Adolescent children are rebellious. How should parents communicate with their children?

We all came from adolescence. In adolescence, we will feel omnipotent, dislike the advice of our families, and be self-centered. In fact, it is normal to be a little rebellious in adolescence, but if it has reached the point where it needs to be corrected, then the following aspects suggest that parents and friends may wish to try it.

First of all, parents need to communicate with their children in a positive way to avoid conflicts as much as possible. Children are in a rebellious period, and simply relying on discipline or even "force suppression" will definitely not solve the problem. It is still necessary to communicate with children and find out their inner thoughts in order to prescribe the right medicine.

At present, the relationship between my great uncle and my adolescent little cousin can be said to be incompatible. When the little cousin is disobedient, the big uncle likes to start work. Once, my little cousin ran away from home after being beaten. My uncle's family was frightened, too. They searched all night and finally found it in an internet cafe. There is no doubt that after I found it, I was beaten again. Finally, the aunt failed to stop her uncle from hitting the child and called the police.

Secondly, parents should first establish trust with their children, show sincere concern for them and communicate with them in a friendly way. Tell your child about your adolescent experience, and then lead to some doubts about your child's adolescence. In the process of communication, don't "turn your face" just because you hear something, and start cursing your children, which will only widen the distance between you.

In addition, parents also need to let go of their prejudices and better understand their children's life experiences, their understanding of the current family environment and other factors that affect their rebellious behavior, so as to have more understanding in communication.

As parents, don't think that children don't know anything, they must listen to themselves. This kind of thinking belongs to "dictatorship". We should put ourselves in the child's shoes and communicate with him and exchange views. We should also strive to create a harmonious and friendly family environment for our children. As an experienced person, I deeply realize that family disharmony will inevitably aggravate children's rebellious psychology in adolescence, which may never be erased.

Finally, parents need to give their children a safe space, give them some autonomy, and let them have the ability to make their own choices. Some things are actually harmless, and there is no absolute right or wrong. At this time, let them decide what to do. There is no need to "think" for children everywhere and then control their lives.

Everyone has adolescence, and the adolescence that belongs to us should also be beautiful. As parents, we have an obligation to create and protect this beauty for our children, instead of blindly accusing and "suppressing". When children are rebellious, they can always find a good solution by communicating more and communicating more according to local conditions.