Three things you shouldn't do in college.

Three things not to do in college 0 1 Don't slack off.

High school teachers often say that it is easy to go to college. That's just a white lie, just to cheer you up in the college entrance examination. Three years after graduating from college, many people will face the problem of getting married and buying a house. If you haven't saved any capital for yourself in these three years, how will you face the most important thing in life?

Some people say that when I graduate and work hard for three years, I will definitely make a difference. I think you really should stop daydreaming. If you tell ghosts, they will laugh at you. After graduation, you should first take care of all your living expenses. I don't think your salary is much except renting a house and eating. At that time, you will think, you have to earn more money, but success has a process. When you hit a wall everywhere and solve all kinds of difficulties, I don't know that three years have passed and the problem of getting married and buying a house is coming.

You know, you spend most of your time at work every day. Except for your rest time, the time left for you to struggle is very small compared with the ample time in college. At that time, you had to fight for your career and get married and buy a house. It's really hard to feel wronged. And that's why three years after graduation, the gap between you and others will get bigger and bigger.

During college, you don't have to worry about trivial things in life, and you don't have to run around the city every day. You can completely calm down and study hard and practice your skills. In this way, when you graduate, you can make money step by step when you get a job or start a business. After three or four years, you can leave some capital for yourself to face the important events in life, so you don't have to be so crazy and impatient.

University is the season of sowing and raising seedlings, and the time from your graduation to getting married and buying a house should be your harvest time.

02 should not be extravagant.

I think your college life, besides the basic living expenses, can have a similar mobile phone and computer. Most people take money from their parents. Parents want you to create more value in the future with your present money, instead of asking you to keep up with the joneses and be vain. In my opinion, the current comparison and vanity are short-sighted. What you don't know is that those people your age who didn't go to college now have their own lives.

You should have your own thoughts and feelings, and then try bravely. You should have your own plan and plan, and then keep your feet on the ground. You should have your own goals and ideals, and then work hard for them. You should have your own pursuit and attitude, and then don't forget your initiative.

What you have to do is to let go of the past aura, calm down, ignore those material temptations, simply move forward, and enjoy the sense of accomplishment after solving difficulties and achieving goals.

03 should not be confused at all.

I remember a book called "Whose youth is not confused". This title puzzles many college students. In fact, after careful reading, the author's confusion lies in clear goals and confusion after encountering difficulties. But now many college students are very idle and confused. Therefore, confusion can be divided into three levels. Don't let yourself be confused and worthless.

Behind the confusion is nothing more than disapproval and laziness. You think the future is far away from you, don't worry. You don't think the future is as terrible as they say, don't worry. If you think you have parents to rely on in the future, don't fight so hard. You like sleeping in so much because you haven't enjoyed the comfortable sunshine and air outside for too long. You like playing games so much because you haven't enjoyed doing something meaningful for too long. You like laziness so much because you haven't tried bravely for too long.

Some people say they want to do something, but they just don't know how. Then try more. If you think of something, just try it. Only after you do it can you really know whether it is feasible or not. When you find what you really want to do, I believe you will forget all about eating and sleeping. No matter what you do, you can't do it overnight. You must insist. Life will repay you at the right time.