If you have cancer, do you choose to spend money on treatment or give up treatment?

If I have cancer, I will definitely choose to give up treatment, because I can't be too selfish.

I have thought or dreamed many times that I suddenly got cancer. What should I do? I think many people have the same idea as me. Yes, cancer is really terrible. It can make a person lose hope instantly and feel that life has begun to count down. My family all work in the hospital and often talk to me about what happened in the hospital. The most common is terminal patients. Everyone has different manifestations in the face of cancer. Some people know that they have cancer, crying and feeling that the sky is falling. It's really hard, and they hold their families together. Some people know that they have cancer, but their expressions are not so intense. On the contrary, it is very calm. They walked out of the clinic slowly, walked out of the door slowly, faced their families, smiled, said it was no big deal, just took some medicine, and took it alone at night when their families were not paying attention or crying in the quilt.

I once read a monologue about cancer patients. She said this: My life is coming to an end. I didn't cry. Although I am sad and depressed, I can't help it. Here's the thing. I am very helpless. I don't think it's necessary to watch other patients sigh all day. Sadness cannot be redeemed. Why are you unhappy? My only sadness is my family. I watched them for myself. I'm even sadder than they have cancer. I feel terrible pain. At that time, I was the most helpless and felt that I was the most useless. The reason why I say this is actually to tell you that we only have one chance in this life, so don't think about the afterlife. If you don't want to leave early in your life, take good care of yourself. Don't think that youth is capital. Hehe, I thought so at that time. I am only 30 years old this year.

If it's really unfortunate, you have cancer now. If it's late, just accept it. Chemotherapy, no matter how much it costs, is just the difference between a few days and a few months. But it will cost your family a lifetime or even two, and you will suffer. I don't think it's worth it If you die, you still have to bear your family's debts for life. I feel very selfish, and I have been hit both physically and psychologically. I think I have to be filial. If one day I really get cancer, I will leave a letter, put everything down, pack my bags and go to some places I have always wanted to go, but I can't go for various reasons, such as Dali, such as grassland. It's better to be extravagant and squander my youth, and don't let myself leave at last. I think it's quite boring. Finally, I still want to say that if one day I really get cancer, I will give up treatment, enjoy my last time, and finally be a kind person who is selfish to myself and generous to my family. What did you say?/Sorry?

These are some of my own ideas. If you have the same idea as me, I hope you can pay attention to and support us. We can exchange more things about life and wish everyone peace, health and happiness.

Let me answer this question again. Let's take my sister as an example. At that time, my sister waited on my mother at my house. My two sisters talked about serving because their families were gone. One day, when my sister washed her face, she felt a small pimple on her neck. She went to the hospital to check the film this afternoon. After the doctor saw it, he was examined by a big hospital. It pains me to hear it. I went to the big hospital the next day. I was diagnosed with lymphoma and could not be operated on. Then, before feeling anything, my sister was in good spirits. She can eat, drink, talk and laugh. After returning from Beijing, she went to a big hospital to start chemotherapy. After a course of treatment, her body collapsed directly. The next day, her condition got worse and worse. In the end, she couldn't get out of bed directly. It takes seven or eight months from the start of treatment to the end. I'm sure that if she hadn't had chemotherapy and radiotherapy for at least two years, she might have lived longer. My wife has breast cancer. Through my two experiences, I have come to a conclusion that if I have cancer, I will travel, travel and have fun every day if I have the conditions, and I will be very relaxed. Don't always think I have an incurable disease. Maybe a miracle will happen. I won't return all my savings to the hospital because my family will have to live after I leave. The above only represents personal views, thank you.

If I have cancer, I should first stabilize my emotions, relax and face it bravely, taking it as a necessary hurdle in my life. Think about what else you need to do. What wishes have not come true? Try to finish it in a limited life without regret.

If it is advanced, there is no need to spend money on treatment, because it is both a waste of money and a pain, especially chemotherapy, which kills both cancer cells and normal cells. The human body is abused, which increases the pain and the loss outweighs the gain. It's better to eat and play. Have fun every day. Maybe a miracle will happen. Every cancer patient died not of cancer, but of fear and was scared to death by cancer. When he heard that it was cancer, he collapsed, just like the sky was falling, and he was devastated and sent himself to the grave in advance.

If it is early cancer, you can choose surgery or radiotherapy to solve the main contradiction first. Chemotherapy is not planned because it is too harmful to healthy qi. I will choose traditional Chinese medicine and treat it with the method of strengthening the body resistance and eliminating evil, so as to strengthen my physique and increase my nutrition. Most cancer patients have a bad appetite. If they can't eat or don't eat, they will starve to death. They must eat hard, be able to eat and be nutritious in order to save their lives and defeat cancer cells. Cancer cells are not terrible. What I fear most is a bad attitude. Before the battle began, I collapsed first. That fairy can't save it. A good attitude is better than a panacea. Cancer is like a spring. You are weak, it is strong. Actually, death is not terrible. Sooner or later, as the saying goes, death is not the misfortune of the deceased. People in my hometown regard death as going back to their hometown, and they can go back wherever they want. When I was in my 50 s, I prepared a shroud and was not afraid of teaching. Talk about life and death normally, treat death as death, but be calm. Just be happy every day.

The pain of cancer is now as normal as a cold and fever. Survival is human instinct. But I believe that most people will choose to end their lives as soon as possible without suffering when there is no hope of survival. Euthanasia is impossible in our country. Then take more Demerol and sleeping pills. As we all know, the biggest fear after getting this disease is that people and money are empty. Because the living relatives have to move on. Who can afford "life-saving" drugs of several hundred to several thousand yuan? Even if your relatives borrow from the east and the west, they will chip in to buy this medicine for you. Death, when suffering from this disease, is the final result. Of course, some "cancer" patients do spend a lot of money on treatment. But those are benign tumors.

