What should I do if my wife doesn't have a job and stays at home without doing housework?

I can bear it for a short time, maybe she is in a bad mood. In the long run, it's not a matter of mood. Divorce if you can't live.

Housework is something that both men and women should do. A family has a division of labor, and both men and women, as the masters of this small family, should bear corresponding responsibilities. Linlin had a lot of love affairs when she was in college, because many boys thought she had a big temper and couldn't cook. Only Jian Kang has always liked her silently, while Jian Kang has always been tolerant of Linlin and her temper, so Linlin agreed with him.

Jian Kang's mother doesn't like girls like Linlin, but her son does, and Linlin's parents are reasonable people, saying that Linlin will definitely not let her do this after marriage. Two people together for five or six years, midway points a few times, Linlin feel healthy to oneself, also married him. Their married life is also very harmonious and beautiful, but later Jian Kang's father died, and Jian Kang didn't trust her mother to live alone in the countryside, so she took her to the city.

A healthy mother, like all mother-in-law, always has problems with her daughter-in-law, especially Linlin, who doesn't do housework after marriage. After two or three years of marriage, Linlin still can't cook and doesn't want to wash clothes. Jian Kang does all these things by himself. Although they all went to work, Jian Kang took more care of Linlin. When my mother-in-law came, she felt uncomfortable and felt sorry for her son.

I had no choice but to say to her, "Linlin, you can't sit around at home. Even without the ancient three obedience and four virtues, you can cook and wash clothes. This is the most basic thing. How can you always let Jian Kang do these things? " Linlin was very unhappy: "I am willing to do what you do and marry your son. I don't want to be your nanny. I didn't say I couldn't do housework, and your son was willing to marry me. "

Mother-in-law is very angry: "How can you do this? Does your mother do nothing at home? Does your father do all the housework? " Linlin was too lazy to talk to her, so he simply ignored her. He still couldn't get out of bed in the morning and didn't pick up dinner. The mother-in-law who loves her son undertakes all the housework. Every morning, she gets up early to cook for both of them. I have to help them wash clothes and tidy up their home. After a long time, Jian Kang felt sorry for his mother.

As a woman, it is unacceptable to anyone if she doesn't even do housework after marriage. The wife in a man's mind is full of femininity first. She should have the most basic qualities of women, that is, thoughtfulness, diligence and family care. If you can't even cook and don't want to do housework, what can you talk about being thrifty?