Children don't look at each other and often do ironic things. How can we train him in this respect?

Here we go again. Have dinner with my cousin? Girl time? Is my daughter going, too? Ceng rice? Talk to your brother and have fun. Are there two children at the dinner table? Throw it into the river? Cousin eats dried Chili and coughs all the time. My cousin turned a blind eye. When the daughter saw it, she immediately handed the paper towel, poured her a glass of water and put some fruit in front of her cousin.

Thank you, or you are sensible, aunt likes you best! ? Then he looked at his son and said crossly. You are such a poor child, you can't compare with your sister! ? My cousin was puzzled and showed a puzzled expression. I didn't know what mistake I had made.

Whether it's table manners or chatting together, everyone likes discerning friends and feels comfortable with them. What do you think? In fact, it is a person's emotional intelligence, that is, the skills of dealing with people. People of insight can play a leading role in various occasions, control social atmosphere, or play a supporting role and make various responses.

Welcome such people in life? Social star? ; In the workplace, I am also deeply appreciated by leaders, able to assess the situation and make timely judgments, which has great room for improvement.

What are the obvious manifestations of children with vision? There are mainly these two characteristics.

The first characteristic: I can read the subtext of the other party and react quickly.

Whether getting along with parents or playing with friends, observant children can accurately guess their thoughts when they hear a word from their parents or friends, and then make correct responses. For example, at dinner, mom said? This dish is a little salty? The child will immediately pour water for his mother;

When friends say they don't want to play, children will suggest a rest and take out their own snacks and fruits. They socialize? Insight into the audience? And do not hesitate to make corresponding countermeasures.

The second feature: empathy, knowing how to change words.

The thinker Emerson once said: The so-called? Listening? , that is? Listen. The meaning of.

When socializing, in addition to all kinds of pleasant things, it is inevitable to meet friends with negative emotions. An insightful child can change his mood quickly. For example, when they meet friends who are in a bad mood, they will put down their jokes and comfort each other in a gentle tone, without mentioning their pain, and will use various methods to transfer their negative emotions.

How do parents raise their children? Do you see it? And then what? You can try these two methods.

The first method: teach children to think and judge.

The poet Goethe once said: People should believe that what they don't know can always be understood, otherwise they won't think again.

When you get along with children, you may encounter some tests, on-the-spot reactions or things worth thinking about. Can you estimate them? Brainstorm? Make an all-round thinking and objective evaluation of something and improve your reactive thinking. You can also ask the children? If it were you, which method would you choose? Think it over. ?

I learned to think quickly and make judgments. When I get along with others in the future, I will also think calmly, read each other's subtext and make a correct response.

The second method: often with children? Role playing? .

In their spare time, parents can have sex with their children? Role playing? Cultivate them through practice? Do you see it? In the process of performance, you can deliberately make various emotions, say some subtext, and test your child's on-the-spot reaction. When they have wrong ideas, parents can give them guidance and tell them what needs to be improved in a joking way.

Often, the child's reaction on the spot will be subconscious? Settle down? Form a habitual reaction, and you can react without hesitation when getting along with others in the future.

Message: Society is like a deep sea full of angry waves. Do you see it? It is like a rudder to guide the ship forward, teaching children to assess the situation and change the sailing direction at any time, so that children can ride the wind and waves and reach the harbor of growth. How is the baby's eyesight? Do you usually have quick on-the-spot reactions?