As the saying goes, it's easy to stand and talk! There are not so many ifs! Only people who really have cancer are qualified to speak! Because what others say is what if! Those who call for euthanasia every day are mostly unfilial sons! Because it's not him who is sick! It is false to be afraid that the old man will suffer, but it is true to spend money! If he has cancer, he has a stronger desire to survive than anyone else! If the child has cancer, parents will never give up! There is a one percent chance that I will do my best! Go bankrupt and borrow from friends and family! I can't even blink my eyes! What about the old man with cancer? Can young people do their best? Rational old people certainly don't watch their children go bankrupt! But can children do what old people do to them? I think it depends on the stage, and there is great hope for early cure. Cooperate with the doctor and don't give up easily. There is only one life before the game. Late conservative treatment. Spend money while you can still move! Travel and read all the rivers and mountains of the motherland! Just relax。 Don't commit suicide when the terrifying summons and goes! It's much better than spending money in the hospital, and finally losing both human and financial resources! I am a cancer patient! I met several cancer friends during the treatment, and kept in touch after discharge, exchanging experience and anti-cancer experience! Encourage each other. Come on! You can't experience cancer. A cancer friend of mine said it very well. He said: A healthy person will never feel the feeling of helplessness and despair when a cancer patient is diagnosed! I hope healthy people understand our feelings! It's not too late to talk about cancer!

If you have cancer, you can't afford to give up treatment, and no one wants to give up treatment if you have money.

I have two examples here.

A friend's uncle has cancer, and he knows it. He asked his son for 0.2 million/200 thousand, and told his family that I was going out to play, not looking for me, even if I could go. After that, my friend's uncle ate and drank well, not at home, and played around. Three years later, my friend was informed that my uncle died more than 300 miles away from home! This is an open-minded life! Since we know that we are going to die, why not leave happily and smartly!

The second example happened to me. A friend who works as a security guard. He and his wife were married for the second time, and his wife followed him for four years before obtaining the certificate. Just 1 October1day, friends get together for dinner. Among those eating, there are several doctors. During the dinner, my friend's wife said that I always feel pain in my right breast these days. Being a doctor's friend is not taboo, just touch it and say, do a color ultrasound in the afternoon! In the afternoon, I went to the hospital, and the doctor gave me a color Doppler ultrasound, which showed the advanced stage of breast cancer. Since then, treatment has begun. The original big house (168 square meters) was rented out, and the small house rented by the couple received chemotherapy once a month 15000 yuan. It's only been four years, and it cost nearly1800,000. He is at work and his wife is alone at home. Sometimes, he has to ask for leave to accompany him to see a doctor, review and submit an expense account. I think this friend is quite bitter.

In fact, I am a patient with advanced lung cancer, and I have deep feelings. Cancer in the prime of life is a great misfortune, which not only destroys the body and mind, but also brings endless pain to the family. If you get this disease, you have to die if you have no money. Indeed, a box of targeted drugs ranges from thousands to tens of thousands, and there is also the cost of chemotherapy and radiotherapy. For ordinary people, returning to poverty due to illness is everywhere. So, it's really hard, really hard.

There is no rehearsal on the road of life, it is an unconditional life and death practice process in front of everyone.

There is only one life, and life is fragile. In order to survive, we are faced with the test of life and death all the time.

Life is to constantly fight against natural and man-made disasters, fight against various diseases, survive in the struggle, grow and develop in the struggle, and end life in the struggle.

Give up treatment and find a way to maintain the continuation of life.

In this dramatic life course, some people can't stand the torture of the disease and give up halfway, while others persist for a while and survive.

Throughout the history of human development for thousands of years, life is constantly updated, and besides other factors, various diseases have occurred throughout the ages.

The human body is an extremely complex and mysterious organism, which needs endless research and exploration in scientific medicine.

Birth, aging, illness and death are irresistible natural laws, although the breakthrough development of science and technology and medical and health care has made great contributions to human health and life extension.

However, the current medical level can only temporarily repair the body suffering from various diseases, and will eventually end in failure because of irresistible diseases.

Cancer treatment according to one's ability

Correctly understanding and handling the relationship between life and death is something that everyone is afraid to face and cannot avoid. In fact, the birth of life, born to die, and dead to live, is a natural law.

In other words, cancer, an incurable disease, threatens people's survival every day, although the survival rate of cancer patients has increased from the past three years to five years through various treatments.

But after five years, no one can match the number of people who have survived. According to my observation, most cancer patients have invested huge sums of money and finally declared the treatment ineffective.

There is a saying that is widely circulated among the people: "It is good to get sick, and the family will die, but if it is not cured, the family will not die." I felt sad and helpless when I heard this sentence.

Who can bear to choose not to die in the face of the pain of their loved ones? Few people do this unless they really have nothing, unless they are really heartless.

Give up treatment and live a few more days with dignity.

If you get cancer, do you choose to spend money on treatment or give up treatment? My point is:

According to the patient's physical condition, treat them separately, do what you can, and choose the most suitable plan before and after the family's economic conditions allow, so as to maintain the continuation of life.

I am a cancer patient, and I have personal experience. I have to give up what I should give up. In the process of treatment, enough is enough and don't overtreatment.

People should not be too selfish, don't give children trouble, knowing that death is coming, and it is not advisable to take money to pave the way.

Look at those people who are lying in hospital beds, with tubes inserted, paying high medical bills and living without dignity. It is better to keep the money and live a high-quality life with dignity for a few days while the body can still take care of itself.