When I first came to live in the city, I wished that he could see all his children every day. However, a while ago, my mother went to her brother's house to see the children. During that time, she accidentally fell down when she returned to her hometown to attend the wedding banquet of one of her nieces. I broke my waist and fractured my body. After I came back, I came directly to my place. Most of the money was paid by me (I guess my sister took a little bit. I boast a little. I never wait or compare when it comes to honoring my parents, because I know too well. The family is always so busy. In addition to taking care of his mother, he also often has to cook and wash for this big family. He is tired enough. In addition, my younger brother and brother-in-law often asked my father to sell the birds he raised. The father was very angry and said: I live with my second daughter, and my second daughter has never disliked me raising birds. If she is not in your house, you still have objections. During the Spring Festival this year, my mother’s waist was not completely healed, and I didn’t want them to go back to their hometown for the New Year, but they insisted on going back, so my father rented an extra-long bun and took his beloved caged birds back to his hometown. My father said: When my mother's illness is completely cured, I would rather be separated from my mother than live with my brother. He enjoys raising birds. My point of view has always been that as long as they are happy.

After they left, the house could finally be quiet for a few days. I stayed at home and urged my children to do their homework. I also want to live quietly for a few days, cooking, cleaning the floor, reading newspapers, and drinking tea. Seriously be a housewife for a few days. But just when I was calming down and concentrating on doing housework, the call came that I had to go out this afternoon. When I came back, I asked the eldest child if she had gone to guzheng lessons. The way she hesitated told me that she had missed the time online. I was really angry this time. I had never touched them in my life. Today I asked her to hold hands with them. He reached out and hit it three times with a ruler, and told her: First of all, she must pay for the mistakes she made. Secondly, the reason for doing this is because talking by words is no longer effective. In the end, I thought I was responsible for her and said it was not too late to try hard now.

I watched her enter her room in tears.

Reflections after reading "Children"

I was reading Zhu Ziqing's prose "Children", and the last paragraph inspired me deeply. Naturally, a person's success or failure does not depend entirely on school education; saying that a college graduate is not necessary may be just our prejudice. On this matter, I can't have a definite idea now; especially in this era of constant change, do you know what the future will be like? Fortunately, the children are still young, so let's wait for the future. All that can be done at present is to cultivate their basic strength, mind and vision; children are still children, so naturally they cannot be said to be high or far, and they will gradually start from the near and small. Naturally, I can only follow my own image first. God will make it clear, and it depends on the person. Whether it is glorious, unfortunate, or ordinary, let them do their best. I just hope that I can be a father properly from now on, as I thought, and then I will claim to be satisfied. Yes, children may not always rely on getting a doctorate to find their way in life. From now on, children may be brilliant, unlucky, or ordinary, as long as they do their best. We can't be too demanding. Looking back on the past, I actually still dealt with it savagely according to ancient traditions, a kind of cruel love. Now that I have reached middle age, I gradually feel that I am cruel; thinking about the corporal punishment and scolding that my children have received, and still being unable to justify it, is like stroking old wounds, and my heart feels sour. Cough!

Zhu Ziqing, a literary master in modern Chinese history, created a series of exquisite literary works, such as "Moonlight over the Lotus Pond", "Back View", and "The Qinhuai River in the Shadow of the Sound of Oars and Lanterns" All of them are classics that have been passed down through the ages.

Zhu Ziqing believes that the biggest reason why literary works are attractive is their strong emotions. And his deep and heartfelt emotions are fully expressed in his works of remembering relatives and describing family affairs. Chapters such as "Children", "Back View", and "To the Dead Wife" express the love between father and son, and the love between husband and wife in a truly touching way. When writing about scenery, you can also use the scenery to express your emotions, blend your emotions into the scenery, and wander between the spirit and the objects. In "Moonlight over the Lotus Pond", the melancholy and depressed mood is melted into the delicate description of the scenery, and the true feelings are fully revealed. Although it is just a word or movement, it contains all the temperament. The most amazing thing is its unique interest, which gives Zhu Ziqing's prose a touching and refreshing charm.

The gentle, simple, natural and interesting style is the true nature of Zhu Ziqing's prose creation. Zhu Ziqing's prose embodies a kind of simple beauty, which seems bland at first glance, but it has endless charm and is thought-provoking after reading. The descriptions of characters in his prose often outline vivid characters in concise language; the descriptions of scenery are like a master of painting, with paintings in the text and full of poetry, presenting vivid Chinese landscape paintings. He is also good at using wonderful and vivid metaphors, appropriate personification and other techniques to give natural objects unique taste, making the scenery images graceful, graceful and graceful. Yu Dafu once praised Zhu Ziqing's prose for being full of poetic flavor.

When I finished reading this book, I first felt the practicality of this book for people, especially our teenagers. I think this book will be of great help to our writing. The sentences in Zhu Ziqing's prose are very wonderful, appropriate and coherent. Especially when it comes to some key sentences, it is wonderful. And his prose is even more extraordinary in terms of thinking about the overall structure. The whole prose is very smooth and coherent, and it is not a running list. Each sentence has its own role. The style of his prose and some sentences can make us understand it in the future and even now. can benefit.

Let us get close to Zhu Ziqing with our hearts and slowly taste its fresh, natural and pure beauty like lotus!